I’ve been together with my girlfriend for 1.5 years. Unfortunately, we’ve been in a long-distance relationship for 1 year due to studying abroad and work.During this time, I met another woman abroad. I’ve had something like a friends-with-benefits arrangement with her for a bit over a year now. We’ve taken a few vacations together and such.Now the problem is that the FWB wants to pressure me into breaking up with my girlfriend and dating her instead. Actually, she would be much more suitable for me (I don’t really like my girlfriend all that much to be honest) but somehow it’s not that simple. Since I was a khhv incel until 26, I still have the feeling that if I break up, I’ll never find anything else again.But if I just do nothing, I’ll definitely lose the FWB, and if things go badly, she’ll tell my girlfriend. And if things go even worse, my parents will find out and cut me off from my inheritance, which would actually allow me to retire at 40.And even though the FWB is actually better, she also lives in a different country than me and I doubt we can somehow move in together/find a way. Hence the reluctance to just break up, since I’ll never find anything again.What do? I’d like to hear an outside perspective.
>>34209392leave both of them. don't be with a girl you don't like and are cheating on, let her move on and find something better.NEVER get with a girl that you're cheating with. she's just going to cheat on you too when she finds another fling. it's all about the rush of doing something she shouldn't be with girls like that.also, cheating is loser shit. better yourself
>>34209402>cheating is loser shit t. too ugly to be able to cheat
>>34209402>it's all about the rush of doing something she shouldn't be with girls like that.This. 90% of the time it's all about taboo and better sexual compatibility. The moment you make it official with her she will reveal a metric ton of baggage and sex will become 50% less interesting.
>>34209392You get a bad deal going into a relationship with a girl capable of helping you cheat.I understand you and you did a Chad move having an ldr for emotional fulfillment and fwb for fuckingReally good on you honestlyBut yeah once you go for the cheater and let go of gf, you gonna lose her and everything. My advice, try to let her off easy, prepare to most likely lose your gf, and in any scenario - you must get on dating apps NOW. Don't allow yourself to be alone, it's a downward spiral. Another thing you could do is, out of fear of the cheating girl telling your gf, you can break up with gf and go be with her. Because most likely this cheating girl will tell her either way. But if a couple months go by, maybe your ldr gf won't care anymore to tell you your parents. Don't let anyone know that you're scared. Don't let ldr gf know that you're afraid of her telling your parents - she will do it. Don't let cheating gf know that you're afraid of her telling gf - she will guaranteed even if she wasn't going to at that point, but, you can ask her not to, just don't seem scared, be rational and make sense when you talk to either of them
