Cause like she's legitimately suspicious of me, might devolve into her pulling something stupid
AND BECAUSE SHE'S A NEET AND DOESN'T HAVE SHIT TO DO, SHE KEEPS PESTERING ME

she just keeps coming up with these retarded accusations
I've never gambled in my life
I don't have the money to gamble with wtf

How do y'all neet n afford living

I guess the apple really doesn't fall far from the tree

>>34133360
>why would I?
Self-respect maybe? Or developing some habits like showing up every day. Or re-integrating yourself into the world. Or meeting people outside your home you might learn from. Or just getting a life

>>34133441
I do have a life and meet people, though
wdym re-integrating, I never de-integrated
self-respect? That's exactly the thing keeping away from being a slave
I get enough from renting our shit out
working is a scam and I only intend to participate in it when it benefits me more than it benefits the employer, otherwise it's a waste of time
anyway, off-topic post

>>34133517
If your lifw is so good, why are you bothering us?

>>34133360
Is she disabled? You can get her in a day program so she has something to do. If not maybe she needs schizo meds.

>>34133547
the question is right there, indian, unless you forgot how to read
>>34133558
nah, she's not shizo, just genuinely hysterical
It's just weird, you know? She legit seems to think I do 'evil deeds' as a spy, not in a schizo way, but in a stupid person way
also, she never listens to objectivity and logic, just... shrugs it off
I asked her who would I work for as a spy - russia? china? - I speak neither languages, so how would I even begin to be a spy?
also told her that I'd need at least military or intelligence training to be a spy
and that it's a pretty good profession, if I was a spy, I'd actually earn a wage, and travel everywhere - wouldn't she want that?
she doesn't seem to understand that me being a spy would be contrary to my anti-work policy

>>34133360
>So, how do I ease her retardation?
Move out.

>>34133363
How old? This sounds like dementia.

>>34133360
>So, how do I ease her retardation?
well, first of all, you should take care of yourself
your NEET mom isn't really your responsibility, but if you want to take care of her you can
just realize the difference

secondly, you might want to make sure she has things to do
if she's "falling for AI slop" and having paranoid ideas that you're a spy, she probably doesn't have enough to do & sits on her phone alot of the day
i don't really know what to suggest, but if you can find things for her to do & get her to do them, that might be good
idk if she'd see a therapist, whether you could afford that, etc. but that might give her someone to talk to, if nothing else

thirdly, i'm not sure if you meant you ALREADY HAVE passive income or if you meant you COULD get passive income, but that might be dumb
you should probably just focus on getting any sort of job for now, it would help & give you some autonomy & help you take care of your mom
but it's also good to set your sights higher, learning skills is good & you should be opportunistic
that is based

>>34136500
73
>>34136703
yeah, I don't watch tiktok or youtube at all when not shitting or commuting, but mom watches that literally all day and texts relatives and friends on whatsapp, sending them these gifs with sparkling flowers and bunnies
watches shit about the war in ukraine all day, corrupt politicians, nationalistic clashes, ai slop 'doctors', retarded talking heads
it's just algorithm-based 100% cortisol slop injection to the brain - she's not even subbed, literally sits there watching retards with 98 subs saying retarded shit, and trusts them more than she does me
bro we live in eastern europe, there's no therapists, we don't even really consider them human lmao (talking about your feelings is for pussies + some retarded bitch might put some crazy ideas in her head or make her include her in the will or some shit)
Yeah, we have passive income
her issues stem from the fact that (paraphrasing from my perspective) I don't have a nagging wife, children, a massive loan and a 300$ a month position at some shitty company at 27 so I can (this is literally what she tells me) send her on vacations (the retarded part is that we HAVE money - when I tell her to just use the money we have to go on a vacation, she says it's different and wants ME to send her on vacations, WHICH ARE SHITTY INVESTMENTS MONEY-WISE IN OUR SECOND-WORLD SHITHOLE ANYWAY) - and she's worried that she'll die before she sees all that
basically, she wants me to 'be like everyone else' when she put the absolute minimum into raising me (she fed me and bought me clothes - I'm not shitting you, she actually mentions this shit like it was some selfless sacrifice - she didn't even work - dad did- oh, and I weight 55 kilograms, so...)
It's kind of a clusterfuck lmao

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Also, she kinda sees me as something inferior, like a boy, acts dismissive, dismisses my words, but also sees me as a husband/father figure that she needs to spite
she literally throws tantrums or does things to spite me, same way that teenagers go through their goth phases
she's now in her religious phase because I'm not very religious - she prays all the time
I mean, she married my dad when she was in her late forties, she was single, never married
she's got all kinds of daddy/bro issues
basically, this is what happens when a stupid woman grows up without a father and no one slaps her
I'm surprised no one actually gave her a good slap
I feel like she didn't even really fuck around, either
absolutely broken

>>34136791
>73
>Thinks you're a spy
Take her to a fucking doctor jackass

>>34136810
Nah, anon, she's not retarded or sick - just... actually stupid and narcissistic
I know how women with dementia act - this is not it
she's just... unable to think logically or critically, like a child
a doctor? an eastern european quack's gonna instruct her to do give him 2,000 bucks from her bank account and maybe rape her while she's sedated
besides, there's nothing to cure - she's just stupid
you know how old ladies say dumb, naive, childish shit? That's her, always been like that

>>34136810
Or do you legit think she might have dementia? I just never really thought about it. Probably better to have it checked out, then, right? So she doesn't go full retard and I don't have to wipe her shit or baby her - she wouldn't want that either, says it's the worst thing that could happen to someone. If I were to take her to the doctor, how would I phrase it? She's legit narcissistic, gets defensive and has these weird icks about it and gets offended easily.

