I never knew our friendship mattered so little to him. I asked him if he wanted to hang out tomorrow and he said that won't be possible anymore because he's living together with his GF. Is that how it's supposed to be when you're dating? I never dated anyone so I don't know but I think this is fucked up. Is he in the wrong or is it me that's overreacting? I don't man, we've been doing stuff together since we were little and now we won't ever see each other again because he started dating? This is just sad man, I feel like an idiot for considering him my friend all this time.
>>34146152do you wear skirts or long hair? his gf might be mistaking you for a girl
>>34146152What were his exact words? It's common for friends to stop hanging out with their friends as much when they get a girlfriend, but the way you phrased it sounds less like he has to prioritize his girlfriend and more that he doesn't want to speak to you
>>34146152That friend doesn't deserve you. Swear at him and forget it, no need to raise your cortisol over this. As for him, probably his gf is a toxic, controlling bitch who wants him to spend all his time on her. He'll run from her after some time.
>>34146152Some guys want to spend all the time with the gf. I think you should hang out with your friends sometimes, but I have had friends who would only hang out when they were single. I kind of understand. You're busy getting laid. Why would you want to play vidya with dudes when you could be having more sex? And then it's not all about sex because there is time investment to build up to that and dates. And if he's lucky, the gf is actually into some of his hobbies.
>>34146254>You're busy getting laid. Why would you want to play vidya with dudes when you could be having more sex?The most virgin shit I ever read, this is so sad and pathetic, but I'm still laughing at it.
>>34146225I asked: "Hey, let's do something tomorrow"He said: "That won't be possible anymore"Then I asked why and he said that it's because he's living with his GF now. He probably wants to keep texting me but the way he said it seems like we won't ever hang out again. I think I'll probably stop texting him now though and only reply when he texts me, I just feel like an idiot for thinking we were close when clearly he didn't think the same.
>>34146271>anymoreanon, I'm sorry, that sounds painfulbut if your time spent together was mostly consumption and bland conversation instead of idk, anything slightly deeper like talking about themes, dreams, sharing work, then it may be understandable that he did not find that time valuable, should that be the case you probably want to offer more specific activities than just hanging out. personnaly, i've never felt attracted to "hanging out"
>>34146152he's been compromised, next time you should save your friend instead of letting him get captured by the enemy.
>>34146152>why does he choose sex over mehave you offered to let him fuck your ass?
>>34146216No but my test is low
>>34146152This is just how it goes when you get older, friends fade away it's usually less direct though. Otherwise it would have happened when they had kids anyway. You need your own GF/Wife or to at least make some more friends now so down the line you will have some friends you have known for a while and it's much harder to make friends after your 30s.
>>34146152He’ll be back when the relationship ends. In the meantime, find some other friends. When people are in relationships, they really don’t have time for their friends
