>As the title reads but context below:Met this girl and we really hit it off, she's very much my type physically and mentally. we discussed meeting up for a date sometime next week. She said we have to meet in my town because she lives with her parents, I asked why that would be a problem and she just looked at me and got very close and said I was autistic for not understanding that she was flirting with me. I am not autistic.I'm pretty sure she implied us having sex later and this is both exciting but also very stressing. Last time I had sex was 4 years ago and it was awful because I don't like when people touch me. I have avoided intercourse since that experience but I can't miss a chance with her if she escalates. She's really something, never in my life have I had a girl start talking to me about who Chris chan is and how she loves watching lolcow channels.Anyways how do I overcome this anxiety? We're meeting next week. How do I avoid a sympathetic NS spike?
>>34177475why do you want a girlfriend if you don't like people to touch you.what will you do, play chess?
>it was awful because I don't like when people touch me. sounds like you need a sexdoll not a gf
>>34177475-make yourself more horny by not orgasming for 2 days before meeting her (not more than 3 days because more than that can reduce performance) and by going to the gym and lifting weights the evening before (or failing that the day before)-reduce your anxiety by planning a simple date where not much can go wrong and you don't have to think of much. Go somewhere you have been before, look up where you'll park ahead of time. Double check things are open on that date, book ahead of time if necessary.-maybe have 1 shot of alcohol before the date to reduce anxiety and relax your inhibitions.-don't overthink, just have a good time and enjoy doing thing with herp.s. be careful with very online kiwifarms/4chan/twitter/discord girls. This is a red flag. girls who like these things are much more likely to be bipolar and have other bad personality defects the same way men who use 4chan are more likely to have bad personality defects. use a condom.
>>34177584thank you for the advice>Not orgasming for 2 daysNoted >Lifting weights the evening beforeThe date is unintentionally optimally planned as it is set on a rest day and my coach hasn't given me any sets above 572lbs so sympathetic NS drive will be relatively low the entire week>Reduce anxiety by planning a simple date>Alcohol >Have a good timeWe're having a lunch, then going to a student event where alcohol will be included and in her words "see where the night takes us">Be careful of chronically online womenI am a little bit weary because of how much she has I guess "love bombed" me; saying that I'm special and that "there is something about me" and that "I just want to be with you". Ive heard of people dating girls who say this then having them do a 180°. I'm also online too much and I know for sure I have defects with my personality and am therefore weary of anyone who has the same interest.>Use condomYes>>34177522Some people may touch me but it has to be under certain conditions and only people I trust. I like her but I've not known her for long do I'm not sure if I've emotionally categorised her as a trusted person yet. I think relationships are more about the person and mutual activities than the sex anyways>>34177534Kill yourself
>>34177869>I think relationships are more about the person and mutual activities than the sex anywaysand they all include some sort of touching brainiac
>>34177871Yeah, trusted people may touch but that takes time, did you even read the text?
>>34177869lunch and an event in the evening (?) is a long time for a first date. If things are going well then after lunch I'd recommend suggesting to her that you go back to your place (you can just suggest something dumb as a pretence like "do you want to go back to my place to play a videogame/to see that thing I was telling you about earlier/ to watch a movie" ) and have sex with her.If you wait until after the end of the student even thing in the evening then you might both be too tired and have spent too long around each other for a first time.
