How can I improve my appearance? I'm an average woman, 53/168, and I've always had trouble meeting people of the opposite sex. For example, when I was assigned to a different department at work with strangers, I immediately found common ground with the girls, but when during lunch break I approached the same group of two guys and one girl with whom I became good friends, they (the men) either ignored me when I said something (perhaps because I didn't speak very loudly, but we were sitting next to each other) or responded very briefly. Even if I managed to strike up a conversation, as soon as I said something wrong, they sighed heavily and rolled their eyes. I wasn't intrusive, it was just regular small talk like, "How's your cat doing?" "Oh, you play the guitar, I can play the piano!" "How long have you been working here?" and so on. and this is very common, not only at work, of all the guys I met, the only adequate ones were my online friends, and a few guys (quite attractive in appearance) who didn’t consider me a piece of shit.
>>34160446smile
>>34160446>53/168What?Also, >How can I improve my appearance?>blah blah blah unrelated to my appearance
>>34160479>What?Not That Anon, but a rough translation for primitives like yourself is that she's 5"6" tall and weighs 117 pounds, and thus has a BMI of 18.78. She's kind of skinny.
>>34160509Thanks, I only speak freedom units.OP maybe change up your hairstyle or wardrobe and take care of your skin. Exercise helps.
Please just post your face with the eyes cut out or whatever otherwise we all have to guess if you're plain or ugly or disfigured or fat or pox-riddled or blaq or who knows what else. The things that you are hung up on are likely not the things that people notice first and would hypothetically shut you down for. Otherwise go on insta and find some chick that looks like you and follow her style. There are literally millions of women doing makeup and hair tutorials these days.
>>34160446sis, you're fat as fuck. I'm 5'9 and male and work out a fair amount and you weigh more than me. You should weigh like 105-115. Start Jogging, biking, swimming, and doing some strength training. You won't get muscular btw.if you don't do these things then the better men will pass over you. Being fat tells everyone you don't care about yourself so why should they care about what you think/feel?
>>34160509Are you sure she didn't mean she's 5 feet 3 inches and 168 pounds?Cause that seems more likely to me. IF she did mean she's 53kg and 168cm then she should be fine yeah.
>>34160446>. I wasn't intrusive, it was just regular small talk like, "How's your cat doing?" "Oh, you play the guitar, I can play the piano!" "How long have you been working here?"This is just me but I hate "small talk", I only like meaningful conversations, maybe those guys were like that too
>>34160446You are at work bitch do your work. Small talk is sexual harassment in 2026. Never talk to women at work.
>>34160446>guys turn away in disgust when a girl talks to themI think they're gay. Try talking about the weirdest things you know about, then tell us if anyone has a gap moe
>>34160446Loose weight
