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>when the girl with crows feet asks why I'm single
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How do we fix this?
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first for Blonde and gorgeous femanons
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first for the femverse
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The least believable thing in this movie about blue aliens who worship a parasitic brain fungus is a tall girl being attracted to a short guy.
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>>34179751
What do you think made you "mentally ill enough" before?
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>>34179753
Reparations for men
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>>34179754
>>34179755
gay retards haaaaaa
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Where do I meet clingy gf
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Femanons thoughts on being pretty
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>>34179753
You don't. You can't fix this. Progressives have annoyed the average American into fascism along with the rest of the world
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>>34179766
Idk, never happened to me
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Either gender
If you became a vampire, what would you be doing for the first 50 years of your unlife?
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>>34179771
and still you refuse to looksmatch, sad
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>>34179771
But you guys are the experts
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>>34179772
M
Become local batman
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>>34179753
I think young men probably struggled to find their identities under more liberal social climates and so theyre regressing into outdated ideologies from bygone reganomics fueled eras where they are able to assign meaning to manhood all while being fed an information diet of alt-right propaganda. Theres also a certain sadistic disdain for intellectualism and criticism baked into this propoganda that allows the cycle to become a positive feedback loop of reactionary extremism. Its quite depressing. I really love men and I wish theyd realize that this only serves to harm themselves.
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>>34179772
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Fuck as many women as possibly I could, since women lust over vampires like crazy for some reason.
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Men are checking out of society at an alarming rate
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How do we fix this
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>>34179753
Here's the neat part. You don't.

>B-b-but what will happen then?

Men will be to recognizing, they are the stronger sex and that women's rights are more like a suggestion.
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>>34179784
No ugly vampire is getting lusted over I assure you that. Unless you are a chad vampire of course..
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Girls, what's wrong with being rightwing? Thinking that abortion or contraception are bad things shouldn't be a radical position to hold
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>>34179790
>Men will be to recognizing
Wtf is this ESL trying to say
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>>34179762
I will accept reparations only in the form of baked goods that have been licked by the bakery qt with the flat chest and the thousand thousand dollar sweater
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>>34179785
Why wouldn't they? At the end of the day if there isn't really a great reward system that incentives men to give up their bodily autonomy for the "Greater Good". Then most men just aren't going to play the game. The issue is that it makes them angry and angry incels are dangerous incels.
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>>34179785
>that copypast
It would be true if zoomers weren't completely brainwashed.
They will happily marry an OF girl with triple-digit bodycount since they never knew anything better.
A girl who waits for marriage is just as much of a fantasy creature to them as elves and mermaids.
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>>34179797
>>34179798
Wtf happened to the iq itt all of a sudden, this shit never got sincere replies before
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>>34179793
Men will begin to recognize*

Sometimes, I think faster then I type.
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How to deal with outside opinions on age gap relationship? I'm 35 male dating a 22 f. So... 13 year age gap. We get along really well, me being a bit immature for my age and her being more mature. Anyways, I get some snickering and comments from people on the side and it's starting to become annoying. We won't break up but I just don't know how to respond to people when they make comments. It bothers me more than my girlfriend.
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>>34179779
The chart is showing women going crazy, not men
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Girls
Achilles or Hector
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>>34179798
This but unironically. I was a complete incel but the moment arthoe gave me head and rode me I thought she was the one and marriage material
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>>34179753
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Realize most politics is kabuki theatre put on by a pedophilic elite, hell bent on replacing the majority of humanity with machines, and turning the few that remain into microchipped slaves.
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>>34179790
Married people are typically more conservative anyways
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>>34179800
New people cycling through, I think.
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>>34179800
>why did the IQ itt suddenly skyrocket
Idk anon.
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I hate women so fucking much.
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>>34179779
>the problem is that young men didn't drink the kool-aid
The identity you wanted for us was an identity of weakness and subservitude
Right-wing ideology is not outdated at all, it's just gaining its strength back
See>>34179767
You annoyed the average young man into becoming what you fear
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>>34179802
They call you out accurately, nothing you can do, creep
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>>34179756
>The least believable thing in this movie about blue aliens who worship a parasitic brain fungus is a tall girl being attracted to a short guy.
I went on a date with a 6ft woman.
>t. 5'8"
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Would you make a good banker?
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>>34179792
It is. Baibai
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Femanons, do you do belly-dancing?
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>>34179817
Yes. But it would be boring
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>>34179802
She's 22
She could have graduated college by know
She's old enough to drink in the US
She's certainly old enough to decide if she's willing to suck a slightly older cock
Just ignore them. You're clearly not taking advantage of her (i assume) so idk what the issue is.
Age gap stuff is dumb. You're 35, not 55
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>>34179792
Women have been brainwashed to be against good things
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>>34179817
no, while my nose is big, its not that hooked
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>>34179785
Yeah, if working 8 hours a day doesnt let me buy a house in a reasonable amount of time then why bother
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>>34179814
Your race and hers?
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>>34179772
Have a harem of baddies and then wage war against humanity
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>>34179792
>>34179818
Right to abortion is a rightist and individualistic thought, the social harm it creates is simply too much for an actually leftist country tolerate
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>>34179772
F
Invest. Then chill
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Women, would you date a man who sells the fact that he can't be bought?
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>>34179829
No
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My friend offered me to hang out one of these days and told me he'd match me up with an honest-to-god prostitute/escort. I said sure because surely he was fucking with me but then he told me 'okay, go get a haircut and your beard done, we're going to get you laid bro'.

What the fuck do I do? Part of me wants to do it, the other part is fucking terrified.
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>>34179838
Run nigga
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>>34179820
I'm not a prostitute
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>>34179772
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walk into the sun hoping Im not barred from eternal grace by being forced to become an abomination
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>>34179792
Rightoids aren't against those things where I'm from, I don't like them because they give my taxes to rich people and import more poor people so they can pay me lower wages
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>>34179829
>for an actually leftist country tolerate
You keep showing how uneducated are with your incomplete sentences, poltard.
Now bugger off.
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>>34179837
Yeh

>>34179838
Let it happen, we bought our friend a escort too to cheer him up. That's what friends are for
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>>34179829
>abortion is right-wing actually
bait used to be believable
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>>34179550
hmm, woman shift goalposts and tries her hardest to get away from the point stated, all the while making up sentences that were never said. A tale as old as time.
>VOLCEL
isn't that just called "celibate"? The "voluntary" is implied
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women are you chou kawaii or meccha kawaii?
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>>34179772
I'd go look up my first ex and drive her even further out of her mind

>for 50 years

you heard me
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How many femanon got Blacked for MLK yesterday?
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>>34179772
M
Thinking how I am going to have to travel by night now if I'm that type of vampire.
Am I?
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>>34179840
But considering how I live my life right now, it's basically impossible for me to get a girlfriend. If I don't take this chance I don't know when I'll have it again.

>>34179846
I'm just afraid of embarassing myself.
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>>34179851
Ohhh that's actually a good idea!
But couldn't you do that right now?
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>>34179847
Every government in the world is rightwing
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>>34179850
lol do you know the difference? meccha kawaii
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>>34179852
"blacked" is a redundant term nowadays because pretty much every young white woman hates white men.
It's like calling water wet.
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>>34179841
My mom did belly dancing, are you calling her a prostitute?
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>>34179844
They don't sound like
real right-wingers
You deal with the cucked European brand of conservatism, they're not allowed to actually be right-wing in Europe
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>>34179864
Yes
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>>34179860
>Every government in the world is rightwing
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>>34179854
>your IQ is on the floor.
EVERYBODY WALK THE DINOSAUR!
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>>34179843
>you finally get a word in with st. Peter
>oooooh sorry anon suicides go to hell, we meant vampirism as a trial of faith... byyyyye"
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>>34179864
Yes, son of a whore
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>>34179863
Keep coping, Ranjesh, does posting this make you feel better about the fact your own women hate you?
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>>34179868
Fuck you, she's a way better woman than you.
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>>34179861
meccha is kansai right?
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>>34179854
okay I'll re-ask a question in hopes for getting more answers:
Men, women:
At a convention, would you buy themed lingerie made by a guy for your self/gf/mom? What about normal underwear sets? Should I hire an woman to sell it for me? Right now I sell prints and other fun stuff with a mexican who cooks chorizo and plays music in the booth to attract people.
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>>34179863
>every young white woman hates white men
It's literally the other way around, white men hate white women because of fictional things they imagine about white women
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>>34179873
I'm not indian, lmao.
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>>34179850
>>34179861
>mecha kawai
Cute robot?
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>>34179876
Only if she sells chorizos on the side
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>>34179813
bigot
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>>34179867
What are real right wing topics then? Sex and identity politics?
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>>34179818
No, I don't have antisocial personality disorder.
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>>34179876
> would you buy themed lingerie made by a guy for your self/gf/mom
Unless that man was flamboyantly gay then no. I'd trust a women's opinion more on what is good lingerie to get.
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>>34179853
Yes
Basically Vampire: the Masquerade shit you're dealing with, garlic, crosses and running water are not weaknesses for you but the sun will kill you and you gotta be careful around fire
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>>34179822
Thats how I feel about it. After 18, or 21 to be sure, isn't everyone an adult. She is graduating college this summer. She is actually mature for her age not like her brain dead peers who think going to the club your entire 20s is fun. Thanks for the re-assurance.
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>>34179826
Both white.
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>>34179877
>fictional things
>fictional
Like what? If you talk to any white college girl she will eventually trashtalk about white men.
I know this because I see it happen in person almost every week.
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>>34179887
Alright, I am already locked into my Malk run anyway.
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>>34179883
Not my point. Real right-wingers would not want 3rd worlders to take the jobs of natives
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>>34179890
If you talk to any white man he will eventually trashtalk about white women.
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>>34179772
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A lot of politically motivated murder.
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>>34179875
Hehe eh.. sure
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>>34179893
I don't trash talk about white women and none of my friends do.
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>>34179878
You sound like one because indians are into that blacked shit as some kind of weird revenge thing against white people
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>>34179897
You literally do all the time
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FUCK ICE
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>>34179899
There's no point arguing with delusional people because they'll literally just lie and make shit up to keep believing they're right.
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>>34179898
I'm not into cuck shit.
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>>34179814
Cuuuuutteee im 6'3" and my bf is 5'5" my whole family is above 6'0" and apparently his is super short hehehe I bet the weddings gonna be rly funny
>>34179805
i trust a man named after a tendon
must be a strong dude.
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>>34179900
Me when Wendy's fills my cup halfway with frozen water
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>>34179902
I doubt that
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>>34179900
Are you the guy people have been complaining about recently, a legit illegal beaner posting on here?
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>>34179903
Fake shit that never happened aware
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>>34179903
Aw. I'm happy for you two.
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>>34179899
White women literally say in public that they don't date white guys. I've never seen a white man say the say thing - never.
>>34179901
I don't use female tactics.
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>>34179906
Fuck off faggot.
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>>34179900
*shoots you in the face*
Nothin personel, kid
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>>34179903
Never happened
>>34179908
>fell for it again award
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>>34179903
Are you cis?
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>>34179909
I've seen multiple white men saying this on 4chan and twitter
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>>34179912
Hope you die next cunt.
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>>34179900
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>>34179915
>comparing what trolls say on the internet to what women say in real life
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>>34179917
Handjob material
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Good evening, i love women
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>>34179880
>chorizos
>>34179885
>Unless that man was flamboyantly gay then no
But why? Just because I like designing nd making these things doesn't mean I need to have HIV-infested cock in every hole.
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>>34179918
It's not my fault that men are such pussies that they won't speak their mind in real life
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>>34179917
>>34179900
Samefag
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Do you guys talk to yourself almost constantly in private so you can practice having irl conversations without coming off as autistic?

