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What if you just never meet anyone, I mean, I never meet anyone out there, bars, work, I cant really communicate with anyone but my family. It's hard to explain, but there just is never an "excuse", to talk to anyone besides greetings. What is my condition called?
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>>34175506
Self-consciousness.

People who talk a lot never think of whether they will make the other uncomfortable, or will they be made felt dumb.

Be honest and shameless if you're motivated. If you're not motivated, forget about any sense of "improvement" and focus on seeing if you enjoy life first. Only when you feel you enjoy things, start to communicate them. This is the hard part, people are mostly receptive to things they know. If you only like niches, a lot of people will not understand what you talk about unless you make them try, so that's the idea behind trying things that are popular, so you discover you have something in common with the main population.
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>>34175506
>What if you just never meet anyone

The reality is, falling in love and being loved isn't for everyone. Not everyone is meant to be married and become parents.
Some are meant to live and die alone as cautionary tales
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What's my cautionary tale?



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