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Currently pussyless for over a year after ltr of 5 years cheated, turning 30 this year, I'm imagining a future where I get ripped, regularly go to the gym, and meet a hottie at my gym or at a festival and we have insanely hot fit-people sex , and we're both hot. And it's just fun. It doesn't need titles it is just an extremely fun thing to do after a workout.
Will this happen for me bros? Should I start? I'm so fucking defeated at the moment. Nothing works for me. I'm not ugly, but average doesn't cut it. Girls here in the Netherlands have access to extremely hot tall guys, while I'm a white Jewish guy who's 5'7, can I do this bros? Share stories, motivate me, or discourage me if you feel like being a cunt but at least explain yourself

For context I lost weight already, was 106kg now I'm 89, still got a way to go to 70.

Bonus points if you recognize the game this ass is from, no cheating, be a real gooner and guess with all of your gooner prowess
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>regularly go to the gym, and meet a hottie at my gym or at a festival and we have insanely hot fit-people sex

100% possible anon, I know for sure
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Faithfulness is important to me. I've turned others away because it would harm her
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>>34209898
>Will this happen for me bros?
I doubt it. Gymcels are a thing.
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Meeting women in the gym is pretty unrealistic. I have been going to the gym for ten years now and the only way to do it is to make a friendship with them for a long time before even attempting something. If you take the gym seriously you really dont want it becoming a place where you have to worry about emotions or seeing someone that had an awkward ending with you.
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>I'm imagining a future where I get ripped, regularly go to the gym, and meet a hottie at my gym or at a festival and we have insanely hot fit-people sex , and we're both hot. And it's just fun. It doesn't need titles it is just an extremely fun thing to do after a workout.
The most retarded thing you can do it go into dating and romance with specific hopes or expectations
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>>34209898
>Jewish
>Netherlands
Unfortunately it was over before it even began
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>>34209901
Cheers dude

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>>34209952
It's true, but then what about festival? I go to two medieval fantasy festivals a year here and I did meet a girl from there before, but we were just friends

>>34209976
What do you mean? Well I'm not religious at all I just said Jewish because Americans can understand that I don't look Dutch

>>34209961
I don't expect aaaaanything at this point, trust me. My expectations have only led me to disappointment.
I'm just asking if those types of things are possible... Like even though I'm not one of those hot tall Dutch guys, I can get ripped and with some help from social events a girl will be interested in me? Currently it just feels hopeless
To the point where I've let go of my expectations because they genuinely hurt me and I just want to live my life in peace, but I still want a gf deeply in me. Or even just sex, I can't even get that
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bump
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>>34209898
>pussyless for over a year
Oh my god the horror
Fuck off
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>>34209898
bruh
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>>34212494
guess I can fuck dudes then? lol
today I hung out with a girl who's in a polycule with SEVEN other partners. She counted them by name and one was a girl's name so It's atleast 2 girls and the other 5 could be all guys. She's from my acting group, I told her damn I'm jelly, and she said well you can meet them and conquer some hearts, and I said oww wow okay! I'm meeting them all tomorrow
xDDD

imagine, polycule. I mean.
Am I above that?
Am I above fucking women alongside some other dudes?
probably not

one thing I'm kinda glad to see tho is that this girl is attracted to me. She's Brazilian and although I'm Jewish I am actually also Sephardic Jew which literally means Spanish Jew and I have Portuguese citizenship. So, alot of her phenotype is in me. Which explains why she's attracted to me. So ig I shouldn't go for Dutch girls?

Is that what I need then?
a girl who has a relationship with several dudes?
jeez
what a life this is.

>>34212291
I'm sorry that you can't get anything either dude but the reality is I'm just in as bad of a position as you, me getting a gf was a fluke, a time of my life when I was indoors, mentally ill, and lost a lot of weight from a physical condition. So I was technically "hot" for a very short period before I gained all of my weight back. So yeah, that's when I got her. and after that I porked up alongside her and we locked each other down for 5 years, until she cheated. but besides that dude?
I have 0 idea how to get a girl and the odds are stacked against me with all these hot fucking tall blond guys with blue eyes and perfect smiles and jawlines competing with me
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4chan does not help people. In fact anything except for work talking to women is a waste of time.

Trust me anyone reading this. The relationship in front of you is what you are getting.



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