I got a girl pregnant who I met at the club. She’s Christian and doesn’t believe in abortion but is one of those iffy christians who will abort if it’s too inconvenient for her. I convinced her I would marry her and love her and that she shouldn’t abort the child because I will stay with her and be a good dad but I never had any intention of doing that.I told her I’m leaving after the last stage where it was legally permissible to abort in our State (and she can be charged if she goes out of State). I didn’t want her to abort the baby but I have no intentions of being a dad.She freaked out and said she will make me pay child support but I’m totally broke and jobless and heard if you don’t pay it you go to jail.
>>34209906If you don't pay then yes, you will definitely go to prison.
>>34209911But I don’t have any money
>>34209906>But I don’t have any moneyYou have two options, pay up, or flee the country. BTW, you are stupid, I find commendable the fact you care for your own child enough not to kill it, but you don't care enough to stay and take care of it. Do you know why? You should care more about the fact you're going to hell, cause you're trash. Think about it, you didn't kill the kid, so you know God exists, do you think God will find cool you abandoning flesh of your flesh just because? LMAO
>>34209925>But I don’t have any moneyThat's your problem, not hers, and not the court's. Maybe you should have thought of that before having a child?
>>34209906cons of going raw i hope it was worth it
>>34209925Better get a job, then, hadn't you?
>>34209987Jobs don’t pay enough anymore, minimum wage hasn’t kept up with inflation
Good on you for saving the child from murder. I think that the amount of money you'll have to pay is a small price of saving your own child.
>>34210072It’s literally more than I ca afford because am unemployed and have $0 and minimum wage is still $7.25 so jobs don’t pay shit
>>34209906if I was her dad or brother I'd pay people to kill you on the side of the road not going to lieI'd do it myself but we're wealthy so we usually pay others to get their hands dirty
>>34209925You pay basically nothing if you're actually broke and jobless, the people saying it doesn't matter are dead wrong.It's the exact mating strategy of many broke black males, are you brown by the way?
>>34209906Should have trashed the child....Deeeeuuuuuw it.....
>>34210115100% white
Why would you say those things without even meaning it? It's such a weird thing to do for something with severe consequences like that.I guess it's a W for the kid though, they get to be alive now because of what you said.And at any rate after you get work you'll adjust and adapt to it. Don't be too fatalistic and convince yourself it's impossible before you even start, just start finding income and figure it out as you go.This is one of those annoying things in life that seem terrible but overall it will help you become a better, more responsible person. Which in turn will help you in other ways.
>>34210143How though? Minimum wage is literally a little over $7 an hour
>>34210156Just start with any job, then work towards higher paying ones. Get promotions where you work, or start applying to better jobs you qualify for after the 6 month mark. When you can manage it, go to post-secondary school part-time while working to improve things for yourself even more.If the alimony isn't adjusted to your initial lower income, you can (temporarily) work a second job to help cover for it until you find better stuff.Seriously, just start. Find any job, but don't settle for that pay in the long term.
>>34210156Get a job that offers tips, like a delivery driver, waiter, or bartender.
>>34210071>>34210087>>34210156Anon, none of this is relevant. You will pay, or you will go to prison. Those are your only two options. You can rage about it all you like, it will make no difference: the law doesn't care, and the court doesn't care. Pay or prison, those are your choices. If you don't like those choices, you shouldn't have had a child. Accept reality.
>>34209906Just be there? Your getting a chance to father a child and have a wife.
>>34209906Should've wrapped up your willy... Kek
>>34209906don't do the crime if you can't do the time...
>>34210381anon they don't generally send you to prison for not paying child support, as you can't pay child support in prison. source: (what happened to my dad).they will just rack up a bill and garnish your wages, and tax returns.
>>34209943Do you think God would have allowed for a poor Christian to be used by this "scum" ?
>>34209906Marry her you dumb fucking retard, It's better than paying for child support and making a child grow with no father.Either take responsibility or tell her to abort.
>>34209906I think marrying is a better option ? I mean you'll finally get the chance to fuck daily and have a son and have a family atleast ? Especially with a christian female, This is literally what 80% of 4chan users are looking for or to say 95% of /pol/ users dream of
>>34211458>Do you think God would have allowed for a poor Christian to be used by this "scum" ?She had sex before marriage, I absolutely believe God would permit her to suffer the consequences of her actions. I don't understand this atheistic logic in which God has to act as a babysitter and if he doesn't he is not good, God has no obligation to shelter you from your mistakes, lol.
>>34211466>I think marrying is a better option ?Why would she agree to marry him after he behaved like this?
1. Turn to jesus christ as your saviour, repent of your sins and tell her to do the same2. Marry her to prevent further sin and ensure the child has at least a stable upbringing
>>34211614It’s called baby trapping? One of the oldest tricks in the book.And OP - you play at baby making, you’re surprised you made a baby? The sheer 80IQ of you.A judge will review the case for your child support and tag your actions. Later, when you’re making money, the judge will extract back-reparations - there is no expiration of the statute for child support. You would have to have a life of near homeless to avoid a court case every year.You’re cooked - for life. Play stupid games - you’ve definitely won stupid prizes. I hope your child learns from your example.
>>34209925>I'm broke so I can starve infants to deathK pal. Time to slave away.
