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tldr:

my husband snooped on my phone and caught me roleplaying on grok during a sex scene. (it was a post apocalyptic rp if anyone was wondering lmao)

personally i'm just a bit embarrassed but i don't consider it cheating. i caught him watching emiru (some twitch girl) videos when i was 6 months postpartum (i'm 9 months post partum now) with titles like "how old is emiru" and other weird shit like that. at least my shit is fictional.

right now he's just avoidant and pretending he didn't snoop, but i know he did because he moved my phone and i don't bother to lock my screen.

i've never cheated in my life, and to be frank, 99% of men irl don't interest me because they don't live up to my level of possessiveness/devotion which is what turns me on the most and the core of my roleplays.

anyway what should i do? am i in the wrong here?
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>anyway what should i do?
go get an actual autism diagnosis
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>>34209346
not autistic just disappointed by irl people enough times to have to turn to fiction lol. i'm pretty normie otherwise or considered stacie-lite.
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>>34209371
>considered stacie-lite.
do you really lie to yourself like this
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>>34209411
i don't need to lmao just giving a scale of where i sit irl to explain im not autistic. i know how to navigate social bullshit to sit comfortably on that scale. does that make sense or are you going to actually address my issue here
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>>34209339
>at least mine is fiction
What's your issue with being jealous about porn? Is your relationship based solely on looks? You will have problems down the line if it's like that, specially on your side of the deal.

In his mind you provide emotional support, finance, a common dream and help each other out. Do you think none of this matters and all he should think of is jacking it to you?

>Am I in the wrong
He's avoidant because he doesn't know what you're about anymore. RP with grok is not wrong, it's you making a big deal out of it what's wrong, and you probably make a deal about what he does as well.
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>>34209339
How's the bedroom?
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>>34209467
i don't care about porn. it felt like a low blow though when hes sniffing around a younger twitch girl who's job is to herd simps to her orbit when i just popped out a baby for us.

>>34209476
not great. i gave birth naturally. (only started feeling normal at 7 months) now dead cause our baby is needy and we're both tired
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>>34209595
start having sex again, that will fix your relationship.
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>>34209339
>erping with grok

lol
if you were my wife I'd bully you so hard for this
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>>34209595
God I am so not having kids. I'm going to pump semen into girls worry free

When I get girls


Which is about 7 years from now with good luck
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>>34209467
Your reading comprehension should be studied.
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>>34209339
>right now he's just avoidant and pretending he didn't snoop,
Men aren't women. If he didn't say anything then he probably doesn't mind.
>but i know he did because he moved my phone and i don't bother to lock my screen.
Not trying to gaslight but you literally don't know he saw then.
Either way >>34209346 is right, use your words or get professional help if that isn't possible.
Also, why can't you ERP with husbando?
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And women wonder why men are Stacy sexual lmao look at this shit if we gonna put up with this joke she may as well be a hot young chick nigga



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