I was at the grocery store today and saw a woman stocking shelves and she's one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. I walked by her and we made eye contact and smiled at eachother. I wanted to ask her out but I didn't know what the fuck to say or do. Wtf can i do? I've never asked out a woman cold approach like this but it's literally my only hope of getting a gf rn because i refuse to use dating apps or date my coworkers.
>>34142552First and most important thing, make eye contact and smile. That is how you know they are open. Don't ever sneak up on them or surprise them. You did that, which good but missed the opportunity to start a convo.Starting a convo is easy, you mention something about her, ideally not her body but something about her clothing or style. Like "you look like you're dressed up to go out to an expensive restaurant" or "you look like you listen to some hardcore metal".The best thing to do is make observational statements, not ask questions.Also treat a woman like a lady at first, don't be too pushy with flirting. Match their energy. If they flirt then you can flirt back.
>>34142552>we made eye contact and smiled at eachotheris she an employee at the store?
Don't
>>34142552It's an unfortunate truth, but the best way to meet women and get to know them is probably in certain group activities, hobby art classes, or communities. (check out meetup.com or facebook for local events)I think these days most women working in retail, grocery, or in food service especially are very wary of men approaching them at work unless she was the initiator.
>>34142552For the tenth time you guys women working in stores are being friendly because it's customer service.
>>34142571>make eye contactLiterally the only people who make eye contact nowadays are old men and old ladies, attractive young women are either stuck in their phones or will be looking off into the distance away from your direction.
>>34142552Don't bother. If she's actually that pretty she 100% has a boyfriend and more than enough male attention. Only interact with women that show initial interest. If a girl finds you attractive she'll go out of her way to make you interact with her. A smile and eye contact is being friendly, not interested (no matter what socially-retarded zoom zooms think).
>>34142571wtf am i supposed to say when shes in grocery store work uniform bro>>34142603yes, she was stocking shelves>>34142604so im just never going to do anything to actually try to get a gf the rest of my life and end my blood line? ok rabbi>>34142612this is not an option unfortunately.>>34142915she was stocking shelves bro.>>34142940she wasn't like "hot" she's like the homely type of cute that I actually have a chance with. I like this type of woman much more than "hot" stacys. she smiled at me first when she noticed i made eye contact w her. there also this other girl thats going out of her way to interact w me and she's beautiful like 9/10 but she is jewish.
>>34143094Build rapport slowly. Smile at her when you see her (obv dont stare and dont come at the store 20 times a week) sometimes ask questions like where x product is (obv ask other clerks as well) and after a month or so when you feel comfortable strike a short convo when theres not too many customers. Maybe sugestion about which type of prodcut she would use for x recipe. Then maybe ask her name. Im taking for granted that you understand this will take a long time to feel natural andyou wont do this in two days.
>>34142552Dont make the minimum wage worker's day any worse than it already is leave them alone.
Having to resort to hitting on me while I'm working is instant negative rizz
