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25F, friend 25F got her heart broken and rebounded on this chubby awkward guy He's 5'9 26, mediocre job (accountant but not like rich accountant) smells of virgin, know from mutual friend has never had luck with women.

At first I thought, okay its not hurting anyone, let her get some ego boost and enjoy being love bombed until she gets sick of it

2 mos later and shes actually falling for him...whenever we mention the slightest fault with the normal guys we see she always pipes in

"oh X doesn't even have a lock on his phone"
Always sharing memes
"X cooks"
"X does this X does that"
Shes getting into all his cringe interests and I'm just worried shes falling for a loser because he was able to pounce on her when she was in a bad place

I just want to yell at you HE ONLY DOES ALL THIS BECAUSE YOUR THE FIRST WOMAN WHO LOOKED IN HIS DIRECTION

I just don't know what to do, this guy is a HUGE loser and she's just taking the easy way out and putting no effort into herself anymore because she's enjoying the equivalent of boyfriend junkfood

My real worry is that she thinks he thinks shes special, but we've all seen guys like this, she's not special to him, he would do this for ANY girl
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>>34206034
>smells of virgin
why are you so judgmental? the fuck is wrong with you?
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>>34206034
why not support her since she's clearly in a better place with a guy that puts the effort in. your tone is radiating jealousy.
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>>34206078
It's just she could do SO much better. Like yeah if you settle for bottom of the bin of course he's going to worship you, it's freaking pathetic, she was vunerable and he KNOWS hes taking advantage of her
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>>34206034
you seem like a cunt :)
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>>34206034
>Girl meets guy with stable job whose nice to her
>wants to stay with him
>why are women so evil?
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based stacy
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>>34206055
>>34206078
>>34206087
>>34206092
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>>34206113
Okay, im only hear cause banned from reddit, you men don't understand because you see yourself as this guy WOMEN WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN
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>>34206087
What makes him a huge loser? None of the things you described make him seem like a loser. Do you think she needs to wait for some extroverted high social status guy? Maybe your friend isn't into that kind of stuff, I dunno.
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>>34206134
Okay maybe I'm not explaining this right, so the thing that irks me is the fact that this guy is only treating her like this because she gave him a chance, she thinks he loves her and I just want to grab her shoulders and shake her "He would literally do this for any girl!!!"

Sure he's stable (not even that impressive only makes like 50k a year)

he love bombed her when she was vulnerable and im just worried that if she goes long term with him she's turning down so many more viable options
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>>34206121
Wait out your ban from Reddit and then go back there.
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>>34206121
you didn’t answer my question >>34206055
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>>34206149
Oh no, she gave him a chance and he’s ecstatic.
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>>34206149
why are you assuming that you know what’s best for her
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someone this retarded could only be a troll but unfortunately there really are evil hags like this who want nothing but to sabotage the relationships of their friends
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>>34206149
>"He would literally do this for any girl!!!"
Does that make it any less valuable in your eyes? I'm curious. What would real love look like then in your eyes?
>she's turning down so many more viable options
What kind of option do you think would be more viable?
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>>34206034
>he's a loser because he's not rich
damn
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>>34206055
She's a woman, being a worthless parasite loser is hardcoded in her genes, she has no free will.
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If not a troll, all relationships are due to the particular situations we find ourselves in. No one is going to find their 100% genetic/personality/economic match because we don't constantly shuffle through every person in the world. So what you have here sounds like two people that found each other when they both needed someone, and lo and behold, they like each other for it. Sounds fine.
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>>34206121
you have not listed any of the things that are offputting about the guy, just that he is chubby, awkward and has a normal-paying-job.
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Please don't make a drunken show of yourself at the wedding.. they may let you be godmother to their 3rd or 4th child. That kind of responsibility mighty break up the lonely monotony of wine and cats a few years from now.
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>>34206034
>I just don't know what to do, this guy is a HUGE loser
He has a job, a girlfriend, and multiple hobbies; doesn't sound like a loser to me. Other than being something less than A+ breeding material he sounds like a downright good guy; I have a feeling if he was 6'3" and otherwise the same you wouldn't have started the thread.
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>>34206034
This has to be bait.
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>>34206149
He makes 20k more than the average guy. Also its not love bombing if he keeps doing it the whole relationship. Love bombing is being nice for like a week to get nudes or sex then leaving.
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>Woman when she sees another woman happy
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>>34206034
>single women try to keep other women single

SAY IT AIN'T FUCKING SO
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>>34206034
Good for her. Better than hanging out with some playboy who pumps and dumps.
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>>34206034
Honestly you sound like a bigger incel loser than the "awkward chubby guy" you are claming even if he is the mirror image of the hentai ugly bastard he still mogs you
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