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My crush rejected me. It's over. I'm 22 and still single.
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>>34207751
I prefer hanging. Jumping into a river is fine, just make sure you're healthy first. Jump off the troon suicide bridge.
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I haven't earned death.
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>>34207751
22 isn't late. I didn't find love until 34
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>>34207751
I'm in the same position, 22 and never been in a relationship. But there's things to live for outside of relationships. Friends, family, hobbies, I think goals are the most important though. Not just related to work/education/money necessarily, I mean working towards something that's personally important to you outside of getting a gf. It'll at minimum be a distraction, and hopefully it'll be fulfilling and rewarding too.
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>>34207751
Better men than you have killed themselves. Take Galois for example, simped for a girl and died by the sword, left a field of mathematics in the dark for decades.

What was the rejection like? What did you say and what did she answer? Did you confess on your own or because someone told you?
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>>34207921
I sent her a message and she left me on read. She checked my profile and left it at that.
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>>34207940
Doesn't mean she rejected you. Moreso she's confused or unsure of who you are.
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>>34207940
What was the message? Were you talking to her in real life regularly?

Also, that only means she has 5 people she's replying to, doesn't have time for another simp. It's not a rejection but you aren't registering in her radar yet.
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>>34208022
I knew her in high school. We rarely talked but she caught me staring. I simply put in a follow request and asked how she's been and if she'd like to catch up. I'd messaged a few others before just fine.
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That poem sucks ass. Go read something real that'll make you think like a man instead of being sad about some 304 you think you need
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>>34207751
Go to Paris and blow up the Mona Lisa
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>>34208037
It's pretty much how I feel. It genuinely matches me. I think too much.
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>>34207940
lmaooo you asked her out over text

wtf did you think was gonna happen
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>>34208032
rip broski
It'll all work out in the end
she wasn't the one

1000 people
Blackfield
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>>34208088
I have no way to meet her irl. Also I just said hi and asked how she was
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>>34208105
How to move on?
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>>34208111
Well I have a good idea where she lives and works but showing up would be stalker behavior.

I also think asking to meet up in person is weird.
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>>34208121
Figure out where she lives and rape her
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>>34207751
If you want to do it the easy way find a multi story building that is 5 stories or more and once you are on the top take a lot of mind altering drugs or drink alot then jump or fall off or alternately you can take some people out with you and maybe be famous on the news
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>>34207751
The average age for first marriage in the US is 30.5 You've got plenty of time
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>>34207751
>still single
So what? You don't need a romantic partner to live a happy life.
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>>34207751
Yeah, those chances don’t come often, and you were still rejected. Maybe wait another 20 years?
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>>34207791
How did you lose your wizard powers?
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>>34207751
>I'm 22 and still single
Dude chill, you're basically still a kid at 22
Go to therapy if you're worried about anything. I'm in my late twenties now and starting therapy 2 years ago practically turned my life around. My only regret is not doing it sooner.
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>>34207751
Easy. Watch a dozen or so Popp videos to learn from the man who has been through it and seen it. He gives you all the advice you need.
If you're looking for more "getting your next girl" advice, look up Tom Lykis and watch a dozen or so of his podcasts, he's hilarious and his info is spot on.
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I wish I could go back to 22 physically. There's a lot of potential there that you still have.
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>>34207751
I don't believe this is the only thing making you feel suicidal. There must be something else going on in your life.
>>34208088
Oldfag spotted. It's normal for zoomers to ask each other out over text.
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>>34207940
Women have the upper hand in this epidemic, It's not worth going into a game in which you know you have lost from the beginning.
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>>34207751
Trust me for a person like you, Romance or relationships are the worst shit for you, Literally they will fuck up your mental power and you will overthink everything, I know that anxious attachment especially if the other person doesn't want you, Yeah, You will not have a good time.

Just throw that shit out of the bridge and go live your life, Trust me, I literally get you, But it's literally like Mind-control or some sort of Magnetism where you just can't leave and they know that and they use that against you.

Key is to just drop it, I know it's mundane and bullshit, But better now than to regret pondering over a person who doesn't care, Also you're still too young.
>>34207940
>She checked my profile and left it at that.
You literally have anxious attachment, Dangerous shit man, It's not good for you.
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>>34211183
You wouldn't do anything with that potential even if you go back to 22
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>>34207751
>still single
Kek, linear progression fallacy strikes again.
Do you really think that even if you date someone at 22 you'll never be single again? If she responded to your message, then what?
Did you think you were getting married after that?
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>>34211455
You know literally nothing about that anon so why make such a pointless statement? Stop projecting.
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>>34211476
I'm not talking about anon, I'm talking objectively, People always talk about a chance to do what they could not do while they were young, Some sort of fucking Ivan Illyich complex which is absolute bullshit.

You literally won't change anything, You'll only change the course of what you are in now, But that's all it is, and you will die. Nothing will provide to value.
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>>34211484
>Nothing will provide to value.
Much like your sterling contribution to the thread.
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>>34211509
>Latvian makes a powerful statement before sacrificing himself
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>>34211509
>>Latvian makes a powerful statement before sacrificing himself
Likewise you do
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>>34207940
She didn't even reject you. Don't be a beta orbiter. Just kys instead. Or, try to get a hotter girl instead.
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>>34207751
It's over. You missed all the good clean girls but maybe you can get a single mom or drug addict.



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