I'M SO FUCKING TIRED OF SUDDENLY HAVING A PANIC ATTACK AND STRUGGLING TO COME ACROSS AS NORMAL, WHICH MAKES ME SEEM LIKE A PEOPLE PLEASER, AND THUS ATTRACT WEIRDOSI just had a chat with my perv doctor. Last meeting, he was very weird but I was assertive. He asked overly personal and unrelated questions, commenting about shit like the mole on my nipple (I am a guy), but I was assertive and I left his office feeling fine anyway.Now he calls me and he acts like a creep, and internally I'm having a panic attack, and he just dominated me and now I feel violated.Absolutely NOTHING happened, but I was a people-pleaser this time. He made a creepy joke and I just played along like a retard. Instead of feeling uncomfortable, I laughed at his remarks.Now I'm afraid he might stalk me or come knocking on my door.I understand that I might sound like a bitch but I don't know why I am like this. How do I stop being like this?It doesn't help that I am financially successful and physically attractive according to women, so I've had some insane people really stalking me in the past, like seeing them driving outside my house and pretending to be surprised to see me (at my own house, like why are YOU here)... help?Doctors commenting on my nipples bros..........
>>34211722literal schizophrenia ITT
>>34211722Doctors have to be fucked in the head and see people as things to survive their environment. They often make jokes about people's bodies because they are that insane at that point. He may have asked out of legitimate concern, and some being sex pests is also known.He can't do shit, he has his own little path to follow in life, nobody is gonna stray from that and go after you. You can always stop on your tracks and say no to whatever. He's in a position of power so it's easy to sue him for the littlest of things. Warn him about what you think you feel uncomfortable.Indeed, you are at the very beginning of a long road. That's the same road that takes you to be a mean piece of shit, you have to walk along it and realize where becoming assertive becomes a vehicle for your neediness and frustrations.For now, If you don't do anything at all, you will always feel offended and scared. Take up martial arts if that sounds good to you, or a team sport.
>>34211741I had a dentist hit on me every time I saw her for years. This is a persistent problem with me. It is the weirdos that I attract because when I'm having attacks, I cope with trying to seem normal. I'm attractive and financially successful, so when I am like this, weirdos think they've found someone they finally get along with. They make plans with me and I don't say no because I'm distracted with them validating that I'm normal, due to the attacks. I go along with everything.The fear I have over this doctor is because he scheduled a follow up and I need to follow the treatment plan with him, if I continue being like this, I might give him the wrong ideas and make this worse.He commented on a sun mark being my nipple, as a joke, very inappropriate. I was uncomfortable at the time but just responded with "what can you do?" If he'd do it today, I'd just say "haha yeah..." and it'd embolden himHe wrapped up today's call with "I very much look forward to treating you!" and I just responded with "ok thank you"As a guy, these are inviting signals I'm giving, I shouldn't be a bitch. I don't know what the matter is with me....
>>34211722So you want him up your ass.
