Have the fortitude to make your distant future better.

>>34139588
Try to focus on things that improve your neurotransmitters, like cardio, nature, sauna, cold showers. These help you feel better regardless of your circumstances.

>>34139658
Could you be any more unhelpful? I'm not even OP and I'm annoyed

>>34139588
>i have gone over my circumstances with friends and professionals (case managers, therapists, etc) and everyone basically agrees with me that my situation is beyond fucked in ways that are largely out of my control and that the best i can really do is wait around for certain things to happen
Why do I get the feeling that they all tried to offer you support and suggestions, but you kept shooting them down because you're in love with your shitty life? I'll bet they got tired of trying to help you see reason and just agreed with you to stop talking about it.

>what are you supposed to do when you know for a fact it's unlikely your circumstances will improve anytime soon?
This very sentence shows the inherent flaw in your thinking. You "know for a fact" that it is "unlikely"? You don't know shit. You keep telling yourself it's bad and will not get better, so you make it your reality.

If you really want to stop suffering all the time, then you need to fucking stop telling yourself that life won't improve. You need to stop expecting your life to only get better under specific circumstances or with certain conditions. Stop being obsessive and controlling of the narrative that you clearly don't like anyway.

Unironically identify your values and live accordingly. Limitations are inflicted by your own weak will and mindset. If something doesn't serve you, adapt or move on to something else.

I can bet you're probably thinking rn
>Well this guy doesn't even know
>He's wrong anyway, if only he understood
>Not me, I'm literally the only person in the entire world incapable of change and improvement because of things I can do nothing about

Radical acceptance is your new friend faggot. Good luck.

>>34139687
i could write a whole response to this but there's no point to it, i know it'll just devolve into the same kind of argument i've had over and over again and i'm unwilling to put myself through that especially when i know that's likely the exact kind of response you're trying to bait out of me

> but doesn't that prove my point about you shutting down other's suggestions?
no, it doesn't, because you're assuming a lot about me from very little down to nitpicking my word choices to "prove" your points

i can't change your mind, so the least i can do is just engage with what you actually have to say that i find to valuable instead of the retarded shit

>Unironically identify your values and live accordingly.
i have a very hard time identifying things about myself, even down to basic needs sometimes, but i still recognize this is good advice. do you have any advice on how to do this exactly? it's a lot easier for me to work things out if i have some point of reference

>If you really want to stop suffering all the time, then you need to fucking stop telling yourself that life won't improve. You need to stop expecting your life to only get better under specific circumstances or with certain conditions. Stop being obsessive and controlling of the narrative that you clearly don't like anyway.
i'm trying man, that's the whole reason i'm here

>>34139660
thank you, i'll try to keep these things in mind
>>34139687
i already replied and i still think you're an annoying prick but i do genuinely appreciate the bits of this i did find helpful

>>34139588
Cope with things as they are and prepare for when ir will be possible to change,.

>>34139661
I'm not that anon but bitch gives little info bitch deserves shitty response, I had this cock teasing threads like OP's

>>34139588
The only reason you're being vague is because there's an answer you don't like, which coincidentally is also the truth, EVERYONE can see it but you're just not willing to admit it, and you're such a huge, MASSIVE faggot that even online answers trigger you
You came here to get one answer - the answer YOU want. You're a HUGE fag and you should use chat gpt, and tell him "give me this answer that I want with reasons why THIS is the BEST answer" and it will pump you up with motivation and confirmation bias
Dumbass bitch
I HATE vague threads

>make thread asking for advice on how to make the best of a shitty situation
>retards get angry there's not enough info about my life to pick apart
>retards pick apart what little there is to go off of and ignore the point of the thread

there's a lot i could say but ehh, i'm probably expecting too much, either way i'm not going to divulge info about my life online to a bunch of strangers who i know will pick literally anything i've got to say to pieces anyway

the more i use 4chan the more obvious it becomes to me that most people who use this site will never actually engage meaningfully with anything anyone's got to say, even in the board dedicated to giving people advice

i already know it's my fault for expecting anything more to begin with, trust me, i know

if me saying all this makes you angry, go ahead and be as unhelpful as possible, but have it be known that you're a retarded faggot

It sounds like you need to turn off the computer and leave this place and everyone around you for a couple months and be alone by yourself away from every single person and reset everything.

Good luck and I hope never to hear from you here again

>>34139588
>i don't want to open myself up to people who will try to pick my story to pieces regardless of what i say
You are just making excuse for yourself, and whatever issues you face could be overcome if you weren't doing that. Its the only reason why you wouldn't want to share it, lol.

>>34140931
>normie who stumbled into this site is mad that we can sniff through their retardation and intentions behind their vagueposting
lol