How do you get a gf if you are autistic? Please don't answer this thread if you are your typical neurotypical reddit user.Being autistic means I have a very hard time socializing and I also have a lot of added past trauma from being bullied as a child due to being different. All my experiences with women have been very bad unless they were also autistic. But even then it was still not that great mainly because online dating does not work. I have no idea where to find autistic women irl or close to me. I can not do another ldr ever again after being treated like trash by ever single woman I tried to date that way so please don't recommend that even if it easier to find autistic women that way. No I am not low functioning and I can mask, I just don't feel comfortable doing so.
>>34172816Have you tried looking on dating apps for an autistic woman who lives close to you?
>>34172816Another autist here. I grew up with women who are likable but they get shocked when they realize my socializing stuff is mostly a facade and find me too weird once they know me personally. You have to be content with being single and have a passion that keeps you going. Women aren't into men whose main focus is the woman so it's an advantage.
>>34172838I did the only one I know is hiki and there were 3 whole profiles in a 100km radius all inactive or ignored me. Dating apps don't work like I have said.>>34172847I don't want to stay single forever I have my interests but having nobody to cuddle at night is very lonely over time.
>>34172876I hope you don't either, but women are drawn into men who are obsessed with something not them. I don't know how it works but they feel comfortable with men who aren't vulnerable to their emotional swings.
>>34175193This is not even true so many clearly very normal guys who do nothing all day but watch footbal and other stuff like this have cute loyal gfs becuse they are neurotypical. I hate being autistic made my life hell because nobody would ever understand me and connect with me outside of the internet where they live so far away. I hate online friendships and relationships so much at this point I want something real.
>>34175637>who do nothing all day but watch footbalThat is an obsession, is it not?
>>34172838Autists hate other autists, especially autist females and autist male pairings. It's Foid Vs Moid, and they are at war.
>>34175667>That is an obsessionThen I am also obsessed with my special interests but that is not enough.