Or am I fucking mentally insane?
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women would you date a man that has to work 10 hours tomorrow?
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>>34179917
Is this it? Are we back to 2020?
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>>34179917
whats wrong with ice?
do you like warm drinks?
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>>34179910
Ok the answer is yes!
>>34179926
Unironically get tested for autism.
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>>34179753
M

Time heals all wounds and most of these liberal career women won't ever have kids so it'll just kinda course correct over time.
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>>34179919
Ye
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>>34179903
>i trust a man named after a tendon
dont know if bait or retarded
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>>34179926
Idk but I talk to myself because I have literally no one else to talk to.
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>>34179916
Hehehheheheh get fucked, retard
Try some shit like she did, I dare you
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>>34179932
>>34179917
I don't get it, ICE keeps us safe
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I stop watching female youtubers when they get a little too cute.
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>>34179935
No girl likes a dick rider anon.
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>>34179937
I don't watch anything made by women at all. Maybe I'm just being retarded but it all comes off as performative and attention baiting.
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>>34179937
you watch female youtubers? The only name I know is JennaMarbles, and only the name
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>>34179936
Women don't act logically, they act emotionally.
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>>34179936
Liberals and Marxists hate America and the West with every fiber of their being. They're angry their biological weapons are being shipped out of the country they want destroyed.
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>>34179938
You shills still on this "bootlicker" shit? Get new material
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why do you guys hate him so much?
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>>34179945
Get pegged harder!
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love's got me all twisted up inside, atoggy :\ idk what to do about it
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>>34179949
because he's been doing the same "teenage thug" character since the 90's and it's old
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been talking with a girl online lately, while she seems to not share my interest of her (i've told her so), she constantly sends me pics, some of them slightly provocative too
does she like me and pretends to be hard to get?
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>>34179951
Who's the lovely lady and or gentleman
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>>34179955
Or she is just stringing you along to keep you as a backup bf.
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>>34179950
kek
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>>34179926
well sorta, i talk to my tulpa, just to talk to her rather than practice anything since she makes for good conversation.

you might be fucking mentally insane but that's ok
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Bit of a long post but I need guidance.

I (m) asked my crush (f)(we're both in college) to be my valentine and it blew up in my face.

This friend and I have known each other for about a year and a half, and over this time, we've dived into some vulnerable topics such as identity, hopes & dreams, fears, our pasts, relationships (she's about 4 months removed from a breakup), friends & family issues, and more.

Additionally, we spend a decent amount of time with one another, whether it be at the movies, school events, community events, parties, classes, hanging out at her place watching tv all night, or aimless drives listening to her favorite band and talking. (social media interaction is implied as well)

Recently, I assumed I had the green light, as she created a Spotify playlist for the two of us, and only added love songs (to no one's surprise, the playlist's picture was also a heart.)

Then, I initiated some more physical closeness from the standard hugs. We began binging a long-running netflix series (she'd already seen it, she was just rewatching for my sake) and I took a shot at laying my head and hands on her upper thigh/ass area (really anywhere near her lap), rubbing her legs underneath her pantlegs, feet, body on body playfighting/tickling, etc. (She has the ability to tell me to piss off if I should stop something and can exercise this at any time)

Any who, I ask her to be my valentine and she casually says yes. The next day, she's fawning over some goth rando at school and talking about how her friends are trying to set her up with some stranger (to her supposed dismay). Naturally, I got the message.

Afterwards, I admit and apologize for the confusion, and she understands that my proposal was romantic. She says that she "can't say she feels the same" but that I'm a great person and a close friend. We cap it at platonic I love you's, a long hug, and movie night.

The rejection is fine, but how did i misjudge this so poorly? I feel crazy. Help!
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3 weeks to valentines day :D
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>>34179963
I'm dating all of you
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>>34179965
Even me?
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>>34179967
You're dying alone sorry
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>>34179960
>tulpa
You have an imaginary friend, anon. It's not real
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>>34179962
Man, I can't even imagine getting cucked by a goth, that must be brutal. I'm so sorry
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>>34179963
Not a single millennial and zoomer has experienced burning passionate love, I dont know why you care so much
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>>34179963
Mwah <3
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Women, if you dated a guy and he was way more handsome/accomplished/talented than you would you get insecure
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>>34179914
We are both biological
>>34179907
>>34179913
Im living it. Some people are just kinda... Normal... idk, not inhibited by this nihilistic doomerism.
>>34179933
hi hi its a joke! :) sorry to hear abt the autism though
>>34179927
sorry abt that. good luck!
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>>34179963
Life's a drone for me so that doesn't count for someone like myself.
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>>34179956
just my ex, who i seem to have imprinted on. messy situation. her being gone feels like connection itself has disappeared, and it hurts so badly, like it's going to fragment my mind or something, except that never happens
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Yay namefag hours!
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>>34179971
To top it off, the goth was not a stunner. feels very bad lmao
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Something /atoga/ made me realise recently is that there's no point in debating with women.
You can say something that 100% correct, testable and measurable, but instead of admiting she's wrong, she will either insult you or give you some dead-end response like "you must be fun at parties" or "you are making this up" - and in both of these scenarios you will leave feeling defeated and she will leave feeling victorious even tho you were the one who was correct.
Women think emotionally, not logically - you can't use facts and logic against them.
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>>34179903
>im 6'3" and my bf is 5'5"
Bullshit, I don't believe this for a second
It is not possible for tall women to love short men
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>>34179965
Thank you.
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>>34179785
So why are the men "gestating", anon? Sounds kinda gay and feminine, anon.
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>>34179984
It's true anon. Women like strong and tough personalities. They do not however care so much for weak personalities in strong bodies.
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>>34179977
You're bullshitting. I refuse to believe a tall woman can be attracted to a short guy
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>>34179962
>did i misjudge this so poorly?


women can't be friends and never develop romantic feelings towards men that they view as an attention appliance. Now you know.
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>>34179976
No, you want the best for the people you love
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I hate the woman hate on here. It's not always like this.
>>34179983
You're just bad with girls, anon
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>>34179969
she's very well, we might start having her talk the wheel so she can replace me and my ego can die in peace
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>>34179989
Shut the fuck up, namefag. Every post you make should be regarded as a troll post
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>>34179976
Yes I do, but I was also insecure when I was single
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>>34179977
Are you the volleyball femanon?
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>>34179998
She was a fake bro, that was a dude
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>>34179983
It’s funny because you are wrong.
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>>34179983
skill issue
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>>34179992
Lady, it's okay to get horny for attractive men. Shit you see us guys get horny for bimbos all the time. There's no shame in disappointing incels. In fact incels appreciate honesty more so than this hiding. Jump off the honor roll stage where the principal is clapping for you and start living life like the rest of us. Be at our level as it feels more human.
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>>34179994
>You're just bad with girls, anon
I don't have problems talking to women irl, but a debate is a debate and losing whilst being correct is annoying as fuck.
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>>34179996
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>>34179994
No, he's 100% right on women. You CANNOT argue with them, facts and logic don't work with women
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Any lonely, single femanons in this thread right now?
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>>34179983
I only wanted femanon to drink more water but she just refuses to
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Women at best just want to hurt me
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>>34179962
dating ultimately is about building intimacy, but so is friendship. if you start with friends, then there will necessarily be mixed signals, with friends it is better to simply discuss the topic point blank rather than ask them out, and it's good to address feelings ASAP.
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>>34179983
Why do even want to debate and argue in the first place. Just go out on dates and have fun, why make everything so exhausting
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>>34180006
I have never lost a debate against a woman. I wear them down, until they admit defeat.
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>>34180009
lonely yes but not single
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Any happy, single femanons in this thread right now?
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>>34180016
Lol
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>>34180009
>lonely, single femanons
don't exist
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>>34180007
I don't get it
Personality is just a meme anyways, it's always the attractive people that are rated to have better personality
Everything is genetic
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>>34180015
Your idea of fun... isn't
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>>34180008
Nah it's not women, it's stubborn high IQ people.
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>>34180003
I didn’t understand any of that. You are incel and upset that.. people are supportive?
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>>34180016
>AI image in the cover
I'm sure this book must be absolutely eye-opening...
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>>34180027
He's just a tripfag troll, filter him
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>>34180029
>book
Looks like a course/app
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m
gonna make a new app call trilingo. leave you speaking in tongues
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>>34180010
He looks like the monster from Goonies
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>>34180032
even worse.
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>>34180021
Anon you need to have fun with everyone equally okay. At some point in your life you're gonna be in dire need of someone like me and all these cool people that you wanted to be around with are gonna leave you to die as opposed to someone like me who has a heart. If you want to live in a world where everyone thinks having a heart is gay you're gonna be in Hell.
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>>34180009
AMA indian femanon here
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>>34180030
>>34180027
No, I'm not.
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>>34180034
>trilingo

sounds more like a fast food chain
fiveguys
in n out
trilingo
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>>34180036
Lmao
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>>34180038
You can’t fix incels they’re conditioned to be fact that society hates them
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>>34180036
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men, would you stay a girlfriend that can’t climax
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>>34180041
Do they sell Indian food?
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>>34180045
She's gonna leave me first most likely. Or cheat
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>>34180038
It sounds like you're just put some shit into a chat bot and you're pulling out this weird response. It doesn't seem natural and you're confusing me
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>>34180023
My idea of fun suits me but we can agree to disagree
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>>34179903
the height gap I deserve

kek jk I'm 5'8" so I don't want a gap that big but bless

I wanna ask out my friend's wife's taller sister (probably 6', my friend's wife is 5'10" and shorter than her. Her husband is the same height as me.) but she's from out of town, just graduated uni, and doesn't know where she'll be living post-graduation. All I know is that she'll be back in February though. No clue what the hell I'm doing though, I talked to her about books 'n stuff for like 15 minutes and she's cute and nerdy enough that she left a lasting impression. I wonder if her sister caught my disappointment when she said she had left town when I asked her where she was.
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>>34180047
let’s say she doesn’t though, is it a dealbreaker for you?
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>>34180039
Is being into white guys really common among Indian girls? I always thought it was Asians girls (Jap, Chinese etc) that were like that but Indian girls would swamp every white guy when I was in university (self included). It was extremely unexpected.
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>>34180048
>>34180043
>>34180021
Can no one speak English itt
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>>34180039
how's the dating scene for you
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I think it's sad that people just assume incels hate women for nothing
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>>34180056
There are Indians in this thread.
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>>34179740
Am I considered Black with this many spots? I'm afraid ICE might deport me?
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>>34180058
They do. Nice try, incel
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>>34180053
If she can't get off then she probably doesn't enjoy sex and the bedroom will die at 35 or sooner if we have kids. So no I wouldn't
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>>34180054
White guys are cool to show off to our friends but we desperately want skinny indian husbandos
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Ladies
What's the stupidest thing someone did to get your attention?
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Girls, how much do you actually hate when guys ask you out at work (public facing jobs)

There’s a petsmart girl I think is absolutely gorgeous and I wanna ask her out. Assuming I ask respectively and leave after, do you think she’d care that much?

