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A few months ago I found out that the girl I loved so much in high school has been dating some cool guy at uni and they had sex multiple times and she was also physically involved with some other guys as well when we were in high school

From that point of my life I:-
>Started hating woman
>Say abuses at their opinions
>Seeing a woman with their boyfriends gives me a feeling of hatred towards them
>Spread online hatred towards them

I am unable to resist my hatred towards the and m I don't feel very good about it and sometimes when my hatred gets to my head I even starts hating on my own sisters

Is it truly what an Incel feels, I don't want to be an Incel but what other options do I even have I can't get any girlfriend as well because I am ugly and my height is 5'7 most of the women will reject me at first glance

I think it's over for me
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>>34204971
>the girl that doesn't know I exist did perfectly normal stuff but not with me so I'm mad
you probably should go knock at her door and tell her she's a bitch, that will solve everything anon
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>>34204971
I'm sorry anon but I will be blunt.
You are blaming external factors instead of what you can change. It's not about women, it's about that pattern of thinking. Extrapolate this and imagine your boss fires you (he has a good reason) and you start hating him, and concept of having a boss as a whole because of a single experience that didn't go according to your plan.
This pattern of thinking can ruin your life if you don't change anything about it.
I highly recommend for you to research about stoic philosophy. It's not about cutting of your emotions. It's about looking what you could have done better.

Examin your conscience

Could you have done something better? Did you communicate to this girl in a regular fashion that you liked her, and what did she tell you? Or did you just obsess with her in your own head and never talked to her?

If it's the first option then you did great. Not everything will go according to your plan in your life. Try to move on, with a positive outlook that if you found that girl attractive, then eventually you will find someone else that you like, and then you can try to better your approach based on your previous experience.

I'm cheering for you brother. Life can be difficult and confusing sometimes. But blaming something else, besides of what you can change will lead to more misery.

You got this anon
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>>34205077
Thanks man I appreciate you
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>>34204971
Just fuck fat broads.
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>>34204971
In precisely what way has she offended you by just living her life?
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>>34204971
If a gay man was in love with you, would it make sense for him to start hating you because you don't love him back?
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>>34205282
Well that's what an Incel is you nigger ass
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>>34205335
Well it's his choice like it's mine to hate her we are hateful creatures, hate is an emotion we can't supress
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>>34205246
Kike propogenda has caused for even broads to have standards
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>>34204971
>I found out that the girl I loved so much in high school has been dating some cool guy at uni and they had sex multiple times

How tf do you even find out shi like this? Are you sure your hearing stuff like this from a reliable source?
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>>34204971
You sound like you’re pretty young so i wouldn’t worry about it too much. I was incel for 11 years, not all that bad. If you can resist giving into hatred and letting darkness consume your soul you will learn a lot about yourself and become a stronger person. When you achieve self mastery a girl will come to you.
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>>34204971
there's nothing wrong with this and you are based



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