Do women really approach men? What are the signals and signs that a woman wants you?
Extremely rare unless you are a chad. I would imagine they would come up and say something like "hi... :-)"
>>34138384They try to set up situations for men to approach them mostly.
>>34138384>What are the signals and signs that a woman wants you?Strong eye contact. Also, they will sometimes stand next to you. Yes, they literally stand next to you and think that is obvious enough.
>>34138384If her nipples harden in front of you it might be a sign she likes you. Or it's just a little chilly.
Im no chad by any means, im like a 6 face wise. But im decently tall and workout and i dress like a loonatic. I guess you'd call it peacocking. Women approaching to me is one of them saying they like my outfit as i pass by in a club or bar. SUPER RARELY I've had one just come up and start talking. That has only happend like twice.
they do but in my experience they were always very odd/awkward interactions that caught me off guard because they don't have the slightest clue about how to properly approach someone they likethey put subtle signals out into the ether and expect you to pick up on them like some kind of wizardit also probably doesn't help that i'm super retarded, if i were smart i could have capitalized instead of realizing after the fact
>>34138384if they talk to you at all or look at you
>>34138384They do. It happened when I was younger and my friends and I would go out to night clubs. It’s kind of just natural, you causally start talking to people and dancing. It comes naturally if you aren’t autistic and interact with people regularly. Maybe try doing that first if that’s something you struggle with
>>34138384Well no. Otherwise you wouldn’t need "signals and signs", they would just, you know, actually approach you>noooo, girls approaching is different, it means they give this very minimal amount of interest which means that now you may do all the work, and still nothing is guaranteedfuck you
she talks to you a lot>>34138421i'm a weirdo and i've been approached by cuties
>>34138421Incel take. 99% of the time it’s a woman indicating she’s open to being approached by YOU, by making eye contact or being physically close to you. Even retarded autists like you might catch a woman’s eye, but since you’re too deficient to pick up signs you just assume women are supposed to come up to you offering a handshake saying “hi :)” That CAN happen but for every 1 woman who might’ve initiated saying hi, there were 10+ others who were just eyeing you, and it doesn’t take some magical psychic mind reading to pick that up>>34144523News flash, men and women are different and so is the social dynamic as a result
>>34138384>enter store>blonde piece at the register immediately looks at me, catches me looking at her>stand behind her and check out her ass a bit>she turns around to look at me then looks at me as she walks away and catches me looking at her againshould have picked her up then and there but i'm in a ~*~situationship~*~ and i would feel bad if i fucked a random womansigh
>>34138384i worked as a bartender for two years. yes women definitely approach men and they tend to be very pushy too, they have no concept of sexual harassment. im married and the women at work made me genuinely uncomfortable on more than one occasion. i had an older female coworker get drunk and straight up grab my dick once. not funmen get a lot of shit for how they hit on women but lmfao women are far worse. but most men are horny desperate retards (i was too, at one point) so we don't complain
>>34145111Can't relate unfortunately.
>>34145144not as great as you think. unless you're looking for casual sex with drunk whores, you're not missing outthere was only one (1) woman whose flirting i enjoyed. it was a goth girl at a rave-themed event. she asked for my number and i declined, telling her i was married. she then reached out to pat my head and said "awww, what a good boy... good, loyal boy"but that's a one in a million type of interaction, and that was one girl out of the thousands i served drinks to.
>>34145169>she then reached out to pat my head and said "awww, what a good boy... good, loyal boy"
>>34138384>Do women really approach men?Yes, but not you.
>>34138384They stare at you. They'll sometimes smile while they walk by. They'll stand close in your vicinity. She'll come up to you to ask you a random question.Basically she's setting it up for you to take the signal and begin the conversation and rizzing.Some women are occasionally more overt about it, but usually they're red flags.
>>34138384I have no idea anymore. Last time I was hanging out with a girl we went out the movies, I tried being cuddly with her but she did not reciprocate at all. She did not move in closer or even react. I then asked what we were doing afterwards, as in what's going on between us, because I held her hand to my car, but she said "Yeah I guess I could see myself dating you..." and I figured she was letting me off easy and afraid of a negative reaction from me. I kind of backed off after that and then she kept asking to come over and watch a movie. Again, I tried to get cuddly and close to her but she suddenly said she was having anxiety issues and wasn't comfortable with us being physical. I totally backed off after that. No way am I making a move on a girl that uses the line "I'm uncomfortable being physical with you." She then kept wanting to hang out at my place and watching movies a couple times after, but I slowly just disengaged and no longer talk to her. I guess she just wanted to kill time or something??Honestly have no idea what that was about. I just gave up completely with women.
>>34138384No. even Chad's don't get a approached, or if they do it's in that stupid Goof Troop way women act when they think they are showing a guy they are interested.Imagine if a guy walked up to a woman and started spouting meaningless nonsense and then started imitating her speech patterns and tone. Just ridiculous.
>>34145679A lot these "first moves" from women sound incredibly vague and could easily be mistaken for something else
>>34144676>>34138384Never in my life have I been approached by a woman (no, that drunk ass one in a bar doesn't count, she was barely conscious at the time).None of my friends have ever been approached by women. They also had zero luck when they tried.Even the one friend that had 2 girlfriends got them because HE did all the work.The blackest of pills is this: if you think women have zero interest in you, you're 100% right. All the "subtle signs" bullshit is self delusion made to protect your ego. For all their supposed "interest" it never gets anywhere, so the truth is simply that they are not interested in you. You're just as invisible as you think you are.
>>34138481I hate this shit.>Pass by girl>She doesn't look your way>Browsing books>She comes near>Gives you a glance>You're minding your own business>She sighs and walks offI love women but fucking modern female signalling.
>>34138384Yes, usually sub 5's do. It's more common online though. The sign is her talking to you first.
>>34144634>>34144676>look up video of signs a woman is into you>laughs really loudly when you're around, makes an excuse to talk to you, etc>mfw a woman has literally never done that shit to me, and I'm in shape and average looking
>>34146161They could have interest and it not going anywhere