Naturally I’ll be buying the 100lb bag of dog food too so it shows that I’m not just there to ask her out, while also showing my empathy as a dog owner as well as my physical strength and financial stability.
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>>34180063
Ah so you're an Indian guy then, makes sense
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>>34180045
i saw a vid once of a guy who had his lower body 'removed' somehow (idk maybe he was in a war or something), but he's still able to get orgasms from his partner cause they focus on other parts of his body. An orgasm is mental at heart, as the mind controls the shit and release of feel good chemicals. If she can't cum now, odds are she still has the ability to do it if she figures it out. I'd stay if she's making a genuine attempt to figure it out. Otherwise, imma be left hanging sex wise and it'll be less satisfying
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>>34180057
I have been single all my life yay :’(
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>>34180056
No, I do know English and I'm two of those posts. I'm just confused by what you're trying to say because I don't know why you brought up "having fun with everyone equally"
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>>34180063
good morning sirs
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>>34180060
>yes, I'm a cat mom. How do you know?
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>>34180067
Why would you say that :(
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>>34180069
>can't even get harassed by an indian
its truly over for a woman if this has never happened
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I think I'm getting addicted to having plants in my bedroom. I have a little terrarium but I'm thinking of getting a monsters, a vine and a peace Lilly
men thoughts?
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>>34180072
fine
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>>34180063
Then why do so many Indian girls date and marry the white guys then? Seems a little contradictory to what you're saying.
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>>34180056
I saw something online where we hit the level that there are more bots online than real people :/

Gotta wonder how many people on /atoga/ were never real.
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Do you guys think Trump will actually take over Canada?
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>>34180074
nta but holy shit Indians unironically are disgusting online and harass me all the time even if I haven't posted a single thing about myself apart from being female
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>/atoga/ is mostly ESLs nowadays
This honestly explains a lot.
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Do you remember your obscenity trial? When the soiled sheets of the boys you sodomised were produced at the witness stand?

What do you have to say for yourself?
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>>34180075
Indoor plants are very comfy but my concern is always about getting them enough light or water leaking out or odd smells (or so I hear). I'd turn my bedroom into a jungle of ferns and palms if I could.
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>>34180069
:(
have you put in much effort though?
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>>34180068
>i saw a vid once of a guy who had his lower body 'removed' somehow (idk maybe he was in a war or something), but he's still able to get orgasms from his partner cause they focus on other parts of his body.
Sounds like cope, but I guess in his situation you have to cope somehow.
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>>34180075
i want to purchase a tiny computer and monitor that natively runs a genetic life simulation 24/7, like a digitial terrarium
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>>34180056
>>34180086
This is /atoga/ we're all 100% brown and BLACK.
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>>34180083
I think people predicting a full-on kinetic invasion don't know what coercive diplomacy is.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madman_theory
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>>34180039
when you're happy or agreeing or saying yes, do you bob your head sideways? What would be a no to you?
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>>34180084
It's also really bad IRL, at least online you can block them but they will follow or stare at you in person.
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>>34180064
Ran across several train tacks I guess
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>>34180075
The place would need a lot of sunlight and fresh air else I'd consider it abuse if they had feelings
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>>34180098
I once got shat on for being Jewish supposedly giving me white privilege.

But white nationalists would think I am an untermensch they need to gas to death.

Isn't it ironic, don't you think?
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>>34179990
>>34179984
idk maybe my dad read me too much lotr at bedtime... i had a crush on gimli growing up.
>>34179998
No? Im the redheaded entomologist.
>>34180051
ohhhh are you that same guy from ?last? thread? God thats awful im so sorry anon. I hope you find her!!! Sometimes perfect matches meet at the wrong time and its EVIL evil i tell you. praying you find your tall goddess
>>34180065
I really really really hate it to be completely honest. It happens almost every shift and sometimes its just a bit exhausting. Nothing against you whatsoever, its just something better done in third spaces.
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>>34180065
A lot. It’s super uncomfortable
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>>34180101
>"cows are sacred saar"
>every picture or video of a cow in India shows it malnourished and living in filth
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>>34180063
>desperately want
why them specifically

t not indian, just curious
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>>34180083
That would be an insanely bad move for him politically. I mean, sure, they've got resources but they're way more blue as a whole.
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>>34180108
Oh shit a redhead mulatta, what up negro.
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>>34180075
Soon you will fighting batman
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>>34180112
its not a real answer, its an indian dude coping dummy
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>>34180097
im pale skin asian = yellow i guess
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>>34180056
Unfortunately not and I can't reach out to them. There just are some people in this world that put practicality obnoxiously above others. Doesn't make them bad people, but rather it just makes them miss out on what is there in this world that could help them. They won't ever see it. The only people who get me are those who don't look at things with scrutiny.
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>>34180123
basically brown
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>>34180113
The principal concern over Greenland is geopolitics, not domestic red vs. blue affairs. The spat isn't just over resources, either, it's whether the U.S. should take a leadership role in Arctic regional deterrence against Russia and China. Or if America can trust that Denmark can do so with limited American support, without a kick in the shin. America's current posture towards Denmark over Greenland right now is just that kick in the shin.
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>>34180108
what's your favorite and least favorite bug

i like shiny beetles and ladybugs because lady and theyre good for gardens and theyre round
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>>34180063
Other way around
It's an indian husband that indian women wants to show off to their family and friends but pajeetas DESPERATELY want white dick.
Indians are the only race where the women have negative favorablity in dating towards their own men. White women have the highest in-race preference while Indian women have the lowest. Christ, just imagine what those poor girls went through living in India to hate your own men...
You know the old saying, "if the people need it, it will be built?" Explain why you need separate trains for women, anon.
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Am I a volcel if I’m an 8/10 but I put 0 effort into dating?
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>>34180108
Why do the women ITT all have cool jobs like entomologist, actuary, and paralegal? While all the men here are bums?
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>>34180123
A/S/L?
What do you like to do for fun?
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>>34180130
Yes. All incels are volcels
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>>34180126
Anon wasn't talking about Greenland.
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>>34180132
hey wtf i'm not a bum ;_;
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>>34180136
Incel this, volcel this. The fuck? Why not try a human being.
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>>34180128
NTA but
>White women have the highest in-race preference
Absolutely not true. That's /pol/ cope.
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>>34180140
I don't think you're a human being.
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>>34180128
This. Indian parents are INTENSE. People think Chinese parents are extreme about education and family, but it pales in comparison to what Indian women go through from their parents.
And all this is before the caste system comes into the equation (which is officially abolished but unofficially still in place).
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Women would you date a brown latino?
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>>34180132
I’m sure guys here have cool jobs
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>>34180140
I’m a human but women never approach me and I have no photos of being social to attract them on dating apps
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Women hate white men.
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>>34180140
*human bean
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>>34180039
Did you manage to lose the fat around your stomach? BECAUSE I FUCKING CANT
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>>34180132
Oh, ohhh, I'm F and design toys. That's cool, r-right?
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>>34180149
Only white women hate white men. Coloured women LOVE white men
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>>34180128
I went out with a really cute indian girl when I was in college and she told me a few stories about india. Typically it was about being followed home a lot and harassed daily. She also said her mother was insane and controlling but I never met her parents, so idk how bad things must've been.
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>>34180153
Do you mean sex toys or children's toys?
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>>34180132
Paralegal is a cool job? :/
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>>34180144
You don't have any evidence that I am not a decent person other than an imageboard with poorly managed responses.
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Yep here we're all BROWN and BLACK.
Gender and what kind of brown or black are you /blacktoga/? If you haven't answered already.
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>>34180083
I think he might? I'm absolutely sure he is going to take Greenland one way or another but Canada I don't know. It wouldn't be wise considering how blue they are. Canada should remain a territory until we cleanse the communist terrorist threat from within
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>>34180153
The Toymaker. That sounds like the name of either a slasher movie villain or some kind of subterranean fairy from a Neil Gaiman book.
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>>34180146
No
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>>34180162
how come?
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>>34180132
>>34180147
M
I'm a luthier is that cool
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>>34180153
nta but yeah. i like to make digital toys. we'd be kindred spirits desu
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>>34180151
Women have that pouch of fat there to protect a growing baby in the womb. No, seriously.
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Women, which cultures make you feel like this?
https://youtube.com/shorts/zQPhvNU4JGE
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Women, imagine in your head the ideal husband; has a good job, cooks, cleans, is responsible, and adores you endlessly.

With that picture in mind,
>what was the color of his skin?
Be honest
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>>34180166
You're Lex Luther?
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>>34180132
M
I work in emergency medical services. High paying, high stress and I wouldn't recommend it, but it's pretty interesting I guess.
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>>34180143
Uh huh, sure pal
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>>34180156
Lol. Kids toys.
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>>34179802
you're so dumb
what part of you just ignore them you don't understand
I had a 14year gap relationship and ask me if I ever cared what anyone thought about it including her parents.
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>>34180170
The active cultures in probiotic yogurt.
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>>34180166
I think that’s cool, bro. I thought about training for that a couple years ago but chose a different path. What instrument do you play, guitar?
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>>34180045
Does she still like sex?
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>>34180169
all indians do, male or female
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>>34180159
Eh.. I’m Asian.
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Women, you send your bf/husband lewds and nudes of yourself because he likes them. How much effort do you actually put into the pictures nad videos you send? Like simple minimum ass and boob pics, or would you be a try hard?
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>>34180171
Any but he's kinda fat.
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>>34180176
Is toy design actually as difficult as it can sound?
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>>34180171
Same as mine. Honestly just pictured a baseball player I like
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>>34180171
Asian like my husband
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>>34180175
Women find all men around her age to be loser fuckbois, perverted dorks, and closeted faggots. They want that older guy who is an outlier whose lived a life on the streets to escape a life with.

