so i broke up with her because she didn't believe me over some stupid stuff, now she isn't posting nothing on any of her social media so i guess she's sad, should i pull up to her house? i'm now programming a letter which contains well a fucking letter and some drawings i made of her, also a drawing her little niece made about us two.
>>34174625>should i pull up to her house?NO? Have you messaged her at all? Send her a message and just communicate normally.
>>34174625Are you absolutely sure you want to get back together with her?
>>34174625But shes a porch monkey
>>34174833yes i am>>34174725no, i didn't, that's why i'm going to send her this virtual letter with all the stuff i want to tell her and also some drawings and stuff, we both work as developers so it should be nice
>>34175045>that's why i'm going to send her this virtual letter with all the stuff i want to tell herI think this will be “too much” personally. I would just contact her asking to talk and tell her how you feel naturally. I just don’t think life is like a movie where you have to perform these grand gestures. It might make her uncomfy if she doesn’t want you back.
>>34175149i mean it's not that "grand" i did it in a couple minutes but i get your point, i just really want to do it
>>34174625>so i broke up with her because she didn't believe me over some stupid stuffwhat stupid stuff are we talking about?what was her response when you broke up with her? how long have you been together?this goes back to my point number one, what did she not believe you over? depending on how stupid it was, i'd want my s/o to believe me when i am truthful about something, so there seems to be a disconnect there at a foundational level, might be worth considering if she doesn't believe you
>>34175263>what stupid stuff are we talking about?she thought I had done some kind of love spell or witchcraft on her to make her like me, just because I once told her I had a photo of her in my wallet, and another time I pinned it on a corkboard and lit some incense while I was cleaning my room. and her friends convinced her that was fucking witchcraft. we fought over this and she didn't believe me so i decided to broke up with her>what was her response when you broke up with her?nothing, she just started deleting our photos together but ever since that day she isn't posting anything on any social media she has, she must be sad. the only thing she posted is some green ring on Pinterest, she always told me how much she wanted a green ring or necklace because it reminds her of my eyes>how long have you been together?on and off, a year and 4 months.>this goes back to my point number one, what did she not believe you over?you realize how fucking stupid our argument was? i really want her back but i couldn't believe she trusted her friends over some stupid spiritual mystical shit only 25 year old women with cats believe
>>34175277>she thought I had done some kind of love spell or witchcraft on her to make her like me, just because I once told her I had a photo of her in my wallet, and another time I pinned it on a corkboard and lit some incense while I was cleaning my room. and her friends convinced her that was fucking witchcraft. we fought over this and she didn't believe me so i decided to broke up with herdesu, personally, that's all i need to hear. i would dump her immediately and not worry about pursuing her because she is heavily influenced by her friends, and she can't think rationally herself. i personally would want my s/o to fully believe me if i'm telling the truth, that's a red flag thereanother red flag is believing in witchcraft, lol.>nothing, she just started deleting our photos together but ever since that day she isn't posting anything on any social media she has, she must be sad. the only thing she posted is some green ring on Pinterest, she always told me how much she wanted a green ring or necklace because it reminds her of my eyesholy red flag number two, she didnt text you or call you? does she even love you ? lol, sounds like she doesnt care to lose you.>been together on and off a year and 4 monthsman, just dump her and move on, how old are y'all? there doesn't seem to be anything of substance here desu>>34175277>you realize how fucking stupid our argument was?i mean sure it was stupid, but everythings on her end desu. she chose to believe her friends over you, she is heavily influenced by her friends, and she believes in witchcraft , just get outta there my man
>>34175299>holy red flag number two, she didnt text you or call you? does she even love you ? lol, sounds like she doesnt care to lose you.that's the other thing i fucking hate, how her friends are>1 unemployed 28 year old performative female>1 fatass medicated woman>1 tattooed lesbianlast time we got back together was because i had to talk to her, all she did was post things about me, about my green eyes, my body, things related to me until i had to talk to her, she said that "i had to approach her, because i'm the man" ???>man, just dump her and move on, how old are y'all? there doesn't seem to be anything of substance here desuwe're both 25>she chose to believe her friends over you, she is heavily influenced by her friends, and she believes in witchcraft , just get outta there my manmy plan right now is to text her if she wants to talk and if we can meet up at her parent's house, if she says yes well great i'm ready to try it one last time, if she says no then i continue with my life
>>34175333>that's the other thing i fucking hate, how her friends areyeah. i mean, it's fine she has friends and all, but the character of her friends determine who she is and who she can become and the way she can behave to you, and the way you described her friends to me doesn't seem right, and it sounds like to me she would rather choose her friends over you by the way you described things, so, that is not looking good.>>34175333>last time we got back together was because i had to talk to herso you broke up with her previously? what was that about? did it go the same way as this time where she didn't text you or call you at all or ask you why you broke up with her?there seems to be a pattern here man, lol. i don't know if you noticed it. kinda sounds like my previous relationship lol.>>34175333>my plan right now is to text her if she wants to talk and if we can meet up at her parent's house, if she says yes well great i'm ready to try it one last time, if she says no then i continue with my lifeup to you man, but from what you described to me, it sounds like this girl is unsure and indifferent and influenced by her friends and sounds irrational.plus even if she does want to go back and get back with you, is there substance to the relationship? is there something you can work with?side note, how's y'alls intimate life before the break up . this is also important to gauge whether or not if it's worth pursuing
>>34175351>it sounds like to me she would rather choose her friends over you by the way you described things, so, that is not looking good.i think she would choose her friends 100%, they all say they "really love each other" and the last time i saw them was at my ex-gf's birthday, they all give off such a weird vibe and they told my ex-gf how i'm "really hotter than all the ex-bfs she had">>34175351>so you broke up with her previously? what was that about?over stupid shit too, she told me i spent all day playing videogames and not studying (she was the one who invited me to play League of Legends) (also i got a fucking 3.8 GPA on information systems engineering), then she got back with her ex for some months, i dated some other girl (normie, really great relationship but i had some troubles in my personal life) and then she came right back to me>>34175351>how's y'alls intimate life before the break upit was great, in fact, i think it was one of the few things that maintained the relationship, we had sex almost every night multiple times so it was ok, i think if end up going to talk things with her we will end up fucking
>>34175360man ,everything you said here was a red flag, lol.i don't see how this relationship could go further without becoming any more toxici'd personally just dip, but hey, if you can keep it at a fwb why not. i just don't see anything relationship material here .why do you even want to continue things with her? does she have such an amazing personality?
>>34175370i don't know man maybe i have some sort of mental illness or something, her personality is ok she's just a normal woman but we work in the same field and share similiar interests and that's enough for me, i really want to try one last time and if things go wrong i will turn into an alpha omega super meba ubersmench chad
>>34174625U are a nigger and so is your developer monkey>Ohhh I fucked this, ohhh I fucked that, yeah my ex with my ex after my other ex huhuhuQuit flexing on 4chan losers you autist, you need no advice
>>34175377i'll go to chadschan.org then
