Should I bring flowers to a date?>from a dating site, gamer girl who likes painting.>we were supposed to have our first date last saturday but I thought she meant sunday. >she was waiting for me at the train station for 4 hours while I was at home gaming.>she was upset and didn't want to talk the rest of the weekend.>she asked if we can try again and meet tomorrow. I bought a small bouquet (three flowers wrapped in a subtle paper) to give to her as an apology for last week and thanks for wanting to meet up despite that incident. My sister thinks it's a good idea, the florist helped me arrange it and also deemed it a good reason for giving flowers.I have them right here ready for tomorrow, now it feels like the right thing for me but I don't know if it's a normal or adequate thing to do so I'm having second thoughts.
>>34211977Yes thats a good idea. It's thoughtful and you need to make up for the fact you fucked up
flowers are niceyou're overthinking itif in doubt: lift weights
>>34211977Wnat kind of flowers? That is sweet. Maybe add a ribbon, too.
Do it literally do itIt's a miracle she's willing to try again with you and seems to really like you, and in her mind you probably didn't have the effort and desire for her enough to even double check the date.Bring her the flowers, show her you truly care and went through the effort to care for her. There are two scenarios here:-She's particularly into it and finds it really romantic-She's not particularly into it but is absolutely flattered that you went through the effort to try, and finds it pretty funny and cheesyThese are both very good positives and certainly sets up a nicer mood for the date rather than it being centred around your previous failure.Your sister is a girl, listen to her
>>34211977You shouldn't think about what's normal. Do things because they feel right to you, have doubts only if things came out wrong. Don't prepare for failure, you are begeting your victories.
>>34211977I'd say that's a very sweet gesture. She'll appreciate it.
>>34211977Do it. You won't regret it, OP. In a world of brain-dead and brain-rotted coomers, girls typically don't ever receive flowers anymore. It's the simplest and easiest thing to do, too. Go to a store, pay $10, give flowers. And girls these days never got flowers before it used to be common but now to a girl it's the stuff of romantic legend or myth. There's tons of stories of girls crying happy tears when they get their first ever bouquet from a man, they genuinely dont expect it anymore. Do it before the strategy becomes common again
>>34211977Normally I'd say you're trying too hard with a bouquet on first date, but since you stood her up by accident it comes across as a caring gesture and low-key kind smooth. Go for it king.
>>34211977First date no. It comes off as too committal and the two of you don't even know each other yet.
>>34211982>>34211983>>34211989>>34211990>>34212004>>34212190>>34212197Thanks guys, I expected I would just get told on this thread that flowers is on the list of icks, or that entire "if she thinks you're interested then she'll lose interest in you" thing that virgins say so that I could confirm my fear of bringing flowers and have a reason to not bring them, but you're a fine group of lads.
>>34211977I won't read is this normal threads because they are posted by the usual culprits and therefore no advice is possible.
Alright guys it went well. She appreciated the flowers and we had an awesome date. Thanks.
>>34214519based
>>34214519Hell yes. Glad to hear it.
>>34211977The answer to your question is no
>>34211977Yes that's a nice gesture
>>34212376Oh, look... it's the "I won't read..." guy again.
>>34212230This. Any non simp knows you dont do this. Shes gunna see you as a simp and you standing her up, while pissing her off, probably hit her right in the instincts that youre a high value guy with a busy schedule and youre gunna ruin that with flowers
>>34215273>high value guy with a busy schedule>op was too busy being a s o y gaymer faggot to meet the bitch the first timeYeah dude is high value as fuck LMAO
>>34214519>Alright guys it went well. She appreciated the flowers and we had an awesome date.Hell yea, was looking for this thread again to check in for an update. Well done, son, you scored a W, thats the spirit. Enjoy the dates bro
anyone replying to this after reading someone waited for (4) hours is a fucking retard.Nobody waited that long for a date ever, kill yourselves.