How do you become such a person? Learn to be independent even in dependent situations. Learning to be independent is a skill that you have to develop very young.
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Women thoughts on doing shit you enjoyed when you were younger but realizing it's not fun anymore
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>>34180171
Native American. I love me a red man.
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>>34180184
I like fashion and being lewd. I would put a lot of effort
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>>34180171
White, but late 30s and greying a little.
I like the silver fox thing, don't judge me.
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>>34180188
How difficult does it sound to you? I just draw it, other people have to make it. Honestly, it is pretty hard to comply with safety regulations.
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>>34180194
Tell that to the NA spammer who complains about his looks all the time
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>>34180191
Another RICED white female. We love to see it.
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>>34180193
Grew up
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>>34180198
Haven't seen him in a while now that I think about it
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>>34180193
I've honestly not had that happen.
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>>34180192
>whose lived a life on the streets to escape a life with.
ESL ALERT!
ESL ALERT!
ESL ALERT!
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>>34180192
How much older though? What ages do women in their later 20s start going for then?
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>>34180204
Kek, gemmy
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>>34180204
Are you visualizing what I'm talking about anon?
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>>34180197
Depending on the toy you're working on, it sounds like it can be a pain sometimes. Me personally would be anxious of accidentally messing something up and having to redo everything from the beginning.
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>>34180205
Married men in their 40's. They believed they lived a full life like them. Sadly the bachelor boy which is me and you is put to the side in favor of someone who is more realistic and raw in character. I really wished I knew what I knew now at 19 as it would have saved me so much damn time in the world looking for answers.
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Wait, Denmark owns Greenland?
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>>34180209
I'm visualizing you using chatgpt to correct your grammatical errors.
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Do you ever think you will be involuntarily sterilized to prevent you from producing dysgenic children?
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>>34180213
Sure. More like, Greenland is part of Denmark
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>>34180214
Grow up.
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>>34180213
It's a semi-autonomous territory under Danish sovereignty, comparable to Sint Maarten or the British Virgin Islands in that way.
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>>34180210
That's why you Save often. :)
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>>34180193
I haven’t had this happen very much except for like very young child things like playing with toys. From my teen years I don’t enjoy going to concerts anymore. This makes me sound like such a boomer but the last concert I went to was made much less enjoyable by everyone having their phones out literally the entire time.
What from your childhood are you not able to enjoy anymore?
>>34180199
Wasian not white
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>>34180212
So early 20s women are going for guys in their 30s then? That feels a little weird
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>>34180171
he's always white or Asian.
>>34180184
I always put in the effort with my lewds
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Zoomettes, are girls nowadays less inclined to partake in hookup culture? Haven't gotten laid from dating apps as much lately even though not much about me has changed- for better or for worse
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>>34180196
unfathomably based
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>are girls nowadays less inclined to partake in hookup culture?
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>>34180187
my mom's fine
r-right?
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>>34180223
Something did change, you got old lol
Girls are fucking more than ever
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>>34180223
Yes. There's a big fear of date rape and stuff like that.
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>>34180192
>older street guy
But that's the infamous sleaziest shittiest ass man type in whom the loserdom, fuckboyishness, perversion, dorkishness and homosexuality of younger men culminate
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>>34180186
why do you want him to be fat?
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>>34180223
Hookup culture is still very high, it's just that apps are paywalling you from being able to do it now. Tinder didn't even have a paid version for quite a long time but suddenly everyone started getting less matches when the premium version appeared.
Same with all the other apps too, as every app is owned by Match Group. Online dating has been monopolized for a while now.
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I've been away from a while, man /atoga/ has really turned to shit huh?
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Only culture women have is hookup culture
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>>34180213
"owns" doesn't really exist at that scale. you only really own something if you can defend it, and europoors generally don't have the capacity or experience to do such, this it turns out is the downside of letting your bigger, stronger neighbor handle your defence for three or four generations. they extra stand no chance if USA e.g. decide to ally with russia
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>>34180233
Wow Anon just because we're all brown now? Racist self hating internalized white supremacist piece of shit.
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>>34180233
It has periods of being good and being shit.
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guys

is there anything a woman can do (other than having a black kid) that's more unattractive than talking like a nigger
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People who don't want to live among each other should be allowed to segregate from one another. That seems like a no-brainer, but burgers will insist that's actually a bad thing for some reason.
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>>34180233
It has periods of being shit and being absolute garbage.
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>>34180239
Fucking a black man in any way while also saying "I like men of all races and am not racist." in specific.
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>>34180221
When you got a young woman who is very high maintenance and a bit of a diva able to win any guy over, she usually wants to try to win over guys out of her league she is attracted to.

I thought it over and it checked everything I'm not as an autistic

*Knows house maintenance X
*Can think out of stressful situations X
*Knows where the fun is X
*Can take risks that are so well intended that despite how dire the risk is it makes sense X
*Can joke at the problems in life X
*Can be your greatest friend when you are deeply sad and in need of someone around. X

More and more reasons, but it is those things that someone much older would have someone like me wouldn't.

We're essentially too much like school-children. Our lives have been spent in front of electronics on the internet and multiplayer games. It's because we don't have a real life.
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>>34179779
I know what doesn't help: listening to the left. Or the right. Or anyone, but between giving even more power to women and supporting Trump until you're all fucked, I'll do the latter and help you all accelerate towards the place you belong to.
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>>34180229
No anon it isn't. If you're someone whom life comes easy to, women don't like that. Women also don't like men who have mommy and daddy survey all the time. My mother especially would make most women not attracted to me.
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>>34180239
being a serial dater.
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>>34179779
uh okay you bleeding heart centrist what's the alternative? if men stop being 'alt right extremists' we just get pushed out of society and/or turned into the castrated subjects of a gynocentric cultural totalitarianism. you ever think maybe we're right about some of this shit? it's always le misguided youths hearkening back to the past. well that's a little patronizing don't you think? maybe you should retrace the steps of these 'misguided' youths and read some political theory because everything you just said is impotent, empty moralizing with no real substance, no pragmatic backbone etc. not to be crass or anything but that's a standard female take, the milquetoast, lukewarm, and practically insolvent gaffing about how misguided people are, from the perspective of someone without a horse in the race.
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>>34180239
Moid hands wrote this
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>>34179779
>struggled to find their identities
What troony retardation is this? Why do you need an "identity" as a man beyond just being your own person? Your "identity" as a man is being a person who was born with a penis. Everything after that is just up to you.
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Femanons, you should be more soft spoken and speak in a higher pitch, it's more attractive to men.
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>>34180045
I don't think girls climax really. Not like men at least.
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>>34180045
Only with me or she just straight up can't cum, ever?
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>>34180255
Have you tried dating women that don’t remind you of children anon?
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>>34180083
Greenland for sure. But Canada will probably be picked a part slowly over time. Alberta leaving then joining the US, then another province, etc. I don't expect that to really happen during his presidency but over the next few decades.
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>>34180130
You are not 8/10 lol
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Femanons, you should speak exclusively in Osaka-ben.
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>>34180227
>still using the same pics
>still setting my age to 21 or 22 so I can rawdog and creampie college zoomettes (occasionally)
Can't be that, unc. I did go on dates with lots of different girls last summer, but none of them ever led to fucking
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>>34179779
uh, you realize modern right-wing culture is extremely counter to reaganism? this was a big debate back earlier in this decade and a bit before, when the neoconservative (reaganite) faction the GOP thought it could still hold on to power, the criticism from the faction in power now called it "zombie reaganism". what you're seeing right now is a modern echo of the 'Old Right' or paleoconservatism that lost influence in the 40s and 50s and died fully in the 70s as America elected to bring a new world order. the ills of modern society are driven far more by technology than politics, anyway, politics is all kabuki
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>>34180184
I send my boyfriend a photo of me in underwear holding his .44 long and another of me holding his SBR like 3 days ago because he was working a 16 hour shift. He did indeed like them but was obviously very tired
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>>34180132
are bugs cool now? is global health cool? am i cool?
>>34180127
i thought about this question for like 20 mins and i still dk wooly aphids maybe... Maybe silkmoths... Dont ask me for a species tho
>>34180184
idk if he likes them, hes never asked. Ive built up a folder of tasteful lewds if he ever does tho. (I hope he does)
>>34180193
Its bittersweet. Ive become less artistic over time, but it also opened the doors for new experiences.
>>34180255
Weirdly pedophilic.
>>34180264
is that the funny one?
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I forget if I asked this before.
Women would you be alright with your boyfriend (hypothetical if you didn't have one) not showing you his family?
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>>34180239
boss babes
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>>34180269
>is that the funny one?
It's musical and jovial.
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>>34180269
>Weirdly pedophilic.
It's called being demure
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https://youtu.be/aZaecdNHLxs
Atoga in a nutshell
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>>34180045
it's so weird to me how some girls go their entire lives without cumming. i know porn bad and all that shit but i always watch vids of girls masturbating i.e with vibrators and there's nothing more disappointing than when she cums but it looks like nothing even happened, it's like can't you cum a little harder for fucks sake? then there are the ones where they cum and it looks like she felt it in her soul and those are the ones that send me over the edge.
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>>34180270
I date to marry, and when you marry the man you also marry the family. I personally do not want to ever divorce so I’d like to know what I’m getting myself into with his family before we get married. But if there was a traumatic reason why there is no contact, I can understand/respect that.
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>>34180239
having sex
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>>34180091
as long as you use indoor plants with indoor potting mix and take care of them properly you won't get mold or weird smells. one of my OCD themes is around mold so believe me I've researched it
>>34180096
omg that would actually be awesome
>>34180106
my plants are in a medium sized bowl. I actually agree with you on plant abuse, I think we have to take care of all living things as best we can
>>34180118
don't they hook up in one version?
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>>34180270
It's a huge red flag. But it depends. Obviously I don't care in the first few months of dating but if its been 3+ months i'd start to expect it and if he resists it tells me he isn't serious and i'm out of there! Bye!
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>>34180267
Correct. It is not a sustantive conservativism but instead one that fetishizes the aethetics neoconservativism.
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>>34180270
it's actually my current case. I have never met my partners family because they live in another country and are extremely emotionally detached. I would have loved to have in laws but the way it's going I doubt they'll even text me (they have my number)
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>>34180276
Wait till you realize that “nothing really happens” when women cum because the orgasm is inside the vagina, and women don’t have penises that shoot out cum.
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>>34180281
> 3+ months i'd start to expect it and if he resists it tells me he isn't serious and i'm out of there! Bye!
Nta
That soon?
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>>34180281
What if it's a traumatic reason for no contact like >>34180277 said.
If that's the case would you still be adamant?
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>>34180279
I might get some then, I hear indoor plants somehow improve your overall mental wellbeing.
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>>34180290
I’d stay with the guy. Why not? Though I do expect to be in the know as to why the family isn’t involved in our lives. Keeping secrets so early in a relationship isn’t a great idea.
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>>34180287
There's a subtle physical reaction that you can feel, it's sort of like a pulsing and you can just feel it on your dick a bit.
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Why do women seem to argue without even the possibility of accepting fault or incorrectness?
Is it because women are weak and this is their only way to feel in control?
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>>34180295
Yes this is true, but I thought we were taking about porn videos
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>>34180277
There's a girl I like and would marry, but her family is absolute garbage. She's somehow the only one that didn't turn out as a narcissistic BPD asshole. The issue is tat in-spite of them being shit, she still goes back to them all the time and won't cut them out.

