How do I get over my resentment of women for "waiting at the finish line"
>>34141174Abstain from women while you work towards the finish line.All of the difficulties you're having now become easy later.
>>34141199>Abstain from women while you work towards the finish line.Oof.You the "the finish line" is one's own inevitable death, right?>Just ignore women while you make your boss richstrange advice
>>34141338>Oof.>You the "the finish line" is one's own inevitable death, right?No, it's when you attain social status. It has nothing to do with money either, women don't give a shit about that. They have endless orbiters who give them free money.>>Just ignore women while you make your boss richWomen are a distraction from building. The amount of effort it takes to get women when you're still a nobody is not worth it. You have no idea how easy they make it once you've made it.
>>34141174Make your own standards more exclusive as well.
Get a woman that's not waiting at the finish line and turn her Into wife material
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>>34141821Jokes on you. None of the stuff on the bottom are obtainable for <4/10 men
>>34141174The internet has turned your brain to mush. The stark and uncomfortable reality is that both men and women generally end up in relationships with those of their relative race, age, socioeconomic status and attractiveness level. Rich people fuck rich people, poor people fuck poor people, brown people fuck brown people, ugly people fuck ugly people, hot people fuck hot people. Statistically, this is just reality. All over the world right now there are women dating, marrying and having kids with absolute fucking losers. Poor people have more kids than every other socioeconomic on the planet combined. There is no group of people on the planet who have more sex than dog shit poor dipshit men. The notion that you can't find a woman because all of them refuse to settle for anything less than a 10/10 millionaire Chad is an objectively false delusion born from a brain that desperately needs to create an alternate universe to soothe the pain of your failures.
>>34141835><4/10 menYou don't want <4/10 women either
>>34141821>get married>no more sex>50% divorce rate>financial ass rape>die alone anyway>have kids>misbehavior and screaming for 5+ years>sleep deprivation>take a shower for 1 hour straight to avoid themThese are just somethings I've noticed.
>>34141835if you cannot fathom "not being an Internet retard" as possible just because you are <4/10 you have other things to work on before pursuing womenanyone at any point or status in life can drop being an Internet retard
>>34142023tell me more about how sour those grapes probably taste
>>34141978whenever i see an attractive women i just think of her getting fucked by somebody taller, more handsome, smarter, funnier, more well endowed and skilled than me. i know how their body language changes. witnessing that fills me with a narcissistic rage against the universe. girls can go on hinge and have thousands of suitors in an hour. digital hypergamy is real among the youth.>All over the world right now there are women dating, marrying and having kids with absolute fucking losersno?>The notion that you can't find a woman because all of them refuse to settle for anything less than a 10/10 millionaire Chad is an objectively false delusion born from a brain that desperately needs to create an alternate universe to soothe the pain of your failures.it's true unless you live in a third world shithole where you can just rape a poor women, which is what you seem to be getting at.
>>34141174OP here again. this is what i've realizedthe reason i hate women and don't want to date is because i know that as a 23 y/o khhv, the brutal truke:it won't be as special for me as it is for her. i'm completely disposable. she has a roster in her contacts, orbiters online, a composite of the countless men she's dated, several men she's concurrently dating/fucking before going "exclusive", every hookup or seasonal fling, more dating app messages than she could ever count. i'm literally competing against the entire world constantly. i'm just another "guy". a mild amusement in her richer, wider world filled to the brim with amicable admirers that can sweep her off her feet with a glance.it's nothing but a humiliation ritual. women literally live life on easy mode.
