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My first instinct when some bitch is giving me signals is to out right ignore them and treat them like they don’t exist


Am I autistic?
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>>34135904
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/2wcGdI78dIM

You're not autistic, you're a sigma.
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they are not your type.
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>>34135934
They are my type
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>>34135945
kay then what gives. you scared? the venue awkward? this a work group or friend group thing? you a virgin still?
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>>34135954

I can get hesitant at first sure, but when I actually talk to girls I do fine

What happens more is I would be at a bar/club theres repeated eye contact she moves closer, obvious signals — and I do not engage at all I literally avoid looking at her, almost like I shut it down on auto pilot

And no not a virgin
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>>34135904
How do you know if a woman is giving you signals?
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>>34135991
Repeated eye contact (multiple times not accidental) then proximity

sometimes moves closer and positions herself where it’s easy for you to talk to her

I pay attention and its obvious. Women don’t tend to hide interest in those settings
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>>34136004
fml
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>>34135904
Groucho Marx Syndrome

Groucho once joked that he would never join any club that would accept someone like him as a member.

You think so little of yourself that there must be something wrong with any woman who likes you.
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>>34135904
Ya dog cute :)))
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OP has it backwards. Women are giving him signals because he's ignoring them.
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women give signals?
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How do they react? I've seen some crazy shit when they try to get my attention.
Which doesn't necessarily work in their favor.
Stalking, one stole a pair of my fucking shoes to wear them. Setting up scenarios trying to make me jealous.
Do not like.
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>>34137708
Thanks :) she was saved from a shelter.
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>>34138270

Honestly most of them just keep it pushing. They clock the non response and move on like normal adults

Once in a blue moon someone will actually come up and talk to me but that’s rare. Im not getting stalked or any of that stuff lol
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>>34137442
I dont think there’s something “wrong” with women who like me and I don’t think lowly of myself either If anything it is more like once interest is obvious I shut down and disengage
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>>34135904
because you a real nigga
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>>34135904
>>34135980
I do this too and I'm pretty sure it's because of bad past experience. Maybe you've developed an aversion to women because you associate dating with embarrassment or stress from dealing with crazy bitch shenanigans.
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>>34135904
Youre not horny enough. Usually that overrides that autistic shut down you have. You lack experience. Exposure therapy works.
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>>34135904
You’re afraid that they will be disappointed when they find out more about you. It’s like a defense mechanism to save yourself from embarrassment.



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