Honestly I'd marry her in a second if it weren't for her insane and gross mother. I'd never want my kids to meet her family.
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>>34180294
Well obviously I'd tell her the reason why I need a valid excuse not to.
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>>34180279
>omg that would actually be awesome
you think so? i feel like the project would come off weird to others. i want to have it run on a server so individual monitors are more like different windows to different sections of the worlds. have rough blueprints for algorithms to categorize different critters based on fuzzy matching of the genes, i have a vision in my head of finding studying the code the critters make to survive, looking at the strategies they come up with, etc. i dunno
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>>34180270
Every women I have met (like just 3 lol) have told that they would hate to date a man who is close to his mother
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>>34180297
Ah I see, I didn't read that far back. You can see it depending on the video, as there is the pulsing, but there's so much dependency that it's not easy to tell. Amateur stuff is usually pretty legit since they're in it for the fun.
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>>34180288
I mean it depends. If his family lived in the same city i'd kind of start to expect to be included in some things soon after 3 months. I'm not talking fuck buddies i'm talking actually dating. Yeah i'd expect to be starting to meet a sibling or a parent here or there.
>>34180290
I would be a lot less adamant in that case. But you'd have to explain the reasoning behind it. I won't lie i'd still feel like i'm being kept a secret, thats my own issue though. I'd definitely give some grace in this situation. But at SOME point i'd still expect to meet them especially if we got really serious like thinking about marriage. I wouldn't be able to marry someone if I didn't meet his parents. I think most women would agree with me.
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>>34180299
Well, seems like she’s made her choice anon. Either you can marry her anyways and deal with her family, and her choosing them over you the rest of your life. Or unfortunately and the hardest option is moving on. You marry the family with the gal.
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I'm horny!
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>>34180296
They are babied their whole life whereas mean aren't so they grow up thinking they can do no wrong. It's pretty common across cultures but its especially bad in the West.
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>>34180304
Damn where do you find these women? I need a woman who is happy to have a man all to herself.
>>34180306
Mm you can meet them at your own risk. I'm not even sure I'd want my hypothetical grand kids to meet them.
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>>34180308
It's just not fair man. She's at least moved away from them in the past and didn't constantly go back, but now she's back in the same state as them and keeps in close contact. She has one brother that is alright (though still has some very minor issues) and the other brother just cucks out to his wife all the time. It's mostly the mother that sucks I guess, she's a prime example of a narcissist.
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>>34180304
Others I've gone out with like that you're close with your parents. Usually if a girl doesn't like you being on good terms with your parents, it's because hers are pretty shit.
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>>34180313
I’m sorry anon :(, I’d suggest maybe getting her into therapy. Maybe a professional can open her eyes if you couldn’t.
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>>34180292
it really is true. if you're looking for anything in particular I can help you decide. a good go to is a zz plant because you only need to water them once a month
>>34180302
I was thinking along similar lines, like not a game but a proper simulation sort of thing. I think an eink display would be wicked for it (like a trmnl, which I only know of because I'm an E ink fan, and also a mini E ink display like an x4)
is this something you think you'd actually be able to do? because I'd run an instance of it on my PC as long as it's not going to be too resource heavy
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Are all the things she said running through your head?
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>>34180311
>I need a woman who is happy to have a man all to herself
Sorry to disappoint but these same women said that they also don't want to date a man that is with them all the time. It seems to me those ladies don't even want a relationship at all
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>>34180318
I think she's in therapy these days, I don't want to pry. She's seeing a good doctor regularly which is helping and is on some lower level meds to deal with her anxiety (obviously a side effect of living with her mother), so she's going okay. I think ultimately she'd just have to move away from them to really be better but I love living here and so does she.

She's also met my mom and thinks she's amazing, so that's at least a good thing. She has said something to the affect of my mom being more like a mother to her than her own mom, which was nice and also pretty sad.
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>>34180285
i'm not sure how you figure that, the attitudes are extremely different just inherently, neoconservatism had this hubristic dream of designing a geopolitical nash equilibria by entangling every world economy, so aggression against any one would cause others to gang up on the aggressor, while paleoconservatives were avowed isolationists (hence why you're seeing tarrifs, withdrawing from europe, aggression over denmark/south america, etc. for the sake of stopping encroachment on America. it is analogous to how the US encouraged south american independence in the previous incarnation of paleoconservatism). how do you figure it fetishizes neoconservatism?
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>>34180228
>There's a big fear of date rape and stuff like that.
Yes, and most of the posts from men on places like this justify that fear.
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>>34180323
No I'm pretty good at ghosting and never thinking of someone ever again. I have a lot of friends who are still traumatized by girls they dated 10 years ago though lol
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>>34180319
> if you're looking for anything in particular I can help you decide
I really want something very green and low maintenance. Not too big either, but something like a fern or something else that's very thick and has a nice jungle feel to it.
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>>34180323
F
no im listening to this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u7JckzkGfEI
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>>34180330
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mGBaXPlri8
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>>34180326
>Sorry to disappoint but these same women said that they also don't want to date a man that is with them all the time.
Who the fuck said that? I have other shit to do, not having a family doesn't mean I'm not busy.
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Women
why do you take selfies on a dirty stained mirror
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Can't fucking wait for Nfl season to be over so I can actually play ps5 on Sundays and it isn't hogged by my boyfriend watching every fucking game. Luckily the new bond game will be out when Superbowl is over.
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Have you ever fought as a man-at-arms in a medieval army? What was it like?
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>>34180327
Maybe move her closer to your family! If she likes your family that much!
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>>34180338
I want a gamer gf so bad it's unreal. All my ex liked was Switch games like Mario Kart and that was it.
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>>34180306
>I'm not talking fuck buddies i'm talking actually dating. Yeah i'd expect to be starting to meet a sibling or a parent here or there.
Man, fuckbuddies get off easy while guys women date have it hard. What is it about men that makes women doubt us so?
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When I wake tomorrow, will the world be awash in a rain of fire and blood? And the next day after that, will there be a crater by my house where there once was none, and two suns in the sky instead of one?
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guys, should I be concerned if I keep finding 1 guy every time I download dating apps?
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>>34180341
I'd like to but they live in a smaller city and job prospects wouldn't be as good, so it wouldn't be as easy as that.
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>>34180319
>is this something you think you'd actually be able to do?
one of the few things that sparks motivation to get my life together, yeah? although i should clarify i meant a local home server, not a thing anyone could access, my impulse is to kinda drop out of society a bit and keep things closed loop, tinker on my weird projects til i croak. i haven't really considered what sort of display i'd use though, probably i'd want something full colored, idk if eink has that. what about eink would be good?
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>>34180338
Your bf doesn't know how good he has it
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>>34180345
Do you mean finding that same guy on every app? I'm not sure I get what you mean.
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>>34180345
Is it the same guy every time?
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>>34180342
Gaming isn't my biggest passion but I do love it and with American cinema being pretty shit these days I find the storytelling in video games better in many ways. Like I'm 99% sure the new Amazon name bond will suck but the new game actually looks like a really fun bind story. (Hopefully)
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>>34180346
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XfJnFiYLyZI
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>>34180351
Yeah
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>>34180345
What do you mean one random guy per app or the same guy on every app? If the former then your ugly, if the later then that guy is a loser and can't get any dates.
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>>34180351
>>34180352
No, that's just a transphobic dude who loses his shit when he sees an obvious, non-passing trans woman on a dating app. You can just swipe left, you know.
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>>34180345
That's obviously your soulmate
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>>34180354
Yeah I didn't mean gaming is you life, only that you had the range to enjoy more than just Mario Kart. Hollywood now does also suck, I only ever watch older movies lately. Watching something with practical effects and real locations (i.e no green screens) is incredibly fun to watch.
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>>34180343
Well they occupy two different roles. One is for fun and one is for serious thats why they are treated differently.
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>>34180338
Why not get the switch screen thing for ps5?
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>>34180358
It’s the same guy. I’ve talked to him a few times before but he doesn’t seem to want a relationship
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>>34180323
more that i turned into yet another stain on her history of men that shouldn't have but proceed to fail her. she was always apologetic on behalf of her abusers, and i honestly can't tell, when she has a tone of forgiveness, if it comes from that place or not
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>>34180357
I guess he's just trying to cast a wide net, as you are too I'd assume if you're doing the same thing, so maybe you're both sort of similar then.
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>>34180342
I play Halo with my boyfriend, we’ve played the entire game all the way through 3 times now. We played Battlefield, CoD when it was good, Siege. Get a partner who plays video games I recommend it.
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Why to FtoM trans always have that same voice? Is that the best one can do when they don't naturally have a deep voice?
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>>34180372
>Halo
Is it 2004? Jesus fucking Christ.
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>>34180371
nta
I feel like I should finally read Scott Pilgrim
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>>34180376
Nostalgia
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>>34180371
lmfao yeah, basically, thanks for that, mood has been shot lately. idk objectively i don't even come close to the wordt, but any inch in that direction too much
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>>34180373
Probably? MtFs all sound the same too.
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>>34180378
does that have a musty scent?
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>>34180366
I'd let him go girl. Find someone who is interested
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>>34180333
for a small green fern that's low maintenance I'd say the bird's nest fern or not kangaroo fern are rather pretty, and don't get too big when in a pot
>>34180349
yeah for sure local server is the way to go and I understand that. I mean my PC is reasonably strong and has a lot of ram so it can handle complex calculations I suppose.
eink is good because the displays can be dimmed to zero and still display something since the background is white. you can also set the refresh to insanely low values (like below 1 hz). they don't give off much heat, have optional backlighting and colour displays are available too although the idea of a bw E ink jungle sounds like the perfect solution. of course OLED is also good but having a black background means it can't be dimmed to zero without displaying nothing
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How can men be gay when women exist?
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>>34180377
You should, the movie misrepresents it as an Incel Nice Guy fantasy. The character relationships in the comics are much messier and the villain's motivations are much darker.
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>>34180373
I have worked with trans people of both sexes and it comes down to whether or not they voice train and also hormones. If they're not on testosterone their voice won't deepen and if they don't voice train they will still have feminine inflections.
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>>34180108
>ohhhh are you that same guy from ?last? thread?
I might have mentioned her in a blogpost last week (because I thought I was gonna see her on Friday and chickened out of asking her for her number when I went out of my way to say goodbye to her when she was at the door), but not in any recent thread.

