I don’t want to leave him but I know he is a fucking cheater. Not even a little bit like a massive serial cheater. But I don’t think I will ever do better. I caught him out on a lie and he talked me down and I believed him, then I turned around and saw him quickly drop a smirk. Talk some fucking sense into me.
>>34195338If he can cheat so easily and frequently then you are probably right and you can't do better but possibly whatever is appealing about him won't be so in 5+ years. Good job snagging a good one, OP! I say take it for what it's worth.
>>34195341All I want is some one who has mutual fucking feelings
>>34195332awwww he's a bad boy. serves you right
>>34195417I wish I could help. A lot of people feel the same these days.
>>34195332why? you enjoy this. if you wanted a decent guy you would have picked a decent guy.don't call it a grave, it's the future you CHOSE
>>34195332>But I don’t think I will ever do better.You think you won't do better than someone who is a serial cheater and gaslighter? Unless you get with someone who actually hits you, I can't imagine how you could possibly do any *worse* than this. Come on, leave him. Even being single would be an improvement.
>>34195332that picture eerily resembles my sister.close enough i remember her. eyebrows are not like that. but generally...
Does him cheating actually bother you? Or do you just think it should bother you because society says so? Does it really matter that much to you if he sleeps with other women? You know men can have sex without feelings (unlike women), so is it fear that he'll find someone else or just your preconceptions?
>>34197414That's not true at all. Sex always involves feelings. You're right to dump the cheater OP
>>34195332>But I don’t think I will ever do better.Making you believe that is his real crime, worse than cheating.You can and will do better
>>34198400>That's not true at all. Sex always involves feelings.>t. low test
>>34197414I don't want someone I have GIVEN myself to, to prefer to fuck others. I do not care who, how many, what color or what gender. Either I have lost the will to actually care (it shows in the relationship) and have decided to fuck who ever and how ever many people I want (without telling him) or I can just leave his ass? Maybe both. Because that is a garbage ass dude. Don't chase, sweetie.
>>34195332Woman moment lmao
>>34195332Guy here, dated a serial cheater for 5 years. Last time I caught her the mask fell off and I learned she was never loyal in all that time, and that she had undisclosed NPD. Her face turned to stone when I told her I fucked a few bitches too whilst emotionally checked out from her bullshit.Cheat on him back to break his ego.
>>34202445>heat on him back to break his ego.Or she could regain a little self-respect and just leave him. If you feel the need to hurt someone, then they're still living in your head. Getting them out of your head and simply not giving a fuck about them any more is much healthier.
>>34202452nah, serial cheaters need their just desserts. Do it with his hot friend or some guy 'he didn't need to worry about'.The flabbergasted look on their face is worth it.
>>34202445>>34202454This is how people get killed Generally when cheaters cheat their aim is not to hurt the other person, by going out of your way to do that you're not just stooping to their level but going below it. I'm not going to deny it's effective, my ex did it, but now I'm never going to be at peace until I see her suffer for it. I'm not saying I'm going to do anything, I certainly won't mr. officers, I'm just saying because she went out of her way to hurt me that I won't be at peace until I see her in great suffering. It doesn't really matter what your opinion on this is personally either, it won't matter when you're a Daily Mail homepage headline.
>>34197414Gross. Do people not even care about stds anymore?
>>34195332If you don't live with him, simply stop seeing him. If you do live with him, save up some money and find another place to live.