I somehow manage to have some really good chats with women, hours feel like minutes by talking to some of them, but we don't stay consistent or anything. Unless I hit them up it won't last. It's not that they are being "just nice" we both want to kill time (for context it's uni) but it's not tedious or anything. I don't see any signs of the girl being tired or anything, we seem to agree on things and I listen to them a lot, like actually listen and recall things, talk about the things they've said, agree/disagree etc.1st example>girl hits me up sometimes regarding work etc.>turns out she tries to find reasons to talk with me>heart reacts my messages a lot>we have fun time talking>we have a similar music taste, similar fashion etc.>we come back to uni>try to tell her "hi", she either leaves the room asap or gives me a quick "hi" back>comes to a point where I pass her by and don't acknowledge her because I don't even know what she wants anymoream I supposed to chase and act like a clown? it's not like me2nd example>a girl I felt like would be a terrible person turns out to be very interesting and fun to talk to>we talked today for like an hour and a half but afterwards we haven't talked at all>talk went something like I described in the first sentences of the thread>right now I'm not sure how to even proceed anymore, if she's actually laughing behind my back or whatI feel like people just formed a hate club against me or some shit, like I'm being tolerated and not liked even though people feel very convincing at looking like they like me. I don't get it anymore, I don't have all that many friends and I'm not particularly ugly.
>>34142381This gif comes from the cursed times when we already had the technology but we didn't have the esthetics.
To answer your question though, there are two possibilities:1. Do you know those video games that are correct, nothing special, neither good nor bad, completely unremarkable? Designed by a committee, appeal to everybody and nobody. If you have such personality, don't be surprised you don't have friends. The worst part is that most normie advice makes you such a person.2. The reasons why this happened could be an entire book, but basically, the market value of human connection fell through the floor. You're offering your friendship "for sale", but it's buyer's market, which means that unless being friends with you gives exceptional benefits, nobody will bother. It sucks, but it is what it is. If you want to have friends, and especially a girlfriend, you have to put an amount of effort that will at times feel disproportionate.
>>34142381Men and women aren't friends in the same way they make friends within their sex.
