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Every time a woman rejects me, I'm tempted to say something back like "alright well fuck you bitch". But if I do that, then I would just be proving her point in rejecting me

What to do?
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>>34199224
you just gotta say okay and move on. i cope by coming on this website and hating on women. posting "i hate women" feels nice. insulting posters who are definitely women also feels nice.
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>>34199231
Yeah but it would feel so much nicer to say it to the bitch that rejected me.
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>>34199242
it might feel nice for you, but for them it feels even nicer. women love to piss men off, especially men they have no intention of fucking, them knowing they made you angry is as satisfying as sex to them. by cursing them out you're only inflating and stroking their ego.
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>>34199245
Oh shit. I've been playing into their hands this whole fucking time. Shit and fuck.
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>>34199259
Fuck and shit.
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>>34199224
>Every time a woman rejects me, I'm tempted to say something back like "alright well fuck you bitch".
Many, many guys actually do this. That's the reason why women ghost men - to avoid that.
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>But if I do that, then I would just be proving her point in rejecting me
It wouldn't prove anything.
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>>34199410
Huh?
>>34199352
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>>34199224
No it's not, it's you rejecting them
Which you ultimately do indeed reject them
Usually I'd add a "too" at the end to symbolise they are the ones who first displayed the subhuman behaviour
Like yeah well fuck you too bitch
And you are simply rightfully calling it out and not letting someone just get off the hook after their shit behaviour
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>>34200493
Really? Real Ass Nigga?
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>>34200549
Depending on how disrespectful the rejection is. If they reject in a considerate and transparent way then that's fine
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>>34200661
Okay, Real Ass Nigga.
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>>34199224
Maybe try not being someone that is endlessly rejected
Check yourself and figure out why
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>>34200833
I'm not Chad, you nigger.
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>>34200864
Can see why no one is interested in you
Then want a man, not some kid still in diapers kek
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>>34200872
Fuck you, nigger.
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>>34200897
Nope
Rejected AGAIN
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The best rejection is "I have a girlfriend"
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>>34199224
>Every time a woman rejects me, I'm tempted to say something back like "alright well fuck you bitch".
This is like writing a long ass text to someone to 'get back' at them. It might feel good in the moment but in actuality it just makes you look like a retard at best.
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get right with god. everyone should reject you. you're not worth of love from your family, let alone any woman.
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>>34201044
I'll kill you, nigger. Don't play around with me.
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>>34201518
This makes me so happy for you
I’d say rejection never felt so sad for you
But it must each and every time kek
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>>34199231
I hate women
Because I'm jealous of them
I wish I could get sex and love and care and attention so easily, or at all for my situation.
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this is only loosely related but I've been used for attention and then dumped by women i genuinely cared for so many times I feel like im supposed to hate them
i don't want to be hyper-sexist but when i keep being mistreated for no reason i sometimes get the intrusive thought that i owe it to myself to hate them
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>>34201733
Were you used or were they trying to let you down gently because they knew you were unhinged and toxic?
And can you differentiate between the 2, I’m thinking not
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>>34201671
I have no idea what you're even talking about. I had sex with a woman last week. But keep fucking around, nigger. I'll still kill you.
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>>34201785
>>34201785
Of course you have no idea
That’s the problem

You had sex? She still talking to you? Or way it a paid experience?

Have to check yourself, it’s not always everyone else’s fault when the only common denominator is you
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>>34201163
God put him in his place to begin with.
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>>34201750
ive had multiple outright tell me that they were just lonely/needed someone to talk to/starved for attention. im open to the idea that Ive done something wrong but i at heart i just want to make someone happy and try my best to do good. if its really my fault then not being outright lied to about why they lost interest (especially when ive NEVER threatened or acted violently towards them) isnt helping.
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>>34201861
then being outright lied to*
i think I've stayed up too late
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>>34199224
>Every time a woman rejects me, I'm tempted to say something back like "alright well fuck you bitch"
I'm not an expert, but in CBT this is caused by something called a protector part. A protector part is basically a thought that grew into a little emergency mechanism to automatically protect you from negative emotions (a lot like the Fight or Flight response, but not as severe).
In your case, the mechanism is protecting you from feeling inferior by lashing out and belittling them, and you get rewarded with catharsis.

These things usually come from being harmed in some way. Maybe you were bullied as a teen, maybe you were rejected harshly when you were younger, maybe your friends/parents gave you some bad ideas about dating. Whatever the case, you'll have to find the source of this wound before you can try to heal it.
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The thought a woman has after rejecting you is, hopefully things work out for him and he lives happily ever after with another one, not wishing revenge. Jesus Christ OP.
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>>34201861
Do you stop talking to them after that?
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>>34201896
Hahaha, good one, Zachary. We all know women hate men and love watching them seethe when they reject them. They get off on this shit.
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>>34201910
i get really tempted to turn around and reconcile but yes, i always respect their decisions even if it bothers me
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>>34201944
What makes them want to stop talking all together? Usually it’s just making sure someone knows boundaries
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>>34202040
I fell asleep
But anyways, I couldn't really tell you. Someone once told me it's probably because they feel guilty and don't wanna think about it, but that's quite presumptuous.
The first woman who did this to me, which was a few years ago was my first love. She said it was because she was always scared and worried about my well-being due to my DXM habit at the time. I don't have that issue anymore though.
If I had to guess, it's probably because they just find me uncomfortable in general and don't want to be around that after they've got what they wanted. I'm particularly unattractive and I'm up front about being a nerd, so I'd imagine the get the infamous "ick" from me.
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>>34199242
Just repost her nudes, surely someone on /b/ has them. I’ve posted bitches selfies on there and got nudes back long before AI.



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