my bf m22 is bisexual and he sometimes watches gay porn and it kind of disturbs me i brought it up and he was uncomfortable but he did not stop i know he is not gay because of the way he is with me but it feels humiliating can i do anything about this or will he just do it in secret if i press too much? i think this might be the right place to ask something like this please give me sone honest advice or just the truth about it. im 100% sure he is not gay and just i bc the relationship for cover up i just dont like him watching gay porn.
>>34179964Bisexuals are like the middle class: both the lower class & the upper class hate them. Straights and gays who date bisexuals always run into trouble. If the bisexual man is dating a girl, he will crave gay shit. If the bisexual man dates a gay guy, he will crave hetero shit. Dating a bisexual is very much like owning a cat, the cat can't be kept indoors, it will always meow and meow and meow and meow and meow to get outside aka to go play the field and get dicked down. We are very much past the age where we could discuss or consider therapies to help treat what is essentially a straight guy with a fetish for male bodies, and correct them back into the heteronormative but those days are over in large part thanks to identity politics abd progressivism, so you're kinda fucked OP. Sort of. You would need to set hard-line boundaries that he is not permitted to goon to gay porn but if you do that he will resent you & will have even stronger cravings because it operates like an addiction (but shhh you gotta pretend the fetish addiction is a whole identity and 'orientation' or else you're a homophobe or something). You would be hoping that his love for you as an individual is there that he sees you as a soul, a human, not just a woman, but a soulmate and that he will agree to fight off the bisexual temptations to build something with you. If he cannot or will not do this it's best to end things for the well-being of both of you.Some maybe many bisexuals are out there who can keep a lid on the urges and can reciprocate and enjoy a full on relationship and marriage, without cheating or fucking around too. But whether not he's that kinda guy will be determined not on his 'orientation' but his overall temperament and values.
>>34179964>can i do anything about this or will he just do it in secret if i press too much?That's exactly what he'll do, yes. Why does it bother you so much?
