>finally get a gf after years of solitude >she's clingy and while she doesn't beg for my attention all the time it a bit much>I'm neurotically afraid of losing her and give her all my free time, and I'm my free time I worry about how I will lose her because I don't think I'm good enough for herWe've been together and I'm starting to lose my sense of self. Before I met her I was starting to self improve, that's all gone out the window and I'm actually starting to fall behind on basic shit like doing chores and taking care of myself. I definitely have unmedicated ADHD or executive dysfunction if some sort. How do I fix this without dumping her? (I know this is pathetic but I am pathetic. Tldr how do I stop being pathetic when I was pathetic before I even met her)
>>34160948>some men drown while others die of starvation
>>34160948>she's clingy>I'm neurotically afraid of losing her A relationship made in heaven
>>34160948Difficult to say without having a shitload more context but:You have to have clear boundaries, and you have to politely yet firmly enforce them.Like: "hey gf, I really need to get a handle of myself. I need to do my chores. I need you to help me stay on track (like keeping me company while I do chores or gently reminding me if I need to do chores). This is extremely important to me."
