So there's this dude at work. Everytime I see him he ignores me and treats me like I don't exist. I say hi to him, he doesn't even look at me. If I have to get something by him, physically, and I say you mind if I grab that behind you, he still treats me like I don't exist. When I walk by him in the hallways he has a straight face and avoids eye contact with me.He doesn't speak to me at all. Or acknowledge my presence. It's like I killed his mother or something.What do I do?
>>34136968he's just a super shy introvert guy
>>34137002No he's not like that at all. I've seen him talking to other people. He has no problem speaking and socializing.
>>34136968>What do I do?Nothing.
>>34136968Intimidated by you, jealous of you, tries to put you down because he's scared and has deep myriad insecurities
>>34137013Oh and to answer the question what do I do, unless your job depends on him I would ignore him too and try to make my life outside of work better so that this doesn't affect me so much. Keep an eye out if he does something that's ACTUALLY wrong and citeable, then use that to present it to his boss. The first sign of slip up + a report by you when it's actually righteous will be enough to make this dude quit. He probably lives for the fear of you
>>34137013>>34137016That is interesting. I never thought that THEY could be intimidated by me. Hmm.
>>34136968You are a self obsessed whiny woman. He notices this and he steers clear of you.
>>34136968he is intimidated, most people are intimidated at my presence I have to tone my aura down to fit in.
>>34136968is it some kind of bullying thing? or is he autistically avoiding contact/interaction?> I say hi to him, he doesn't even look at me.this sounds highly disrespectful and I wouldn't let that shit fly. if you ignore this kind of behavior you're being a pushover and you're priming yourself for workplace bullying / harrassment
>>34136968>What do I do?Why do you care? Why do you keep reaching out to someone who clearly wants nothing to do with you? Why do you want his attention so bad? People don't have to talk to you just because you want them to.
>>34137090If a homeless person says hi to you do you feel obligated to give them reply?>>34137113OP is an attention whore :/
>>34137045>You are a self obsessed whiny woman>>34137117>OP is an attention whore :/Fascinating.
>>34136968I do this to a a couple of people at work. It's because I don't like them. I know they are harmless I know they mean well I know objectively speaking there's nothing explicitly wrong about them. I still don't like them and I elect to avoid interacting with them. The reason for my dislike is because they're social try-hards: They never shut up, they constantly interrupt, they constantly overshare, they constantly pry and peck 100 questions at me, they distract my focus and I am trying to fucking WORK. I am at my job to get the work over and done with so I can go home. If I wanted to socialise I'd go somewhere to do that, if I am at work it means I am at WORK I am not a fucking character in the Sims for them to wander up to and try to maxx out a friendship gauge, and every single time where I am clearly busy and doing something they wander up to me like I should stop whatever it is I'm doing and orbit around their main character syndrome FriendQuest™ and indulge in their word vomit just to make them feel better about themselves.
>>34137163You prove my point dummy. You feel attacked by my comment and now you try to say>no you
>>34136968Not everybody is friendly and trusting and open. In my honest opinion, unless you can think of any interaction you've had that would have given him a negative impression of you, he sounds naturally grouchy. Maybe you remind him of somebody who screwed him over in a way thats significant to him, maybe the people you see him interact with have built up a working relationship with him over time that you weren't able to witness. To me it says more about his personality than his opinion or impression of you.
>>34137186Work is for suckers. You should become self employed if you don't like socializing in the workplace imo just sharing my 2 cents.
>>34137117workplace dynamics are a lot more important and have a lot more longlasting consequences than your homeless exampleif coworkers witness OP being ignored/disrespected on the regular at the office, this will alter their behavior towards OP and ultimately this will also impact OP's career
>>34137206Nta but what do you suggest? Someone should play caretaker to the yapping colleague and be his reputation manager for him to make sure the other kiddies at work play nice? It's not a fucking nursery it's a workplace.
>>34137206I agree with you but I don't read OP as being disrespected. I read it as I want attention from specific x colleague but he ignores me.
>>34137187All I said was fascinating. I'm not even OP lmao.
>>34137274I didn't assume you were OP I thought you were another anon that felt insulted in OP's place.
>>34137284>the sky is red>no the sky is blue>yea that's what I saidlol retard
>>34137305Why do you twist my words. I am not trying to pick a fight with you calm down woman.
>>34136968So act accordingly what else can you do?
>>34136968FI know a girl who is exactly like this to meSome people say she’s jealous of me (god knows why) I think she just doesn’t like me and wants to psychologically torture me
>>34137440Honestly if a woman would treat me like this in the workplace I wouldn't care but I would likely fap to her a lot. >>34137440>psychologically tortureThat is a bit dramatic xD
>>34137607I just found it shocking that a grown woman was acting like a middle schooler with a grudge towards me I’m over it now
