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How do I stop attaching my self worth to what women think?
If a woman likes me I feel like great and if one doesn't like me I feel terrible.
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>>34137672
start accomplishing some shit
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>>34137672
Monitoring this thread because I have the same fucking problem. When I don't have sex for long periods of time I feel like shit.
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>>34137729
>>34137672
Op's hero sam lives in a pile of garbage and only has sed with men. He's happy and you're not. What does this tell us about you?
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>>34137739
He's on drugs, nigga.
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>>34137745
Sam or OP? I often feel like i'm on drugs too. I get a little manic a lot.
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>>34137765
Sam obviously, duh.
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>>34137785
I don't think he's on drugs. He's on roids. Drugs might actually help him relax. He should drink occasionaly, but he doesn't because he has daddy issues. His dad is a drunk with anger issues.
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>>34137793
Why should he drink?
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>>34137809
To relax. If you become the opposite of your dysfunctional parents, you are still defined by them.
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>>34137820
Drinking is bad for the gainz though.
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>>34137836
So is dealifting with poor form. Sam did that and destroyed his back permanently.
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>>34137848
That's why I prefer the machines over freeform.
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>>34137918
I just prefer cardio. It's the main stuff i do. I do try to build strenght too, but i am very cautious with that.
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>>34137949
Yeah. Cardio is cool too. Does calesthenics count as cardio too? You know, like lifting your legs up 90° while hangin from a bar.
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>>34137672
>How do I stop attaching my self worth to what women think?
By realising women don't want you to care what they think either. They'd prefer the man to recognise her feelings, not her thoughts. The woman's thoughts are like hot air or passing a fart, you can safely ignore them so long as you attract least acknowledge her feels. If you focus on a woman's thoughts you'll always get bent out of shape. Women will think and say of the most polarising and extremely irrational shit on a dime, if you take it seriously you'll start wounding your own ego over that shit. Instead what you do is ignore whatever the fuck the woman is thinking and pay attention to the feelings underneath the thoughts. 9/10 times its always innocent shit, non threatening shit, just cries for attention or appreciation or a desire to be helped in some way. You need to remember: You are a Man with a capital M. You will always be twice her muscle mass, twice her weight usually, an a foot taller than her. If you are similar height or build doesn't matter, you still outrank the woman in raw muscle and bone density and even reflexes. You don't even need to posture or convince the woman of these facts, every woman understands this power difference. You need to understand it too, because when you do, you'll stop being so scared of what they think.
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>>34138035
>Instead what you do is ignore whatever the fuck the woman is thinking and pay attention to the feelings underneath the thoughts
This also applies to yourself. This is how one intropsects correctly. If you see the feelings, you understand what really motivates you and what holds you back.
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>>34137672
check out Admiral Paul saveahoe on Youtube.
And also Klaus Thiele, who was his teacher.
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>>34138605
Can you give the tldw, I dont need more slop to waste my time on
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>>34138605
samefagging...
also i had a very shit gf who burned my passport while on vacation. she claimed it to be because of "high magick". i don't know to be honest... fucked me up, though.
and then i had the red pill from these guys.
i guess i was lucky.
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>>34138609
>German
(but i guess you can use subtitles and translator)
>scientific evidence on the whole topic.
>explains the whole dynamic
how can i put it...
he discusses the neurobiology of women vs men.
he discusses the domesticated man by estar villar (idk if i spelled her name correctly) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Manipulated_Man
he discusses online dating apps.
he disucces certain books of interest
really... i can tell you that he is outputting high quality content.
Admiral Paul saveahoe is a German Psychologist who was left by his wife and did not know what was going on. So he hit the books, again to figure it all out. really detailed.

nothing beats a really bad experience, though.
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>>34137672
Become a woman and like yourself. Infinite self worth glitch. Or it could go the opposite way and you loathe yourself as a woman and that just makes it worse. You could also just stop caring what women think of you entirely by just getting your shit together and having some intrinsic worth instead of being a person who lets other people's judgements cloud your path forward



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