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Inb4 >You're a pessimist who can't love and has trust issues get help
All it takes is a moment of poverty or greed or disagreement or political/belief difference and someone can ruin your life. Especially shits who think they have the right to force their will on you. Or shits who you have done nothing towards, but see your "group" as bad. Every favor or moment of "help" you receive can and will be used against you later on. Even if someone attacks you and you don't have the option to leave you're still expected not to strike back or even be rude to them or you'll be seen as guilty. Unless I've spawned and cared for them, people are either guarded against used and or just for chatter. Fuck you pieces of shit who hurt me you'll burn in hell.
What books or moves to pull to make sure I never get screwed over again, other than meta glasses to constantly record interactions, do own medical treatment, and not living in same place with others.
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>>34143206
No.
I won't trust females who I'm romantically involved with, the rest are okay

If I trusted no one, life would be exhausting and society would be shit. I live in a high trust society, the Netherlands, where people look out for each other genuinely, smile at each other and say hello absolutely everywhere. Such kind, nice people.

I'm sorry you amerimutts can't experience this, but you brought this on yourselves

My advice to you op, is to be independent and that means - not being dependant on anyone else for your basic needs. This goes for: food, housing, showering, furniture, laundry, sleep, money.
If you can get those things entirely on your own, you'll understand how no one gives a shit about each other really. It's a play of resources
If you generate your own resources, you're important in this world
Then what you do with those resources dictates if you get used or if you use others
If you generate no resources, you're dependent on others
Meaning you're going to have to put up with other people's shit
It's just the way the world goes my friend
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>>34143223
It's canada, I've never voted for liberal and hate this 3rd world invasion. Oh to live in a high trust no 3rd world shit infested country. Very jealous of you. I was studying engineering but got sabotaged and forced to drop out, at my part time jobs I got bullied and once got permanently physically hurt (head injury). Also other physical harm I won't mention. I'm studying online now for something not too hard, but still seething since I don't know if I'll live longer than 10 years, and how pieces of shit got away scot free.
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>>34143280
Terrible, dude
I assume you're dependent on your parents then
No wonder you're feeling this way
You just gotta keep going till you can get out of that situation
Then when you live on your own and make your own shit, sure it'll be lonely, but it's better than to be dependent on others
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>>34143206
So don't become friends with people who care about politics or money (financially stable people) Voila, problem solved depression anon. Reading your posts it seems like you're used to being around shitheads. I advice you to only hang out with non religious/political financially stable people of sound mind.
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>>34143324
Yes, its just frustrating. They're very traditional and think "women don't need a high paying career just get married and have children". Fuck off I want my own money and not to get beaten and graped like my grandma, or have to put out for someone who I'm dependant on.
>>34143338
Kind of hard to pick your coworkers and schoolmates. I don't have friends due to having to move around so much for dad's job.



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