Should I tell my gf the sole reason I'm so hard on myself and hold myself to such an unrealistically-high standard is because she is blonde?Basically, I'm white but ever since I was a child I've always been slightly obsessed with blonde hair (not even racist, I just like the color of gold), but because my hair is brown (and also because I'm short) I've never seen myself as worthy of a blonde woman and now that I'm with one I'm constantly paranoid that if I say the wrong thing or become even slightly complacent she might lose interest on me.She has noticed I'm constantly worrying about little things, and that in itself is making me even more worried.I've dated other girls before, and I never felt like this.
Blonde are ug cuz all their colours are too light so everything mushes/blurs together it's harder to see their facial harmony if they have any, lookin albino pasty undefinedPale skin dark hair/features is the superior phenotype if you're looking for one to uselessly fawn over, much clearer display of facial harmony if they have any cuz colour contrast
>>34146109Have pride, carry it deep inside, if she's with you she must think she's your equal, and you should work on viewing her as such too, alter ego is what we want! Blonde? So what, she has inherited it, no matter how much I try, of the things I have inherited I cannot say I'm particularly proud of them, I can they're nice but I never myself because of those, I'm sure she doesn't see her blondeness has particularly important to her self-importance, and so you shouldn't, simply tell her she's pretty and you want to have her everyday by your side.
>>34146109Have you considered being a swarthoid supremacist like fuentes?
>>34146382This is a mostly good post but very often women do not see the man as their equal. Women usually want a power imbalance in the relationship. She either thinks OP is better than her and so wants to be with him, or she thinks she gives in to whatever she wants so she has power over him. Either way, OPs insecurity may be an ick to her and he needs to get himself together. >>34146109I would not tell her that her hair color makes you feel unworthy of her. 1. It's stupid to feel like this. Hair color is hair color. I like blondes too, they make feel kind of flustered. But hair color doesn't define her. I wouldn't be a blonde if I didn't like the rest of her. 2. Stop showing your worries to your woman. Keep it inside unless it is about something related to her that you need to address with her. If you're having a problem that she cannot help with, don't tell her. It makes you look weak, and she may not like that. You're worried she'll leave you if you keep worrying so you have to stop worrying. It's a catch 22.
>>34146109Are you sure she's a real blonde? More than 50% are not.
>>34146109Definitely don't tell her that. She will feel like the only reason you like her is her hair colour.
Does saying this raise her interest level? No, so why would you say it? Learn to have a filter, man.
>>34146109>”brown” hair>short>obsessed with blondesThis is just more pajeet fetish spam isn’t it? Fuck off back to your shithole Rakesh.