>>34136821
>I know how women with dementia act Clearly not because this shit is textbook. Irritability, delusions, no filter.
Literally just ask them to test her for dementia.

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These are the people invading our countries...
SMFH

i've known a person you like who was really insistent that her geriatric mother with obvious dementia was actually just an annoying prick on purpose to hurt her specifically, and let me tell you, that bitch was one of the dumbest, most narcissistic people i've ever known lol

to spell it out, you are that kind of person, regardless of if your mother has dementia or is just losing her mind or whatever, you're coming across as a narcissistic retard yourself with zero self awareness

Had the same kind of mother.

I stopped talking to her. Yelled at her repeatedly whenever she tries to talk to me. Barricaded my door and went in and out through the window. Got a job. Saved up money and moved out.

>>34139643
It doesn't matter if she has aids or whatever. If someone was causing problems they should be held responsible and quarantined from making any further impact.

>>34139708
what a normal thing to say

>>34139575
no we're not, your country's getting invaded by thirdies and I'm perfectly content to be a business owner, collecting passive income + royalties from shit I made in my own country instead of moving too wherever you live
>>34139643
nah, mom's always been unhinged, also she doesn't have dementia, just retardation

>>34139767
And yet I get to live a normal life. Enjoy sleeping with dogs and getting fleas

>why would I?
>proceeds to rant about 20 problems he has with his mom
never change /adv/

>>34139787
there's zero reason for me to move out of my own house, though
also, I shared the issues to give perspective on what kind of person I'm dealing with and because it's hilarious
I'm not asking for moving out advice
I literally asked for one thing - how do I stop my mom from thinking that I'm a SPY of all things, who does 'EVIL DEEDS' - that's the absurd premise, everything else is context
other than that, it's not like she's doing anything else, it's just annoying - there is literally no reason to move out, especially considering that we have a family business that I manage (AFK)

>>34139795
you can't reason with someone who believes things that are so irrational

>>34139801
nah, it's not a delusion, it's more like...
she just legit isn't very smart, but it's not like it's a FERVENT, CONSTANT fixation
I simply don't tell her anything about my personal life, so she just went 'yep, spy'
she's just.. one of these women that never did too much thinking in her life
she's basically a bimbo without the hot part - that make sense?

>>34139812
what the fuck makes you think you will change your 73 year old mother's behavior? move out or keep bitching about it are your only two options

Ever talk to a bimbo? Like some legit childish worldview? You know, not knowing basic shit like how, say, economy stays afloat, or She's like that, but without being attractive
She's basically only read a couple books in her life and she didn't even watch any movies except for a couple - her brain is a void
>>34139819
I am not bitching, though, you're free to leave the thread if it triggers your autism
I'm literally asking a stupid question - how to make her stop thinking I'm a spy
I already told you that moving out is not an option - are you retarded? I've got a family business and royalties and a house why tf would I move out?
this isn't some serious problem, I'm just asking on how to make my mom stop thinking I'm a spy

>how to make her stop thinking I'm a spy
Distraction with another fixation

>>34139855
She unironically has ADHD brainrot at this point, 24/7 tiktok/youtube - not even the long videos, but shorts
she needs several distractions lmao, she multi-tasks her hysteria

this thread is going to turn into OP endlessly turning down suggestions of any value and refusing to come to any reasonable conclusions because he's not looking for advice, this is either bait or he's looking for someone to give him very specific answers he's looking for that no one can actually provide here

i hope your mom grows so paranoid about you being a spy that she chooses to kill you

>>34139911
you seem very angry, I'm sorry for your autism
I'm not sure what counts as a valuable suggestion for you, but I didn't receive any from you specifically

>>34139968
An autistic indepedent adult beats a fatass living off of the government. Go do your life with your supposed genius reasons. The rest of us have better things to do than spiral down into nothing but a pothead who whines no one gets him. Fuck winning arguments. Winning life is where it is at.

>>34139980
oh, I see - you're actually personally angry - it's interesting because you're losing at both - and I never claimed... genius? and I don't live off government, but my royalties
stay poor, and stay mad, anon

>>34140055
I don't know what you are talking about.

>>34140059
of course you don't, just put the fries in the bag, rajesh/ahmed

>>34140063
Don't care.

>>34136791
ah ty for the info
sounds a bit more complicated :/

>>34136791
>It's kind of a clusterfuck lmao
those were my thoughts lol
you seem chill, i hope you and her will be alright
it might be best to brush off the demands/fears when you can, just treat her decently & focus on moving forward in life i guess

>>34133441
>Self-respect
>Wage slaving
I'd legit fall on my floor laughing like a madman if I wasn't already lying on my sofa. I respect prostitutes and OF whores more than wageslaves.

>>34140186
that's propaganda, anon
these >>34133441 are good points
i thought maybe the jobs available in eastern europe were completely fucked like the doctors (from what you've said), but if THAT'S your reason for not looking for a job, it's self-destructive

you know in places like china or brown countries, they don't have any sort of stigma against "wage slavery"
that term is a product of a decadent society, and it only makes people weak

that doesn't mean you should take shit jobs with horrible coworkers/bosses & low pay, you should definitely have some sort of standards & know what you're looking for
but come on, man

but regardless of whether it's propaganda or not, the situation you're in sounds frustrating, and apparently you don't have enough passive income if your mom is sitting around on her phone & you're posting on 4chan about your situation
a job COULD (completely depends on the job) open up opportunities, either directly or indirectly through the poeple you meet & things you learn, weird opportunities, in order to change your situation quickly
it could be a good thing