>boyfriend is unemployed>I work from home but I'm underpaid>I'm overloaded with too much work>he doesn't want to take advantage of his free time to study but at least he tries to find a job sometimes>he promises to help me to clean the house, but he only do it when I get stressed at the house being a fucking mess>I had to keep working, studying and cleaning the house while he plays video games and sleep all day>I'm starting to have bad performance at work thanks to stress and lack of rest>I feel stressed seeing he sleeping while I need to work, then I can't do any proper work at all>I'm starting to get angry at him and not wanting to talk with him because I'm angry and feeling alone because he seems to prefer to play games instead to be with me or help me>I always talk to him about this, but I feel guilty by feeling angry and stressed so now I prefer to isolate myselfI'm starting to have intrusive thoughts about asking for a break up but I think this is just my brain trying to sabotage myself.
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>>34140992>I'm starting to have intrusive thoughts about asking for a break up but I think this is just my brain trying to sabotage myself.No, your brain is telling you to break up with him because breaking up with him is the right thing to do. You can do better than this.
>>34140992>Bf is unemployedOnly an issue if you're paying his bills.>Overloaded with workDo you have to do more work because you have a bf or would you be doing the same amount of work single?>Free time vs studying vs. job searchingDon't concern yourself with him doing that. His time is his time and your time is your time. >You have to keep working and studyingYou'd have to do this anyway.>Cleaning the houseDo you have to clean more because he is a slob? Things stay clean when they are picked up immediately after use. When you get home, the house should be the way it was when you left it unless the mess is because he's actively doing something with it and then it should be cleaned up by him when he's done.>He sleeps when you workYour work has nothing to do with his sleep. His sleep has nothing to do with your work.>Anger at him for gamingYou can't control other people for gaming or doing other things.>Guilt over angerDon't feel guilty about being angry. I'm the type of person who isolates when I no longer want to fight. Fighting isn't fun.>Prefer to play games instead of spending time with youSet aside time for each other.>or help youHe doesn't need to help you, but you don't need to help him.Reading in between the lines though, it sounds like you need to establish some hard boundaries with this man of what you need for the relationship so you don't resent him. If you are paying for his food, stop. The need for someone to get a job happens when nobody else is paying for their food. He'd need to get a job or go hungry. Tough love because you need him to pull his own weight. He should buy his food, and clean his messes and you should buy your food and clean your messes. That's being an adult.>Asking for a breakupIt takes two to stay together. It takes one to break up. If you end up wanting to break up, you don't ask for a break up, you tell him that you are breaking up.
>>34140992>tolerating and supporting a manchildhow tall is he?
>>34140992I wish I could lock in a dumb bitch like this again, it was a great life in the 5 years it lasted
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>>34140992Id say this is a fantasy larp bit i know of mfs who somehow, in someway managed to basically get a second mom as gf. Just break up.
