Can damaged and abused women ever be healed?
>>34138717Yes, but i don't pretend to know when and why such healing occurs
>>34138717Yes, but that's entirely on them and you cannot do a thing about it.If you're thinking about one, don't. You'll likely be a casualty or worse, get trapped in their endless nightmare of maladaptive "stability"
>>34138717No but they can be damaged even more, it's a lot of fun.
>>34139294>you cannot do a thing about it.Yes you can - give them the space to heal in.
>>34138717No because alot of women use their damage as a sword and shield. Take bullying. If a guy gets bullied, he may have a chip, but he overall improves to not be that guy anymore. When a woman is bullied she'll internalize, weaponize it, and then sharpen it into the very reason why she can't let her guard down for anyone even themselves, look how many women do onlyfans because they were called an ugly troll in 5th grade. That's damage taken inward and weaponized towards herself.
>>34138717Not really, nobody can be helped but themselves.
>>34139302>Yes you can - give them the space to heal in.Spoken like someone who has never borne the burden. That's really sweet and all, but steeped with pain and much more likelier to leave you on the outside with your own trauma.Let me clue anyone in here that believes healing is this romantic, beautiful arc: it isn't. It is ugly, horrific, and messy. It is extremely exhausting and agonizing. It incurs a debt that can never be repaid and decimates your life as you rebuild it.We're not talking about some quirk chungus that has had a some depression and anxiety, we're talking about DAMAGED and ABUSED women. The reality of life is that few people actually heal from what they sustain, because the cost is higher than they imagine. Most find a level of functionality, for better or worse. Some never escape their demons, some of those even become violators in their own regard.
>>34139342Yep. I knew this shit was going too far when my ex drank an entire bottle of sangria and then threw up in the shower while crying. Had to fucking wrap her in a towel and console her cause this bitch was just so fucked up inside. Never again. You want a damaged woman? Get ready for shit like this to be your new normal
>>34139342>Spoken like someone who has never borne the burden.Shows how little you know. Obviously you have to protect yourself - that should go without saying.
>>34138717I can fix her.
>>34138717I've yet to see it.
>>34139413You obviously know fuck all. It absolutely needs to be said because of naive, enabling people like you.
>>34138717>Can damaged and abused women ever be healed?You can't put a broken glass back together. The cracks will still show, shards will still be missing.
If you are on 4chan you are a damaged and abused man. I think you should stop thinking about women and go make more money or something.
>>34139404OH NO, she drank to much and puked and cryed, THE HORROR
>>34139342>quirk chungusKek. That's a funny term >>34139672Wtf is that?>>34139625Who is that bitch, some porn actress?
Maybe in some sense they can be more mature but they will never regain their innocence. Some people get hurt and become more grateful and joyous but most people get hurt and become bitter and jaded with the world.
>>34140260>most people get hurt and become bitter and jaded with the world.Wait, I'm not supposed to be bitter and jaded with the world?
>>34139294this"trying to save her" cost me years of my life and was overall a miserable experience
>>34138717Just pump and dump those crazy bitches. Let a fucking sucker handle them.
>>34140230>>quirk chungus>Kek. That's a funny termOk, newniggaHave this meme then if it's really so funny
>>34140482LMAOHow does a bitch miss out on being a whore? Any bitch can start whorin at any time>child replacementThis one hits so hard, I told my sister her cats are child replacements and she tried to deny it lmao
>>34140496The meme has variations too where the woman is obese or the guy is a nazi
>>34140507Holy fuck, I need to see them now.
>>34140511This one made me laugh when i first saw it
>>34138717My situation is not applicable to this thread and only between me and her
>>34140525Fucking KEKThank you :)How do I deal with relatives who fell for the body positivity meme? I guess I should just let them be and keep my istance, no sense in trying to make them change, right?
>>34140534You should generally be body positive. Hating yourself when you're fat is unlikely to make it better.
>>34140181Lol shows how much of an ignorant faggot you are. This wasn't a one time thing idiot, it was every other day.
>>34140547Then what's the solution for these kinds of people? One of them got surgery to make thei digistive organ smaller and now she's thinner again but I don't think that's the way to go for them.
>>34140583It's some kind of a structural issue. The people weren't as obese 50 years ago. One downside of neolibism is that there's a class of obese untermensch now.
>>34140617Damn.
>>34140564You are such a faggot you can't even prevent a woman to not drink herself to death, limp wristed cuck.
What is that even supposed to mean, women are just cum receptacles.
>>34138717Yes, but they need years of therapy.Its becoming more common as a result of age gap relationships, and should be a reason why you shouldn't support them.
>>34141244I thought age relationships are becomeing less common, where do you live?
>>34141102He's not a fucking patient safety attendant or whatever
>>34141274*big age gap
>>34138717Yeah, if they lower their standards and stop being so impulsive.
>>34139672LMAOOOO women are hilarious
>>34139672That reminds me of those "feminine rage" parties from a few years ago where they'd all go out into the woods and scream together.
>>34139672that guy will fuck half of them and then later they regret it, say they were vulnerable and manipulated, and he gets cancelled. simple as
>>34142112Yes, i'm jealous too>>34142090>>34142046/pol/ vid. You guys stink, this is old shit.
>>34138717With my dick
>>34142165>You guys stink
>>34143448Jej
>>34142112Idk only a few of them are worth it
>>34138717yes. but not by me. they can go get drama somewhere else.
>>34144109Based and samepilled
>>34139302Some don't need space. They need some to actively guide them, be on their case, or a stable prescense. Some need both and it's a day to week to month or even year process in which that can change from one to the other.>inb4 all those things are part of giving space"Give them space to heal in" is a sweeping generalisation that does nothing more to capture the depth and nuance of the healing process than "Live laugh love" does to capture the human experience. And you know it.
>>34138717DependsDamged by life?SureDamaged by their own life choices?No
