I've isolated the main obstacle in socializing with other early 20's folk in college. Whenever I interact with another I look in their eyes and see them as having utter contempt for me speaking to them and that makes me mad and my demeanor will change to barely concealed hostility and my speech becomes brusque and quick.
honestly the best you can do is be hyper aware of the way that you act, you might have to fake being nice until they have the chance to prove they don't have bad intentions. good luck at making friends, i believe in you
>>34212249There are two things going on. 1) you're suffering from a confidence issue. your lack of confidence makes you want to challenge everyone around you - so you're looking for people who might disagree - and reacting that way. You need to improve yourself and increase your confidence.2) No one really cares - people are so wrapped up in their own world that they're too busy. You're taking their expression to mean something when they could be thinking about feeding the cat. Chill. Nothing really matters.
>>34212249>look in their eyes and see them as having utter contempt for meYou hate yourself and are projecting. Nobody gives a shit about you, until you start being rude. You are making people dislike you by acting the way you do when all they've done is look at you. I mean this in a constructive and productive way, get over yourself.
