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What’s a nice way to ask my boss to stop picking on my height (5’6) without coming across as demanding or starting shit
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Anon, you're a pussy. I'm over here being the butt of everyone's joke and you're here letting someone call you a midget get to you. There are worse things to be done to you than that. I could handle that shit and gladly would take it along with the good pay you got if I could as opposed to damn homelessness. True, you get your pride for putting people into place and yeah true some people especially retarded Redditors would appreciate you stand up for yourself. But you get thousands of dollars a month, just telling you that.
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>>34161801
>True, you get your pride for putting people into place and yeah true some people especially retarded Redditors would appreciate you stand up for yourself. But you get thousands of dollars a month, just telling you that.
there's literally no reason a boss needs to fuck with you about height, and not doing that shouldn't interfere with either of their jobs

i guess maybe u right though
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sacrifice everything for security?
EVERYTHING?

do you know how much better your life could be if humans weren' cattle & you weren't always a joke butt?
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>>34161787
there's nothing you can do, that's the funny thing. all the mean mugging, stomping around, nostrils flaring stuff you want to do will only come off comical to females and talls around you.

your only choice is to acquiesce and look like a bitch or melt down and look like a spoiled little kid like the bagel boss guy
youtube.com/watch?v=FvdSUbV5pjc

even if you make millions of dollars and have a yacht packed with babes it will do nothing. being tiny proportioned compared to the world around you will always look comical
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I would just ask your boss directly not to comment on my height. The less said the better.

It's demeaning and in many contexts an employer would already recognise the flow on effects, coming from an employer, any demeaning comments give liscence to general bullying. If the boss said it, then anyone can say it.

So usually when this happens it's just because the employer was fraternising, which is generally a bad idea, and just wasn't thinking about what they were doing. A boss wouldn't joke about someone being fat, or gay, or black, because between friends that kind of thing might be OK but from a person in a position of authority it's never ok.

So if they said that it was a joke and they meant it like a friend, you might just say "i accept that, and I'm glad we understand one another. Which is cold, and when someone is demeaning you then acting like they are your friend, that's exactly how you should respond. Coldly.
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>>34161787
You might as well wear womens clothes and suck his cock.
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>>34161787
"That's getting old. And boring. Find a new song."
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>>34161787
"your wife never complains."
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>>34161787
Report him the higher ups for being a harassment. Maybe he's gay for you
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>>34161787
There is no "nice" way to respond to disrespect and abuse. Just find something about him to ridicule. Also, start looking for a new job.



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