Is it worth pursuing an autistic/neurodivergent girl?
>>34145081if you're autistic, yesif not, then no/thread
>>34145081if you're autistic, noif not, then yes/thread/board/domain /ISP/Electricity bill
>>34145102>>34145121who do i believe
>>34145279fpbp nigga. Log off.
>>34145081if youre retarded, noif shes retarded, no
As long as she isn't schizoid or has ocd or any kind of three lettered disability you should be good.
>>34145081How do you expect us to answer this when we know nothing whatever about you, and nothing about how her neurodivergence affects her?
>>34145510Schizoids are chads.
>>34145081You'll get tired of her after 6 months to year. They all do. At first you'll find her quirky and maybe even charming but once the infatuation wears off one day you're going to find yourself thinking "why is this bitch so weird".
>>34145510What's wrong with dating a person with OCD?>>34145540>"why is this bitch so weird"She would be just like me, so that is ok.
>>34145605You think this now, but you're going to change your mind.
>>34145279>who do I believeThe non autistic one.
>>34145611If everyone is so easily off put by harmless weirdness then those like us are destined to a life of loneliness and misery. If no one else, we should be able to count at least on each other and tolerate each other. Give me an autistic gf pls
>>34145081no. they're standoffish, bad at expressing themselves, and actually more picky/particular than normal women not less.
>>34145605>What's wrong with dating a person with OCD?I have OCD and I'm telling you personally: don't do it
>>34145625weird people are annoying and a relationship takes a lot more than just tolerance. the way you find normies annoying that's how they feel about you.
>>34145652That doesn't really answer the question.>>34145666>the way you find normies annoying that's how they feel about you.I understand that. Hence why>If no one else, we should be able to count at least on each other and tolerate each otherI didn't mean normalfags by that
>>34145625This philanthropic response of yours exists in a vacuum. Try putting that to the test after several months of tolerating a girlfriend you don't actually like.
>>34145605>What's wrong with dating a person with OCD?Ritual behaviours. The person with OCD will have a very rigorous way of doing a particular thing and if you undermine it, they blow up because they think you just sentenced their mom to death all because you decided to put the spoons where the forks should go. Also they develop rOCD eventually. Relationship OCD, which means they will start having obsessions and ruminations about everything:>What if they cheat?>What if they hate me?>What if they secretly think I am ugly?>What if they want to kill me?>What if I want to cheat on them?>What if I want to kill them?>Is this relationship real? What if it isn't?>What if?>What if?>What if?Every hour they will seek reassurance after reassurance after reassurance after reassurance after reassurance. And if you don't give that to them they start emotionally suffocating you like a boa constrictor with the anxious attachment, constantly wanting to know everything, at all times.
>>34145749Autists are like that as well, does it mean that it’s not worth dating a femautists?
>>34145081Here is the super official tier list of Waifus ranked by mental disorder.
>>34145772>Autists are like that as well, does it mean that it’s not worth dating a femautists?Nah autists are not the same. Autists have routines, different from rituals. At best ab autist gets grumpy or pouty if there is a sudden change in plan, but an OCD will sink the entire day's mood over it because the OCD ritual is more high stakes than an autist's routine. The autist self doubts come from low self esteem. An OCD doubts come from a pathological anxiety alarm gone haywire that distorts their perception of rational reality entirely.
>>34145794So would you say it’s worth to date one? Why?
>>34145800Worth it to date who? The autist or OCD? Truthfully the answer could be either one or none. Anyone with any disorder can be worth dating provided the person with the disorder is self aware and has enough INT to override their own disorder during crucial moments. If you meant generally speaking yeah autists are worth dating: They are almost incapable of lying, they genuinely don't know how to lie properly due to the high social skills it requires to be a good liar. And they're socially stunted so they are very innocent and very honest. But the big, big, big but is the autist is cursed with dead-tone speech and blindness to social nuance. So despite all their sweets and honesty, they accidentally come off as rude, arrogant or angry all the time without intending it. If you aren't a pussy and don't have a sensitive ego, dating autists is A+.OCDs can be worth it too if you are big on communication. All the reassurance seeking brute forces relationship maintenance convos and constantly touching base emotionally. They're also very prompt and reliable gift givers, they will fear the world will implode if they don't remember to get you a birthday gift so they are always showing up for important occasions
>>34145785Also I wish I could BPD in S tier&D tier At the same time because that's how it goes with BPDs IRL
>>34145081No, it will only make you unhappy. If it was only subtle it would be alright, but the fact that you already know about it is a big red flag.
>>34145081You catposting faggots deserve to be strung up and filleted. None of you are funny, none of you are quirky, and all of you are losers
>>34145987shut the heck up
