Lately i suspect my brother has been stealing money from me. To briefly contextualize, he has a type of bank account i don't, which is necessary to receive a concrete type of payment; at the same time, I'm vaguely unable to make such an account myself, and asked him to receive my payments for me and to send them to me later.Our relationship has worsened a lot over the year, but he has had issues with spending, alcohol, women, and many things for a long time now. I guess i expected better from him. We have lived together for like 2 years, and i regret it heavily; he is kind of abusive, and a bit pathetic, and lately specially he has gone through a cringey route, im guessing he kind of wants to feel gangsta or something, his friends are shitty drug dealers, his boss is a drug dealer and a rapist, its all pretty horrible. To make matters worse, he is supported by his mother economically (different mothers, we are step brothers).Oh, and he is a neo-nazi, probably. Some time ago i got the vibe he wanted to talk about Hitler to measure my opinion and know if he could be racist with me, and he listens to stoic podcasts, and he watches youtube shorts with stupid manlet copes, its all terrible, he has this pseudo-intelectual conversations with potheads, they try to convince him to start a business and be their own boss and all that shitI'm guessing he has been taking money from me because he can't or doesn't want to admit he has to take it from his mother, its very sad. He wont do it because his mother might scold him for spending her money on alchol, since she gave him a card.
>>34210333 i have kind of kept torturing him acting like i dont know, like it's not obvious what he's been doing, and got him to concede a bit, giving me some money he wasnt going to give me. He seems a bit caught in his own lies, and it's depressing. To make matters worse, i really cant let this go, im not even sure he has given me all of my own money; i have allowed him to save face and pretend like i dont know with excuses, acting all innocent, its tiring, but i cant manage to start a confrontation.Last time i confronted him about money he threw a fit and didnt want to pay me, and he has fought with his own friends too for the same reason, he keeps buying drinks to 20 people and shittily managing his unexisting finances.What do i even do about this guy? I already messaged my boss to get a transaction history, and he already fucked up and cant possibly keep denying me access to *my* statements. His lies will fall and it'll be a pain in the ass for me to go through with all his mess. I'll have to hear him cry, fight, antagonize me, make up excuses, get tangled in his own lies, i dont feel capable of resisting it. do i confront him and listen to his crybabying and dumbass excuses? then his mom and my dad will fight and itll be yet another shit show.do i let it go? i feel hurt he went through with all this scheme, i really used to respect this guy. I feel like i dont even know him anymore, i have felt fear he might even kill himself given the wrong conditions.
>>34210333>>34210333Why can't you make the account yourself? You're incredibly autistic. You learned a valuable lesson, don't let retards access your money unlimited.Get your own bank, move out and cut ties. That money is gone.
>>34210333I won't read glutton for punishment threads because OP knows the remedy but chooses not to do anything about it. He knows that he could get his own bank account, stop dealing with his brother, whatever, but he won't and therefore no advice is of any use.
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