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purely hypothetical question:

your son brings a girl home who is obviously loose: alt clothes, tats, cutting scars. if he said it's just a FWB you would high five him. but he says she is the gf. now how do you teach him what happens when you date such women? let him find out from experience himself and waste his precious youth? what if you want your kid to have kids of his own early, so you can help instead of being a burden on the future family when you need to be taken care of yourself?

asking this question on reddit would obviously end with me being labeled controlling asshole and misogynist, so I am asking here.
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>>34136951
Is this son over 18? Then he's old enough to make his own decisions and deal with the consequences. If he's still living at home though then I'm kicking him out immediately, because I'm an adult who has learned my own lessons and I don't want anything to do with someone like that.
>labeled
Oh no not le labelling! Pussy.
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>>34136961
it does not matter how old the son is, I would take care of my child until I die. you also do not automatically turn into an actual adult at 18 years except legally
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>>34136967
>i am a cuck
wierd flex but ok. also, this is why your son brought home an alt girl (m) with tats, cutting scars, and a raging case of borderline personality disorder.
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>>34136973
>having strong family values
>cuck
ok then
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>>34136951
Honestly I would be happy if my son brought home a girl like this mmm All girls are slutty and loose at least this girl is honest about her ways idk lol
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I already had that talk with my teenage sons. it boils down to
>pursue many women, gain experience and knowledge
>have fun with the crazy ones
>choose the healthy one who loves you the most for a serious relationship
>if you get a woman pregnant, your life is over
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>>34136951
I would promote using protection above all else, so there's no kids. Then whatever they're doing will end in under a year probably.
Anyway, I am not sure that there's anything you can do to make your son have kids early. My parents tried to make me, but I don't want kids period. Humans are independent.
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>>34137119
You don't need protection you can just learn to pull out this never failed me.
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>>34136951
>your son brings a girl home who is obviously loose: alt clothes, tats, cutting scars.
>If he said it's just a FWB you would high five him
Why the fuck would I high five him? I'd be disappointed either way, because it means my son is clearly autistic as shit and can't read social danger at all.
>"Yeah good job son, HIGH FIVE, let's both get hype for the inevitable emotional and mental torture games & probable false rape accusation! Good going little Timmy!"
No sane parent would do this.

>let him find out from experience himself and waste his precious youth?
Yes let him find out, but not before he's told to his face what fuck-ups he's about to make.

>what if you want your kid to have kids of his own early, so you can help instead of being a burden on the future family when you need to be taken care of yourself?

If my son wants kids he'll get kids. If he doesn't he doesn't, it's his choice. But one thing is for sure: Having kids with a mentally ill BPD-coded alt-chick is the fastest way to ruining your life. If he procreates with that, I ain't supporting it.
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>>34137137
Why would your son high five you? I'd feel so embarrassed omg mom fuck off pfff My dick hurts can you massage it please, with your mouth maybe xd



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