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Guys i need help.I love one girl but I don't know what to do. She is my classmate, i speak with she about year and one summer day i go to work and after work i chat with she and she ask me" do u have crush on me?" I say truth and ask she about is it mutual and she say no. I dont speak to much with she from summer to now. And i wanna get second chance.She is shy, modest, friendly,calm. And me energetic,initiator, i act like fool(with my jokes and behaviour). I know its mb because of my age. But i very love her.i think about she every day. I dont will hurt myself and her I swear.plz help.
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>>34169846
>And i wanna get second chance.
There is no such thing. You tried, but she's not interested. That means it's over. Move on and find someone else. Hitting on her a second is getting dangerously close to harassment.
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>>34169846
Make a move. An aggressive move. Women wouldn't ask "do you have a crush on me" if they weren't interested, if that were the case they would simply avoid you, put excuses, make it clear you're uncomfortable to be around.

Keep spending time with her, but find a reason to hold her hand, stare her in the eye, and if she stares back, kiss her.

>But that's le harrassment!
That makes it clear for you and for her. For her that you're not fucking around and she better figure out what to do about you, and for you get a definitive answer and move on if the choice is No.

>But le harrassment!
Shove it up your ass. It's you one and only life. And this moment is the one and only to ever have a choice like this. You will never agree not acting is a good choice, that's the lose-lose situation.
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>>34169846
Holy pajeet
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Yo i cant just leave it i need try mb i do smth wrong mb problem in me i ready to change myself but i can't just leave without definite answer like:"stop it i dont like u" when i hear smth like this i will stop trying.
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>>34170038
>Women wouldn't ask "do you have a crush on me" if they weren't interested
They ask that if they're scared of you.



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