[a / b / c / d / e / f / g / gif / h / hr / k / m / o / p / r / s / t / u / v / vg / vm / vmg / vr / vrpg / vst / w / wg] [i / ic] [r9k / s4s / vip] [cm / hm / lgbt / y] [3 / aco / adv / an / bant / biz / cgl / ck / co / diy / fa / fit / gd / hc / his / int / jp / lit / mlp / mu / n / news / out / po / pol / pw / qst / sci / soc / sp / tg / toy / trv / tv / vp / vt / wsg / wsr / x / xs] [Settings] [Search] [Mobile] [Home]
Board
Settings Mobile Home
/adv/ - Advice


Thread archived.
You cannot reply anymore.


[Advertise on 4chan]


File: 1767746315159003.jpg (87 KB, 960x925)
87 KB
87 KB JPG
He met me with plucked eyebrows, saw a picture of my eyebrows before I started plucking them and said he likes my old eyebrows more than my current. I understand that if I want a relationship I need to be ok with my partner thinking those things about me, my previous made even worse comments, but my question is how do I cope with the hurt? I can't talk to him about it cause he got upset and left me for the rest of the day, which I accept. My eyebrows won't grow back since plucking works like that, I like my current eyebrows but there is a surgery where they put hair from your head to your brows and if I could afford it I'd get it for him t b h even though I know he would still dislike them. For the record I find him like I found the previous person I dated perfect since I love like that. And yes I am aware I am annoying this is why I am asking here so I stop. Tldr how do I date people when they will always find flaws in you?
>>
>>34136645
Babe I think he was just trying to give you a compliment and boost your self esteem by complimenting your natural eyebrows and imply that you didn't have to keep plucking them for him
>>
>>34136652
Idk if you are male or female anon but that is not how eyebrows work they don't grow back after plucking
>>
>>34136655
No shit sherlock I'm implying he did not know that. There we solved your LARP's issue.
>>
>>34136668
I understand but my original issue stands
>>
>>34136645
>Get a compliment
>Takes it as an insult
>>
>>34136645
"Well, I prefer it this way. Live with it."
>>
>>34136645
You just take it to the chin that's all there is to it. If he does it too much and you don't like it then you either keep enduring or break up. You can't control what others do and you shouldn't depend on them so much because of that.



[Advertise on 4chan]

Delete Post: [File Only] Style:
[Disable Mobile View / Use Desktop Site]

[Enable Mobile View / Use Mobile Site]

All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties. Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.