Thanks though, idk if there was much of a spark on her side, so we'll have to wait and see!

>>34180132
I'm a PhD student in physics. Maybe I'll graduate and get a job one day.
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This is the kind of energy I look for in a woman.
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>>34180372
How old are you exactly? For the longest time it seemed like being a gamer was massively negative to women but maybe people don't care anymore.
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>>34180373
>>34180383
it's because they all watched the same youtube voice training video kek

nah jk some of them have decent voices. Still haven't met one that passed though.
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>>34180392
>the villain's motivations are much darker.
They already seemed pretty dark but you have done a god job at pitching it to me. I'm waiting for my weekly manga now to build a backlog so the timing is ripe.
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A friend was explaining how a bisexual woman can get an STD and it get worse due to the differences in pH between men and women, but he was really vague about it.

can a bi woman explain that to me?
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>>34180396
What the fuck is up with the Celsius marketing. This shit is everywhere now, they're getting too heavy handed with it.
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>>34180396
I don't know why so many men pretend basic trashy hoes aren't their top pick, literally everyone sees how popular they are with men
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>>34180376
Speaking of 2004, I'm playing VTM Bloodlines again
It inevitably calls you back to reinstall
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>>34180403
Someone with oral herpes eats out your pussy.
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>>34180385
Guess I guess so but he’s really hot
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>>34180405
Girl in question looks like a spanish Daisy Ridley with really big boobs.
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>>34180392
I can see how you say that the movie makes it "more" like a "nice guy" fantasy but I don't think it's a nice guy fantasy at all. I didn't read the comics and saw the movie as a teenager. It felt pretty on the nose that Scott was developing his own "7 evil exgirlfriends" as the story progressed and that he and Ramona are both so terrible (I don't like using the word toxic, but it's kind of fitting here) that they're truly the person the other deserves.
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>>34180396
BEGONE CORPO
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Women, is it a deal breaker for you if a man presents a lot of the mental/emotional traits you want to see in a partner, but they're not traditionally masculine? I.e. not physically imposing, hyper dominant, and grizzled like they're just got back from living 20 years in a jungle somewhere.
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>>34180414
>>34180404
I literally just saw it on some random chick's tiktok.
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>>34180409
It's not worth the chase. Find another hot guy who is interested!
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>>34180415
I like men who are gentle so this sounds nice
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>>34180396
This is how you end up in a wheelchair after someone stops short in front of you.
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>>34180411
What matters is what's on the inside, and that's the same in all women who spread their slutboot legs in someone's car at night to take pictures of trendy beverages for their simps on social media
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>>34180362
Blackpilled again
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>>34180402
This is kind of an asshole thing to say, but people who have been abused have a really hard time having a healthy relationship. Some of those others might have lovebombed her, so she thought moving on this fast was normal.
It takes some time for them to realize they have issues that need fixing first. Otherwise even the most perfect partner might not work out.

Why did you repost it btw?
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Why do men date women who expose their weird looking, blocky toes that are disproportionately stubby compared to the rest of their feet?
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>>34180422
NTA but because of working in EMS, someone was in the ER after an accident while doing that and it forced one of her leg bones into the center of her pelvis. The x-ray was insane to look at and the internal damage was really something.
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How would you feel if your ex boyfriend apologized and said that his own insecurity damaged the relationship?
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>>34180366
Have you hooked up?
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>>34180423
Ok, incel.
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>>34180421
What do you like about more gentle men, if you don't mind me asking? Is there a particular quality you like or expectation you have for them? Really, anything you have to say is welcome.
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>>34180415
It really just depends on the girl. Some want that masculine guy and some don't really care. I'd say if she grew up with a father and brothers who were that way she will look for that. Most are open to less traditionally masculine guys but i'd say, and i'm including myself in this, that they still want to feel protected from the world. Like be willing to step between me and a sketchy guy on the street or if you hear a sound in the middle of the night while sleeping get up and look.
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>>34180386
rofl careful i have major autism here. i don't expect to have the simulation to have any show stoppers wrt complexity, the art of demoscene-esque optimization is a bit dead because of how complex modern microprocessors are, but other projects have forced me to be familiar with their architectures so the primitives of the simulation will be designed to be parallelized and maximize bare metal performance, with the actual simulated critters operating as emulations of idealized computers (not so different from DNA/RNA, which could be thought of as physical computers), and those could be further optimized by compiling the critter code into bare metal code to reduce overhead, as long as you can sufficiently divide world simulation into discrete parts (which you ought to be able to, since causally cells should only interact with neighbors) you should also be able to distribute these to other computers as well. if you combined the design to also use GPUs, then you could make it even more possible. idk i could talk for hours about design realizability.
i'm not familiar at all with eink, those all sound good, i guess i wouldn't mind it blaring in my place all day lmao. i like the idea of having the option to change the hz, especially if these things could be controlled by any computer hooked up to it, or if dimness can be controlled down to the pixel, then it'd be fun to entangle dimness with critter properties so brightness on the screen could represent some light-like quality, i suppose that'd be more aesthetic
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>>34180424
Don't be. Not every girl is that way, i'm just explaining how some girls operate. Some only look for serious relationships.
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>>34180431
I have a boyfriend and I don't dislike basic hoes, I just dislike how men pretend that they don't like them when they by definition are women who are notoriously popular with men
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>>34180376
>Is it 2004?
Most people ITT wouldn't be miserable if it was.
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>>34180437
Ok, spiritual incel.
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>>34180395
>PhD student in physics
THATS WHAT MY SHORT KING DOES
>>34180337
No i prefer a tidy environment, its good for my mental wellbeing.
>>34180415
Honestly I just wanna grow old fat and ugly with a guy who wants the same. Hopefully Ive found that. None of my exes were particularly manly nor looksmatched to me and I really didnt care.
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>>34180428
What broke? The femur or the pelvis?
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>>34180425
>This is kind of an asshole thing to say, but people who have been abused have a really hard time having a healthy relationship.
I've sort of wondered the same, or that because I wasn't like them and that's all she attracts, that I must've had something bad she hadn't found yet. I think my struggle to fall for someone again is absolutely a flaw but you can't just force yourself to feel comfortable with someone faster than you are able to, it takes time.

I can't really remember when she broke up with her ex but it was a few months prior I think. My breakup was over a year earlier but I still hasn't quite moved on emotionally from it. I was getting better with time at least but I also feel like I've been set back yet again. She did also say she wanted to take time and get better but our conversations not long after made her pretty upset since it was about how I struggled to say I loved her as I wasn't sure how I felt yet and was still messed up myself (but then again, love and marriage and tlaking about growing old togetehr after 3 or 4 months? Feels too fast imo)

>Why did you repost it btw?
Formatting and added a pic kek.
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>>34180405
That's the pump & dump/jerk off material type. Women don't seem to understand how men's dualistic mating strategy works.
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>>34180426
who hurt you
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>>34180426
Most of us aren't footfag degenerates.
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>>34180441
Femur. It didn't break exactly, more that the impact from her position just forced it into an area it shouldn't go. Legs on the dash is so fucking dumb.
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>>34180447
You are.
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>>34180439
Believing that men are shallow liars is incel-spirited? Perhaps you should brush up on your terminology

>>34180444
I've read a few studies on how signals of sexual availability affect men's willingness to engage in short and long term relationships. What you're saying is that a woman that all men want to fuck is considered unpopular and unattractive?
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>>34180450
Nah.
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>>34180451
>What you're saying is that a woman that all men want to fuck is considered unpopular and unattractive
For commitment, yes.
>>34180451
>I've read a few studies on how signals of sexual availability affect men's willingness to engage in short and long term relationships.
Mind linking one?
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>>34180396
You guys used to rip me a new one ITT when I'd talk about putting my feet up on the dashboard of a guy's car, though.
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>>34180455
It is extremely stupid and dangerous, don't do it.
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>>34180457
Not in a moving vehicle, obviously. Parked cars.
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>>34180459
It's still gross and disrespectful.
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>>34180425
not an assholish thing to say imo, trauma generally fucks people up and when it involves other people, the situation gets unhinged quickly. i didn't realize the extent of my own issues in my last relationship, didn't even realize she was abused (we were friends a long time, she never told me until after i was invested (and that didn't take long because of my issues lmao)). it was heartbreaking to see, and hard to navigate in :\
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>>34180443
>think my struggle to fall for someone again is absolutely a flaw
Probably not, it doesn't take everybody equally long and it doesn't happen equally fast every time.

>My breakup was over a year earlier but I still hasn't quite moved on emotionally from it.
I was that way too, but honestly it just made me waste so much time in retrospect. She definitely wasn't worth it in my case, and I hate myself for not just not moving on sooner, but giving her more than one chance.

Some distance is absolutely important after a breakup, because it's emotionally similar to mourning somebody.
But at some point the mourning becomes convenience and it's better to throw yourself in new situstions instead. But this is not to say there is a deadline where you MUST say "I love you". Though I think after 4 months of dating, you're probably in a small minority if you are still not convinced of it.
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>>34180461
I don't get why. My pants and feet are clean, and I don't put shoes up on there.
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>>34180132
Male nerds used to be successful as well, but I think porn and videogames have zapped their spirit. Though it was also because success was their ticket to getting female attention, which is not as effective anymore.
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>>34180130
You're a volcel if you don't try to have sex, despite probably being able to.
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>>34180455
It's only acceptable if you're a brat hoping to be punished for it.
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Okay guys see you later. I have a life so i'm going to meet up with some friends for dinner. Stay mad!
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>>34180464
I'm just very slow with things. I didn't even consider some of my friends to actually be my friends until I'd known them for over a year, before that they were just people that tolerated me. I have self confidence issues I guess.

Regarding the 4 months too, it's complicated. We were sort of a casual/FWB thing (because we both acknowledged we didn't want anything serious yet because of the past) and the love thing dropped on me maybe 2 or 3 months after we'd first met. I said it back at the time since we were literally in the middle of sex when she first said it and you can't just say back "oh that's nice" so I had to say it back, then later admitted a week or two later I wasn't sure about how I felt yet as she noticed I was timid about saying it again after that night.

