Im romantically interested in 2 of my coworker chicks. I just started there a month ago but there's 2 chicks I like. 1 of them I've never talked to and works in a different department but shes attractive. Another one is my team lead and shes either very friendly with me for no reason or likes me and they're both my age BTW.The girl in the other department I only ever see her in the break room or when I'm walking around. She hasnt really given me choosing signals. So like what's the best way to test her interest or display interest in this scenario?My team lead is attractive and she constantly initiates conversations with me. She's like constantly trying to have personal conversations and she goes out of her way to include me. Like she'll be talking to someone else and bring me in the conversation by asking my opinion on it. Also today she asked me what my off days are and if I had a good day yesterday. And she looks at me all the time and smiles at me. What would you do in this situation?
>>34147147you do know your boss is giving you massive signals she wants you to ask her out as if she asks you out it's a breach of power and could cost her job however if you do it she won't be in that situation
>>34147147I would go after the one that is obviously interested in you. But since she is your boss, idk how that would work?
>>34147147>What would you do in this situation?I wouldn't bother hitting on the girl in the other department, because she's not interested. Your team leader possibly is interested, but it's generally a mistake to date someone you work with: ask yourself seriously what it's going to be like trying to work with her when you're getting through a really bitter break-up.
>>34147147>I just started there a month agoYou don't know what the corporate culture is yet. What you read as personal interest by your boss may just be the normal friendliness of the office or the part of her job that involves encouraging new staff.
>>34147147Listen up you need to sleep your way to the top, not get fired so sleep with the one with a higher position in the company.
>>341471471)Do not date at work2)Asking out your boss? No thanks
>>34147147>What would you do in this situation?Depends. if it’s a job that I’m making a career out of I’d keep it strictly professional and not involve myself with my boss of all people. If it’s a job I can see I’m not going to be at for long, then I’d play it cool for a few months, get the lay of the land and figure out what type of person the boss is. If everything is a green light, then yeah I’d go for it.
>>34147951this x100
>>34147147Shoot your shot with the lead. I think ur attracted to the quiet chick not because she's just hot, but harder to get. The lead sounds cool but pay attention to her tone before asking her out, she could just be doing her job unless she's like that mainly with you.
>>34147147>I exchange the usual pleasantries with my boss>she must want my cock
neither of them are into you. they are just friendly. the team lead probably doesnt want you to be left out and tries to include you. dont make things awkward and keep your sexual desires to yourself
