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How is it to actually date one? I'm tired of dealing with mentally ill women & am now considering a mentally ill man. Can it be any worse even in the short term?
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Probably a great time if you're a homosexual man.
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>>34137268
honestly just like any normal woman + gender dysphoria. my gf is trans, what do you want to know?
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>>34137285
When did you realize you were gay?
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>>34137285
How is it on a day to day basis? Are there any mental hang ups? Basically just want to know what general experience is.
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>>34137300
I love my gf and I don't think about her being trans unless she brings it up in the context of gender dysphoria. Mentally I was never really bothered by it. She's like a great woman but has some social issues that I think arise from not seeing herself as a woman.
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>>34137308
You don't have a girlfriend you retarded faggot.
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I have experience with trans women but it was only sex. I found them on apps, a lot of them turned out to be prostitutes (no, I didn't pay) a lot of them also did drugs, one of them took out a little bottle of popper I think it was to sniff while she was fucking me, another told me to wait before going to her place because she did cocaine and couldn't get hard or wasn't horny something along those lines, another one wanted to do drugs and do no condom. It's quite the filthy and disgusting world to be honest, and they are 100% extremely promiscuous because their entire life revolves around sexuality so the chances of contracting STDs is incredibly high if you have sex with a trans person. After the one that took out the popper flask I quit hooking up with trans women forever and haven't looked back, I was so afraid of having contracted an STD. I guess I'm not really answering your question but I think the information is relevant and to be considered. LGBT people are usually turbo promiscuous, and I guess you can include me in there since I have had sex with trannies and I have a highish body count (ironically inflated by the trans encounters lmao) So be careful man. Oh and lastly unless you get the golden shiny turbo rare one the male body structure is 100% obvious and it can't really be concealed. Also the smells and touch, it's obvious it's not a biological woman, it's like using make up but on a biological level. It can fool you from afar but once you are close you just know, just like with make up. Honestly thinking back what the fuck was I doing with my life.
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>>34137268
It will absolutely be worse. Women are bad because they lie covertly. Trannies are bad because they lie overtly. With trannies there isn't even the thin veneer of honesty or integrity, they're just openly evil in every way. Better to either be celibate, search for a rare decent woman, or just be gay with men than to enable mental illness in another person. Not only will it ruin your life, but when he kills himself his blood will be on your hands.
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>>34137285
>>34137308
Honestly pretty based. Probably voice and exaggerated mannerisms would really get on my nerves though, is this an issue for you?
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>>34137598
>t. foid
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>>34137268
Dated a troon once. Smelled like a guy a little. Voice didnt bother me but depends on how they actually sound I imagine. Mine was pretty mentally ill about being Trans, would self harm and have weird little episodes from time to time, didnt love that. Sex and sex drive was great, cuz I love fucking ass. Also it was awesome that she actually had hobbies and interests and didnt need to be showered with attention and babysat like every woman ive dated. But still, no kids so it wasnt viable long term. If you dont mind being seen in public with a tranny and you think you'll enjoy it. Worst case you just break up. Dont get aids tho and dont let your weird fetish make you go for the first tranny that shows you any attention. Find one that passes enough and is cool.
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>>34137268
I dated a trans girl for about a year. Honestly, it was great. She was lucky, in that she'd been diagnosed early and put on puberty blockers, so she really did pass 100%: female skin, female hands, female voice, no Adam's apple. She spent a lot of time with my family, and no one ever guessed she was trans. Even her vagina was surprisingly convincing: it didn't get wet in quite the right way, and of course there was no cervix, but I'm not 100% sure I would have noticed right away if she hadn't told me. Other than that, it was exactly like dating a cis woman.
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>>34137268
>mentally ill and hormonal
>mentally ill and hormonal with shit on your dick
not sure I see the attraction either way, but then I'm not a fag.
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>>34137308
>not seeing herself as a woman
if he actually had gender dysphoria then he would see himself as a woman though. That's kind of the definition of dysphoria. You're just fucking a faggot that likes swishing around in heels.
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>>34138389
This post was 100% made by a groomer. You aren't fooling anyone with that "convincing vagina" bullshit.
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>>34137377
Based poster
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>>34137268
>not mentally ill
>women
Pick one
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>>34138389
>She was lucky
Lmfao, people that think surgeries are anything but a last resort when it's truly needed have never had a surgery. After you get a surgery you get used to it and you don't notice but it's NEVER the same again. Also it's painful as fucking shit. Anyone sensible and intelligent enough would never get any type of surgery unless it's a 100 % necessary for survival and functionality. Doesn't matter who you are never get done anything as invasive and aggressive as surgery to your body unless it's completely necessary. You will be better off.
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>>34137268
>I'm tired of dealing with mentally ill women
You're in for a really bad time.
I dated a trans girl for a brief period during covid.
She ghosted me after she was committed after trying to kill her roommate after mixing her SSRI with alcohol.
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>>34143093
>she
You dated a mentally ill man.
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>>34143101
You should talk to your therapist about your obsessions with pronouns.
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I had a dream tonight about cumming in my fat white beautiful ex, sucking my cum out of her pussy, and making out with her sucking it out and back into her mouth repeatedly. She loved it because that's how I remember her - a total sex lover for me.
I hate that I can't have this again
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>>34139244
You are an idiot. I do hope you realise this one day.
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>>34137285
>like any normal woman
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>>34137268
Imagine never being able to go out in public without feeling an immense amount of primordial shame that you never get used to.
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>>34137377
God damn bro, sorry that happened to you
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>>34138389
And everyone clapped
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>>34137268
I've fucked plenty, but I would never date any.
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>>34137660
trans women that voice train properly are indistinguishable from a woman's voice, but a lot of trannies don't do the full voice training
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>>34144080
This is bullshit. Most people can't change their voice.
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>>34144108
trans voice training is actually a pretty involved process, additionally there's always vocal surgery for those who can't
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>>34139244
Surgery is generally not something one should consider if there are equally effective alternatives, but when there *aren't* equally effective alternatives, it's foolish *not* to consider it.

But in any case, what was lucky about her situation wasn't anything surgical, it was the fact that she had been on puberty blockers. That meant that, even in a bikini, she was able to pass perfectly. If she'd been forced to wait till she was 18 before starting hormones, the end result would have been far less satisfactory.
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>>34137268
if you wanted genuine advice from people whove dated trans women you'd ask the question differently
this is a social tension spam thread
useless mod team
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>>34144108
>Most people can't change their voice.
Bizarre statement. Have you never heard of countertenor singers? Do you think they don't train?
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>>34144148
If he had been forced to wait until he was 18 he likely would have realized he wasn't "trans" at all, and would have gone on to live a happy and healthy life. Which would obviously be far more satisfactory than continuing to live a lie with a mutilated body.
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>>34138389
I simply don't believe you.
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>>34144519
She *did* go on to lead a happy and healthy life.
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>>34146255
no, he didn't. nobody who has to lie to himself every day of his life is happy.



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