I've since realized I'm probably not ready for dating just yet and I'm going to take a few months away from trying.
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>Man I am SUCH a Stacy haha, I LOVE being a Stacy, seriously I NEED you all to know how much of a Stacy I am!!!
Why are they like this? They're like John but a woman.
We know all women ITT are Stacy but do you need to remind us every single day?
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Any sub5s looking for an LTN?
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>>34180239
Using "tho"
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>>34180473
>were literally in the middle of sex when she first said it
Ok she might have developed BPD from the abuse, because that is the worst moment to say it for the first time.
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>>34180476
Why are you bi.
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>>34180198
>>34180202
I first started getting into 40K when he was crashing out regularly, and I've always pictured the Emperor having his face as a result.
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>>34180432
I like men who are kind and respectful, that don't shout or get angry but are still excitable and are willing to be confident in their masculinity (ie in a non toxic way). it's like when guys smile and we just chat about our lives. they also tend to have interests more aligned with mine
>>34180434
this is actually really interesting to talk about, do you have a discord I could add you on?
for the pixel lightness control I think that would best be done with a OLED best since it can do per pixel dimming. for that a very display would let you do 1 to max hz but you'd have to be somewhat familiar with something like Vulkan I think (honestly this is the extent of my info on display tech I think).

as for what you propose is sort of sounds like it would be making a game of life but more complex which is cool. I wonder if for the eink ones you could do some fun RISC V optimisation for an esp32 (like the x4 or a star64/starpro64) and just run a very small simulation on device where you have only a few plants and animals.
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>>34180476
Nigga just go out to the bar and start hitting on fat chicks.
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>>34180473
>the love thing dropped on me maybe 2 or 3 months after we'd first met. I said it back at the time since we were literally in the middle of sex when she first said it and you can't just say back "oh that's nice" so I had to say it back
just imagining this stresses me out. it's a lose-lose situation either way.
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How do you explain to a guy that you want to be desired sexually? Im a 10 but he makes me feel like a 2 even though I KNOW hes attracted to me. He says he has a lot of performance anxiety and that it took him 6 months to even kiss in his last relationship. aghh how do i deal with this. help.
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>>34180479
That's talking like a nigger tho.
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>>34180488
It's a power play.
The one in control always decides how things goes.
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>>34180488
>Im a 10
Yeesh.
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>>34180488
>Im a 10
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>>34180223
Imo it seems like women are hooking up more often, but with fewer men.

Basically they get 1-2 fuckbuddies from tinder/discord instead of barhopping and clubbing like millennials
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>>34180488
>Im a 10
"Anyone who needs to say "I'm a 10" is no true 10." - Tywin Lannister, Tyrion VI, A Storm of Swords by George Raymond Richard Martin
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>>34180488
>that it took him 6 months to even kiss in his last relationship.
That is simply mental illness.
He might need therapy, because that's insane and he likely has extreme hangups.
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>>34180481
>because that is the worst moment to say it for the first time.
It is? I've never done that myself but I didn't think anything too odd about it, only that I did feel just a bit trapped but I doubt that was her intention.

>Ok she might have developed BPD from the abuse
I have wondered about this. She would be really positive and happy for a long time at the beginning, then she started having bad days where she became really monotone and closed off. Even our IG messages to each other took on a really flat and emotionless tone.
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gender
do you play music in your head to help pass the time at work (or elsewhere)? how enjoyable is it? how vivid?
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>>34180497
M
No. Because of the way memory works, you're unable to go through the song in real time and go through it in just seconds.
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>>34180469
Well I do like that shit, but that's not my intention when I want to put my feet up.
>>34180497
Not purposefully. The music that gets stuck in my head is pretty annoying when I can't sing along without risking someone hearing.
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>>34180496
>I did feel just a bit trapped
That's why it's a terrible time to say it for the first tine.
It's like proposing in front of a massive crowd, except the exact opposite in terms of intimacy.
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>>34180497
Nah.
I just look at things.
or meditate.
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>>34180239
Pinkpill stuff or antinatalism.
I don't even want kids, but someone who hates existence itself is repulsive to me.
>t. Padomaic
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>>34180498
You can just sing the entire lyrics in real time.
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Any lonely, single femanons in this thread willing to date a fat and balding guy?
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>>34180239
>other than having a black kid
M

Hey now- it's not unattractive if it's my black kid
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>>34180416
Congrats, you fell for their marketing like the cattle you are.
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I know I can treat you better than he can
And any girl like you deserves a gentleman
Tell me, why are we wasting time on all your wasted cryin'
When you should be with me instead?
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>>34180503
That's not what the question was about though.
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Engorged ovulating pussy
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Is there a good ai where I can set up a dating sim?
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>>34180506
They don't even sell it in my country, calm down.
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>>34180471
Congrats on getting an aeropress, are you going backpacking anytime soon? Also nice keyboard
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>>34180488
You might need to take charge. Get him ravenously horny, then tell him he has to come get you.
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>>34180242
What if she's also a mix of a bunch of races, including black?
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>>34180500
True, I hadn't put a whole lot of thought into it. I'd say my actions and reactions later made everything worse, as I was mixed on how I felt about her, but I did feel it was way too soon for me to say it and doing it during sex really forced my hand.
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>>34180498
that's utterly ridiculous. hard to imagine someone typing such a thing desu
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>>34180502
>someone who hates existence itself is repulsive to me.

your body is going to get eaten by insects and micro-organisms :)
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>>34180516
nah, it just seems like fun to have, getting into the more "manual" side of coffee.
Might get a V60 since that seems to be recommended a lot too, also thanks. :^)
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>>34180520
Try to watch a full length movie from start to finish in your head, see how that turns out for you.
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>>34180518
Hm...
Hm...
Hmph... Hnnngh...
Uh.... Ah...
Hmmmm...
I have decided... maybe.
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>>34180499
JH, you're too short for this. Try being > 6' and not getting to put your feet up.
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>>34180523
hard to imagine someone typing that too desu
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>>34180519
Next time stop it immediately and talk with her about it. I mean if another woman tries to pull that off.
How you described her, she might not have even been aware of why it was an issue.
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don't say anything even remotely non-complimentary about black people
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>>34180470
Bye, ENTJ.
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>>34180523
You are severely autistic.
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>>34180510
giggling at 2am under the stars with tacobell
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>>34180530
autistic people tend to be rigorous thinkers tho
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>>34180510
Touch grass
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>>34180535
...who can't imagine shit.
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>>34180527
Maybe, I don't know. We don't talk anymore and she seemed really upset with me at the end. I think the BPD argument gets even more credence since the breakup was brutal with her being pretty mad at me about how I handled the 'i love you' stuff, then we talked a bit more after via text and phone calls for a few weeks and made some plans, then a week before something we discussed doing she said she wanted to be left alone and blocked me on everything.
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>>34180528
I can see how that would sound prejudice. Which is a racist observation, is it not?
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>another male anon who fell for a BPDemon's crazy sex
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The femanons really fucking hate fat and balding guys, it's never been so over
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>>34180287
thats not true most healthy women have powerful contractions and endorphin release from cumming just like men do, it's just that some women for whatever reason either don't cum at all or can't really tell when they cum.
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>>34180521
Yes. Is that supposed to be an own? I've specifically told people I don't want to be cremated for that reason. You're the ones who hate the natural world.
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>>34180528
based niggers
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>tfw you will never be driving around with JH and pull over in a secuded area for punishment sex after she puts her feet up on your freshly cleaned dash
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>>34180543
I have to admit, the sex was insane and I was having more in a week than some people might experience in an entire year. I was bruised and exhausted but couldn't stop.

Is an extremely high libido exclusive to BPD women?
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>>34180497
f, I apparently have a very vivid mind and I can play songs in full, sometimes they get too loud though. right now I have roundabout by yes stuck in my head because I've been watching JoJo with mum. (I'm schizo so I see and hear stuff pretty well)
>>34180498
this is simply not true
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Why do women like shows about murders so much? There is this girl at my work that is always watching shows about murders and then she talks to me about them and my grandma loves those shows too, same with the wives of other friends. Why women like to know about murders so much?
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>>34180488
i could really use your ego
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>>34180552
HOT.
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>>34180526
>>34180530
So you can real time, second for second, watch an entire movie in your mind? No skips or rushing ahead? Because that sounds like some Rain Man level autism.
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I consider women of colour prettier than white women, is that racist?
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>>34180558
Get help.
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>tfw you will never be reported by jh for talking about blacks in a non-worshipful way (because what non-worshipful thing is there even to say about blacks??)
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>>34180560
No thats called a fetish
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>>34180564
I think black women are prettier.
I think that's partly due to their skin color, and partly due to the high test that makes their muscle more pronounced which gives them better figures.
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>>34180561
>ad hominem and no counter argument
Lol, sorry about your 'tism then.
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>>34180552
>roundabout by yes
this song samples that song, give it a listen why don't you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vzNPWmk7rMk
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>>34180554
>Why do women like shows about murders so much? There is this girl at my work that is always watching shows about murders and then she talks to me about them and my grandma loves those shows too, same with the wives of other friends. Why women like to know about murders so much?
Probably has a weird interest for survival knowledge, empathy, understanding criminal psychology, and a desire for justice, often seeing it as a way to learn red flags and feel prepared for dangerous situations, despite being disproportionately targeted as victims in the stories. And or are secretly psychopath/sociopaths
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>>34180558
you're genuinely retarded. who's solving these captchas for you?
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>>34180561
its correct though. songs dont take seconds but something like a movie cant be replayed in full at normal speed in your mind since memory does go faster than real time
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this level of idiocy actually bothers me. there's probably 10 people in here tops, and one of them is retarded to the point of derangement. this is one of the reasons everything sucks now.
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Need me a black girl that eats chinese takout 2 times a week and got that "I pay taxes and I want to die" look in her eyes.
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state gender. if you had to think about the below, what would you think / how would you react to this happening if you were in the same room as this person

