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How to handle rejection from women?
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>>34159871
>How to handle rejection from women?
As I've said many times, rejection is an absolutely vital part of dating. Without rejection, the whole process necessarily fails.

I'm very happily married. Before meeting the woman I am married to, I rejected several women, and was rejected by a number of others. I also dated a number of women, and broke up with some, and others broke up with me. If any of those rejections and break-ups hadn't happened, instead of being happily married I would now be *unhappily* married.

The purpose of dating is to find someone you can be happy with, and who can be happy with you. Rejection is the thing that filters out all the people you wouldn't have been happy with. It's a vital part of the process of ending up happily married.
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>>34159871
It's like getting rejected for a job. You just do nothing and it goes away.
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>>34159901
Well I mean... you're gonna end up homeless, lol.
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>>34159920
Women don't typically pay you, unless you are a pimp.
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>>34159887
This guy gets it
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>>34159887
Look at you, applying logic and reason and a human sensibility to love. OP doesn't want any of that. They want a walk through that will explain the optimal build so they can minmax their sex life.
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>>34160901
What?
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>>34159871
It's funny cause everytime some chick "skips" me on Duolicuous after I message them, I get angry. It feels personal. Especially since Duolicious makes it so you can never see their profile again. Man that makes me so angry.
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>>34160934
Nogga?
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>>34159887
Well said.
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>>34159871
I don't worry about rejection from women, if anything it is a genuine relief to even get the input at all
More worried about not even getting a reaction at all, just staring back at her phone and walking away
If it's online you shouldn't even assume they're human until you see proof of life, like an IRL date or personal pics
It's not like they see you any better
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>>34163295
Noogoo?
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>>34166274
JooJoo
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>>34159871
Just get used to it
Because it’s going to happen a lot
And that’s okay, it’s a learning experience
You get to see what does and doesn’t work when talking or trying with a woman, you can get the skills and know what to do
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>>34160901
But optimal builds do exist. They don't guarantee anything, but they do increase the probability of success with women or certain women.
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>>34160848
>>34163603
/adv/eddit
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>>34159887
this is a great perspective to remember
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>>34171397
>Actually marriage as we know it is a viable institution and it turns out, to marry the right person, you have to marry the right person.
profound



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