I've been having sex with escorts pretty frequently and just got done with another one. The coom was underwhelming and I coomed quick this time. Why do I keep fucking doing this? What is wrong with me? Someone give me some advice on how to stop this shit.
>>34167766A gf
>>34167766Part of the problem is I can't get a girlfriend...
>>34167774>>34167775Meant to reply to you
>>34167766>The coom was underwhelming and I coomed quick this time.Are you circumcised?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCuy163srRc&t=2930s
>>34167787Yes. But please give me advice on how to not be such a dick brained retard who drops 150 for a quick fucking coom
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so, you've finally reached that point where it's not so much about the sex, it's about the connection, what you desire is a romantic connection to combo with the sex.I cannot tell you how to get a romantic partner as I myself have never entered that arena, I am 37 and a forever virgin, the most I can tell you is when you are feeling the urge to have sex, to plap, stop and think, are you just horny or are you just lonely?
>>34167766>What is wrong with me?You're an addict. It's characteristic of addiction that whatever it is you're addicted to becomes less and less satisfying, but you keep telling yourself "oh, the NEXT time will be better". It's also typical that the anticipation becomes a bigger deal than the actual thing - sex addicts sometimes spend hours driving around looking for the "perfect" hooker - far more time than they spend on the actual sex. Your only option here is to quit, cold turkey. Then fill your life with interesting things and people so you don't get bored or lonely.
>>34167766I won't read self-inflicted problem threads.
>>34167766>Why do I keep fucking doing this? What is wrong with me? Someone give me some advice on how to stop this shit.How to stop what? Paying the prostitute or ejaculating early? In either case the answer is: Stop paying the prostitute and refuse to fuck them. What's wrong with you is, presumably, you don't know how to actually believe what is right about you and/or you refuse to consider that there are things right about you. Either that or no one in your entire life bothered to point those right things out to you, you instead only got told you were wrong, wrong, WRONG. So if all you get told in life is:>"You are wrong for being this way">"You are wrong for thinking this way">"You are wrong for feeling this way"You receive the message that "Being (you) is wrong". And when you are buried underneath all of those psychological ashes, you will feel so far down that things that are actually wrong begin to look 'right'. Or, you decide the people branded you as a degenerate, a reprobate, a loser, a monster, a bad person, so you decide "I'll show them what that looks like" out of despairing anger. No matter which way, the paths always lead to the same destination, and empty void, just (you) and the howling abyss of emptiness. You can even see that same abyss of emptiness in the reflection of the eyes of the prostitute if you pay attention. Do not despair, and do not be afraid. The simple answer is to turn back, turn and go the other way. You won't know which way that leads or where precisely you should go with your life, that is OK. You are not meant to know, but you will know in time. But for now turn back, and go the opposite direction. You have learned paying the prostitute only kills you, what little remains of you. Protect that you have left of yourself at all costs, it can regrow in time. But do not give another morsel of your money or energy to the prostitute my friend. Be good to yourself. Precisely because no one else would.
>>34167766>>34167787>>34167790Not OP but I'm cut and I find that I rarely cum from PIV sex with condom (from escorts or regular ladies) but that's because I also have death grip syndrome :(Still wish that I was never cut though.