>at a mandatory work seminar about relationships
>one guy gets called upon
>he's asked "what are signs of a healthy relationship"
>he replies "oh, me? I wouldn't know I spend 18 hours a day on the internet"
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>>34180573
>>34180575
You're the one just saying "you are retard" and not trying to disprove anything or forming any counter argument. Truly Indian behavior.
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>>34180578
M
You can both finish an argument with neither person leaving the room.
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I wish toxic baddies dated losers, sometimes I wish a woman came into my life and fucked it up
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>>34180579
>Truly Indian behavior.
fuck you retard
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>>34180575
if you wern't actively aware of the idiocracy, would you find comfort wearing rose glasses? Find the light in any situation
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i'm dreaming of mercy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbBQVqX253g
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>>34180525
Call me short again and see what happens, dicknose.
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>>34180575
>i'm just one of the ones that knows
Just missing a reference to the Matrix and a Greek philosopher now kek.
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This girl is getting way too hot, she used to dress like a nerd.
And In my humble opinion, that's when she was the most attractive too. Now I'm kind of losing interest in her and she's starting to get anxious, I think I'm going to ghost her.
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What does it feel like to have sex with mutual attraction involved
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>>34180577
Couldn't be me. I only eat Chinese food once every couple months. That's just long enough to forget how sick I feel for days after getting it.
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>>34180586
>dicknose
As a facesitting enthusiast wouldn't this be something you'd be into?
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>>34180593
For me, it's shitnose.
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>>34180593
Facesitting is about the intimacy and some clit stim, not penetration. If I wanted something in me, I'd sit on a dick not a face.
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>>34180589
Fell for the "just date a nice guy" meme, girliepop?
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>>34180588
Text and ask her for a pic of her wearing X nerdy thing, then if/when she does, tell her how much she rocks the nerdy look. She'll get it.
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>>34180582
>dated a nerdy guy I used to bully in highschool
>instead of ruining his life, I got his shit together and gave him confidence
>he ended up cheating on me
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>>34180575
Is this the biodeterminism goof from yesterday?
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>>34180608
Nah, I think it's over.
I don't even want to do subtle manipulation tactics, I'll just take this as "her true color" and move on.
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>>34180578
f, idk if just think it's a bad joke but at least it's not boomer tier "wife bad" """jokes"""
>>34180589
there's no fear and it's like you get to have fun with each other, breaks in between etc
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Either gender:
I'm demisexual, so I don't experience true sexual attraction to people solely based on superficial traits. Sexually charged intimacy feels really gross when it isn't with someone I have a connection with. How do I reconcile that value within myself if I have an otherwise "normal" partner who has said to me that they have celebrities they would go as far as having 3 or 4 somes with, and for that matter could really feel that way about anyone that we happen to meet on the street that fits the bill?
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>>34180611
As expected. Men are trash. Is this your first rodeo?
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>>34180611
Should've dated a fat and balding guy instead.
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>>34180554
>Why do women like shows about murders so much? There is this girl at my work that is always watching shows about murders and then she talks to me about them and my grandma loves those shows too, same with the wives of other friends. Why women like to know about murders so much?
I think they're low key turned on by it.
Not that they'd actually want to be murdered, obviously. But it's the ultimate form of male dominance.
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>>34180616
>otherwise "normal" partner who has said to me that they have celebrities they would go
f, I think it's gross to say such a thing to a partner. I would never dream of sex with someone other than my partner
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>>34180617
Not all men, in my experience. Just the ones that didn't seem to grow up right.
>>34180619
This meme is tiresome.
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>>34180616
Celebs are one thing because due to parasocial relationships being formed by watching them in content, people more easily fee like they know them. Whereas for some random person on the street, it's a completely different story.

Just because someone would fuck a celeb doesn't mean they're fuck a random person off the street without knowing them in some way.

>>34180621
>I would never dream of sex with someone other than my partner
You're flat out lying if there isn't a celeb or fictional character you have wanted to fuck despite being in a relationship. It's normal.
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>>34180611
Jesus fucking Christ anon that's like a modern day ideal love story with a abrupt horrible ending, I'm sorry. It probably doesn't help to "fix people."
>>34180619
But also this.
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>>34180616
Have you never given leeway in your sexual relationship for someone you love? You must have never been one of those girls who has cried after sex. Some say it makes you strong, but I am just jaded.
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>>34180611
Not that cheating is ever appropriate. But maybe you shouldn't have bullied him?
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>>34180589
i dont know what it's like to have sex at all and probably never will
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>>34180611
This was the plot of Can't Buy Me Love (1987) btw.
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>>34180626
Honestly, I dodged a bullet by only being with him for like a year. The woman he cheated on me with was another nerd we went to school with, and it turns out they were perfect for each other. They got addicted to hard drugs together and accidentally killed their baby a while ago. Awful people.
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>>34180613
Well be honest with her then. You shouldn't ghost someone you're already dating.
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>>34180629
Dude come on, I would pump and dump my ex bullies who were all women, I wouldn't cheat on them, that's just brutal and un-necessarily cruel.
>>34180633
>They got addicted to hard drugs together and accidentally killed their baby a while ago. Awful people.
Jesus fucking Christ what the fuck. Do you live in Euphoria or something?
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>>34180629
I know, the "we were kids" excuse doesn't apply to highschool if you ask me. I was terrible to a lot of people back then, and I've made it a point to reconcile with the people I hurt as much as I could.
>>34180632
How'd that story end?
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>>34180611
This is the 3rd time I hear this story here and I still think you kinda deserved it. Well, that's karma
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>>34180589
M
Its pretty cool
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>>34180633
Ever consider that what you did to him maybe didn't help? Bullying him and then trying to change him later after doing all that damage might not have been the best approach.
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Moids is this trve?
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>>34180616
>How do I reconcile that value within myself if I have an otherwise "normal" partner who has said to me that they have celebrities they would go as far as having 3 or 4 somes with
I'm not demisexual, but I've also never said anything like this to a gf before. Even watching porn would feel disrespectful.
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>>34180485
it would definitely be kind of like cellular automata, each cell having critter code, with each critter-instruction consuming energy to punish unnecessary code gen, as well as some way to duplicate and mutate. i use the word critter, but really the hope is to create something that can get complex, and ways to read/emit signals from other critters...in principle, you shouuuld be able to get critters to form colonies, and then i think you'd start seeing things akin to plants, animals, etc. or other weird conglomorations. maybe that'd be a good name for them, congloms. some of the implementation details are hazy, i'm not in a place to put these ideas into practice atm. there'd have to be some kind of digital physics, even if abstract, that the critters would have to operate on top of i think to realize the idea i have, the critter code would have to be able to define/control properties in each cell, as well as being able to detect properties in adjacent cells. while writing this post, i had the idea of trying to course-grain congloms, so you could efficiently simulate large colonies as single entities, which is a really fucking cool idea but i was just looking up papers on this and it seems CA course-graining is very niche so idk how feasible it'd be, but i can *almost* imagine high-level how you'd accomplish it, creating graph models of all of the interacting codd in a colony, and using something analogous to dead code elimination + common subexpression elimination to create one big interconnected critter, it'd be messy as all get-out. never used Vulkan for something like that, controlling monitor properties, actually that is all GPUs do really so that's a dumb statement but it'd be interesting to investigate. i have a second acct i use for 4chan, toy.food, but i'm in a bit of an anti-social and cynical chapter of life atm so i dunno how available i'll talk about this especially as i can't work on it right now so a lot of it is just theorycrafting atm v_v
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>>34180637
>How'd that story end?
Cheats, completely fucks up and becomes hated by everyone in his life (including his nerdy friends he ditched). He learns to be more humble and grow to be a better person on his own through his own actions instead. It's implied they'll get back together but it's acknowledged he has a lot of growing left to do before he's ready and he's aware he needs to do it.
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>>34180637
>I know, the "we were kids" excuse doesn't apply to highschool if you ask me. I was terrible to a lot of people back then, and I've made it a point to reconcile with the people I hurt as much as I could.
Well that's good of you.
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>>34180636
Neve watched the show, but this part of the US has a drug problem, for sure. And when I say they killed their kid, I mean via negligence.
>>34180638
I don't think I deserve to be cheated on and lied to for something I did so long ago, that I've learned from and supposedly reconciled with him.
>>34180640
Idk. I made it a point to never do anything that he was uncomfortable with for fear of hurting him more. Maybe that placation was part of the issue, too.
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>>34180621
Yeah, it happened to come up in conversation, and it made me feel uneasy. I appreciated the honesty, but still.
>>34180625
I mean, even if you've watched any given actor's full filmography, aside from serialized TV, that's hardly fundamentally different. It would be a day's worth of hours of one sided interaction at best.
>>34180627
What do you mean leeway? Like permitting anything sexually intimate outside of the relationship? Then no, and I don't suppose I ever will.
>>34180643
Is it disrespectful though? I don't have a frame of reference for it.
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>>34180623
You only think it's tiresome because you think they're ugly
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>>34180641
Smoke, yes.
Drink, rarely.
Party, rarely.
Gay stuff, rarely.
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>>34180641
I drink.
>>34180650
>Is it disrespectful though? I don't have a frame of reference for it
I think it is.
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>>34180641
Nu.
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>>34180641
Sounds like Andrew Tate.
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>>34180645
That's way happier than reality, at least.
>>34180647
I really was shitty back then. I was really troubled overall, actually. Glad I never did drugs or had casual sex or anything like that, at least. All the harmful personal consequences of my actions ended up being mental instead of physical.
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>>34180616
m
there is an implication that your partner's sexual openness/desire is corrosive to your sense of connection, why do you reckon that is?
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>>34180648
Maybe, I might just have a vindictive personality
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>>34180661
Lol, gaslighting scumbag.
>NTA btw
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>>34180660
>That's way happier than reality, at least.
It depends on the person I guess. He ends up alone as he just cheats with another girl rather than with some nerd he runs off with, so that's where the ending deviates from your reality.

I think the main issue probably was that you were both the person that ruined him and also the one that helped him, so who knows what kind of shit was going on in his head with that duality of actions. Dating someone you bullied the shit out of is an interesting choice to say the least.
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>>34180586
>Call me short again and see what happens, dicknose.
Nta. You're a muttlatto midget
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>>34180617
>As expected. Men are trash. Is this your first rodeo?
Genuine question: how do I get a misandrist gf?
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>>34180674
I thought she was hapa? JH is black??
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>>34180488
Well he's at least told you about his hangups but you should also be honest about how it makes you feel and discuss ways you can work through it. And honestly if he's not able to work on it maybe he's not worth it. I say this as someone who went months without kissing my first gf either kek
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How am I supposed to find a cute GF in college that enjoys nerdy stuff like I do?
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>>34180670
huh? it's directly implied, what would i even be gaslighting here lmao. if she only feels comfortable doing sexual things when there is connection, her partner openly expressed much less need for connection to be sexual, and she finds contention in the two, then, you know
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>>34180470
Have fun, let us know what you have with them <3
(Meanwhile I rejected dinner plans tomorrow night...)
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>>34180666
Bullying rightfully lights a fire under people with empathy, so I get it. When I taught, I tried very hard to impart the seriousness of that sort of thing to children that seemed like they may end up being actual bullies later in life.
>>34180673
At the time, I felt that it was water under the bridge. He was quiet in school and when we started working together after some college, so I never clocked how he felt about any of it. He was the type of person who wasn't even "entertaining" to bully since he didn't react, so I didn't do much to him back in highschool. I acknowledge that any amount of bullying can have serious affects regardless of the perceived severity, but that's an understanding I didn't have back then.
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>>34180680
Be chad. Go for Asian girls.
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Has anyone here dealt with loose skin before?
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>>34180674
You asked for this.
>>34180677
I'm pretty much everything EXCEPT asian, actually.
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>>34180488
What makes you a 10? Is he also a 10?
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>>34180426
Most of us aren't into feet so...
>>34180405
How is wearing boots trashy...
>>34180323
Choon
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>>34180686
>Be chad
I'm slightly below average height with a round face but I dress well and can monologue about Kingdom Hearts lore if that means anything.
No issue with Asians.
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>>34180688
Latinx folx have asian blood



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