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>another girl cancelling before we're supposed to go out on a date
if you remember my previous thread, this isn't a repeat it just happened again
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>>34164970
Sorry anon, that sucks
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>>34164970
Start triple texting them next time, that’ll work
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>>34164970
Yeah, well, that happens to all of us, including those who go on to be happily married. Suck it up and move on.
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>>34164970
Yeah dude, it’s a numbers game
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>>34164970
are you ready for my advice last week to meet as soon as possible now? Ex. Hey gril what are you doing in like 2 hours from now?
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>>34164970
Sounds like you dodged a bullet anon , keep your head up. Better it doesn’t work out now than for her to keep wasting your time.
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>>34165603
I can tell you don’t live in a big city
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>>34166051
Yeah NYC isn't too big how's Mumbai going Ranjeesh?
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>>34166118
didn’t mean to upset you anon. isn’t nyc a bitch to get around? seems like 2 hours is pretty short notice
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What is the common thing between Al the women that have canceled on you?
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>>34167336
I have a car. I have had women on apps want to meet right away it happens. Maybe you could ask them to go out tomorrow night or something.
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>>34167398
that makes sense. i don’t have a car, so getting anywhere takes a lot more planning
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>>34164970
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kbkysPTnHc
Social media has primed an environment where this type of degeneracy is not only accepted, it thrives. Social media desensitizes and radicalizes even moderates into believing heinous and abhorrent behavior is acceptable under the correct context. Spend just 5 minutes on Twitter, Facebook, Reddit, you will find hordes of these deranged people. They exist among us. The FBI knows about them but never acts until it is far too late. Western society is on a one-way fast track to collapse as long as social media continues to destroy minds and decay the culture.
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>>34167344
It him
We all know
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>>34164970

>>another girl cancelling before we're supposed to
I think you forgot to smile convincingly
take for example pic below to know ow to smile correctly
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>>34167869
This is probably why they cancel on you
Girl : ok then meet me at 8 PM Friday?
OP: Is that on a bus line? Hang on I think my bus pass is expired I have to stop and buy a new one can we do saturday
Girl: I'm busy actually for the whole next year sorry.
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Have you tried not sucking?
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Females have no concept of human deceny anymore. This happened to me a lot of times before. It's always the woman who ghost. She should be upfront next time.
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>>34169541
With the way most guys handle rejection like a toddler not getting they toy they want can you blame them

A LOT of little boys telling on themselves and being too stupid to realize it is here lmfao
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>>34169541
Maybe she didn't mean to and had something come up. Never know the daily battles everyone else is fighting
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>>34169549
It's not about ghosting at random it's about ghosting right when things are already arranged.

This is the sociopathic part.
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>>34169566
No shit
To spell it out for you
They aren’t interested and know you will take it like a child
That’s for proving how stupid you are
Male loneliness epidemic should always end with you lot offing yourself
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>>34169566
Wow dude you missed the point lol
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>>34169566
I'm sorry this is happening to you
>>34169570
Jump off a bridge

To OP - I'm sorry this is happening, it must really really suck. It's really not you it's them. It's not a fair world, and sometimes you need to take a break and pace yourself because too many disappointments in a row might get you so down that you stop functioning, I'm speaking from previous personal experience. So yeah. Take a step back if you feel like it's getting too much, and continue later.
I hope it works out for both of us
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>>34169982
Wow another loser that doesn’t get the point
What’s wrong with boys these days?
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>>34169570
>They aren’t interested

Then don't engage at all or ghost before?
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>>34164970
Dystopian fucking society

Literal fucking dystopia
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>>34169559
Don't put your daily battle's problems on someone to fuck his already miserable fucked up life
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>>34170645
Shut the fuck up subhuman
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>>34164970
It's not even normal, Never gaslight yourself that this shit is fucking normal, No fucking way this is normal, This is the result of a society's collapse, An ongoing stretch of individuation with literally no self discovery of the self and reliance on dopamine spikes.

If anyone tells you to suck it up, sucker punch those faggots, A female should not be the one who chooses the man, But the man must be the one to chose which one for him.
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>>34170987
I don't even know the point they are trying to bring across.
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>>34164970
What advice are you asking for?
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Thats because it's easy to set up a date a few days in advance because people always overestimate how much energy they will have at a given point in the future and then when the day comes they want nothing less than having to go on a date. Unfortunately that anon saying you should try meeting up immediately and on short notice has a point because it increases the chance that you catch someone in the right mood to get dressed and ho have a drink right away.



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