>>34142368>whenever i see an attractive women i just think of her getting fucked by somebody taller, more handsome, smarter, funnier, more well endowed and skilled than me.They're out of your league. Sorry. Attractive people tend to stick to their own groups much like every other group on the planet.>witnessing that fills me with a narcissistic rage against the universe.Sucks to suck. I wanted to be an NBA star but I'm not tall enough. I wanted to go to medical school but my parents are poor and my grades sucked. I wanted to be an online celebrity but nobody liked my shitty YouTube videos. Plenty of people want plenty of things they can't have. Sitting around and whining about it and incorporating that whining into your personality only makes you even more undesirable than you already are.>no?Yes>it's true unless you live in a third world shithole where you can just rape a poor women, which is what you seem to be getting at.Its 100% false. Every bit of data we have on dating and interpersonal relationships show that people more or less match up with people in their same groups - age, race, socioeconomic status, attractiveness level etc., The problem with you 4chan knuckle dragging autist types isn't that you can't get women, its that the only women you want are drastically out of your league. You could absolutely find a girl of the same social value as you but you don't want them because you think you're better than them. I don't even disagree that the world is unfair but boo fucking hoo. I can scream into the internet void all day about how I deserve to fuck Ana De Armas on a bed of 100 dollar bills but that's not going to make it happen. Every day everyone has to wake up and play the cards they were dealt. You accomplish nothing by screaming about how the world SHOULD be. You have to deal with the world the way it is and the way it is is that if you're a fat ugly retard you're not going to fuck hot chicks. I'm sorry. Deal with it.
>>34142441yeah the problem is that whenever i see a woman that makes me think to myself>wow she's cutethere are one hundred other men thinking the same thing who are better than me>Sucks to suckwhy should i work for what others get for free? why not burn the village down. you would've been exiled in primordial times anyways.who tf cares about marriage. high divorce rates. dead bedrooms. when an ugly girl marries an ugly guy she only feels resentment because she was able to hook up with someone far out of her league in her youth. what matters is her fawning over you and feeling raw animal lust from being in your presences.>the problem with you 4chan knuckle dragging autist types isn't that you can't get women, its that the only women you want are drastically out of your league.juggernaut law deboonks thisyou don't realize that if everybody lowers their standards they're still competing for a limited supply. it never ends. just get the fuck out if you can't do anything but spout basic platitudes and reddit r/relationship advice drivel
>>34142454>there are one hundred other men thinking the same thing who are better than meIts the same for everything that anyone wants in this world - women, cars, houses, food, clothes, relationships, possessions. Everyone wants the best things, anon, and most of us won't get them. That's the reality you have to deal with.>why should i work for what others get for free?You don't have to do anything. You can sit on your ass and whine and accomplish nothing your whole life and nobody will give a shit. The only person who suffers for your attitude is you. Life isn't fair. Deal with it.>juggernaut law deboonks thisReality proves me correct. You don't get hot women. You haven't even come close to getting hot women. Hot women don't want you because they want men that are better than you. 90% of men on the planet have to come to terms with this truth. The top 10% get the best things in life and the rest of us make do with what we have. What you feel like you deserve is an irrelevant calculus. >just get the fuck out if you can't do anything but spout basic platitudes and reddit r/relationship advice drivelYou want a cheat code to overcoming the social hierarchy of life that doesn't exist. You don't want to hear the truth, you want to hear something that makes you feel good and justifies the anger you have for the world around you. I'm sorry but you're not going to get that. The world doesn't give a shit how angry you are or what you feel you deserve. The sooner you nut up and deal with this reality the sooner you can put your life into perspective and start setting realistic expectations for yourself.
>>34142460you don't know me at all. your entire argument is some strawman about how i want to date supermodels and be rich when i never said that. this>pull up your pants and suffer talk is meaningless. telling me what i already know doesn't accomplish anything. what i wanted originally was to know how to stop resenting women for living easy lives, and for coping with the fact that relationships are asymmetrical. saying>that's how things are. accept it or sufferonly worsens these feelings. you're a bull headed oaf who thinks he's giving tough love when really he just want to bully people
>>34142424>23You're fine lil man, just focus on building yourself up and don't worry about getting validation from others, especially women. Once you're actively building something up that you care about daily, other worries will disappear. Note that when I say building yourself up I don't mean stacking cash, I mean find what it is that motivates you to keep living and throw yourself into that. This has the side effect of making you more attractive to women too.
>>34141174all your problems are solved by just getting more and more exposure to womanlike talking to tons of themsome will be really nice to youand it will make you feel warmthat's what woman dothey calm us men down
>>34141978mic drop.
>>34142737stop replying to your own posts
>>34141174Realize that most women want a serious relationship that leads to marriage, but many men like to waste their time and hide their true selves.
>>34141978I predict a great seething to follow from this post.
>>34142023>>50% divorce rate
