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>be me
>overprotected by my mother as a kid
>my dad once beat me up when he saw I have an erection in my bed when I was 8
>somewhat broke parents and their broken promises they could've keep
>my life when I was 8-15 years old: "don't do this, don't do that, no you can't have a bicycle it's le dangerous, racing sim wheel is for kids, you can't cross the road (yeah hearing this one at the age of 13 is my fav), don't talk to that girl, don't go there, they'll kill you, they'll give you drugs, don't go outside, don't invite anyone in, etc
>many other traumatizing things
>probably OCD and ADHD (both don't exist it my country)
>was slightly bullied at school for two years (like "hey anonname where's your backpack" - it was in the girl's toilet)

flashforward to this day

>32yo
>5"9 and skinny
>neet
>ugly face
>live with my parents
>kyphosis (no, it's not a mask from Skyrim)
>my fellow countrymen don't like me because I'm a mutt (it's like being a muslim in 00's America)
>my government wants me dead (for the motherland)
>so getting a comfy and safe job is impossible
>foreigner citizenship by descent is not an option
>today my dad told me that by the age of 33 Jesus already had followers and I have nothing, not even a wife or kids
>9 years ago I fell in love with a girl, I wanted to be liked by her so I started to act like a man and even found a job, she didn't give a f about me so it was all over in 6 months
>I have no skills, except maybe for drinving a car, I can feel it naturally, but in traffic this is stressful and dangerous today, so again - not an option. I'm not forklift certified and I'm too scared to get it now because it's basically the same thing as getting a tank drinving license


What do I do now, bros? Am I salvageable?
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>>34137860
>i'm a mutt
I'm calling ICE
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>>34137935
I'm LEGAL
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>>34137951
>AS LONG AS THEY'RE LEGAL
MAGA patriots say this, but you know they don't actually mean kt.
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>>34137860
You are salvageable, but based on what you're saying you are going to need professional help.

The number one priority would be to get as far away from your dad as possible. Not something easy to do in this economy, but you will be forever mind controlled by him if you don't move out.
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>>34137860
>today my dad told me that by the age of 33 Jesus already had followers and I have nothing, not even a wife or kids
Now when I think about it... why Jesus? Is he fucking retarded, why would anyone compare his son to Jesus?
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>>34138200
>Not something easy to do in this economy,
You're right.

I've seen a few stories just like mine. There are two possibilites: you move out as soon as you turn 18, or you suffer untill the fucking monster dies from old age.

I had a chance to get out when I was 18, but I had no good friends and I was held in captivity by my paretns and their promises. I was then bullied by my parents for that one my attempt to escape
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>>34139648
Or move out whenever.
The best thing to do is to get friends. Kinda hard if you're raised by your parents to be antisocial so unlearn that first. Do literally everything they told you. (Know the difference between literally and liberally you karens)
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>>34139677
Why would anyone want to be friends with a 32yo neet?
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>>34139794
Neets can have friends
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>>34139863
Do you have 30yo +neet friends?
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>>34137860
If you don't like your life, change it.
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>>34140169
How?
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>>34140193
1 Pick one thing about your life you don't like
2 Decide what you would like it to be like instead
3 Figure out what it would take to achieve that
4 Do what needs to be done
5 Pick another thing you don't like
6 Repeat as needed
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>>34141165
cool, thanks
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>>34139978
Yes.
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>>34137860
Convert to Judaism
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>>34141718
How can it help?
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>>34139648
>you move out as soon as you turn 18, or you suffer untill the fucking monster dies from old age
I have no idea where you got this from, but it sounds like mind control by your sick parents. People can move out at any age.



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