Let me explain Three years ago I met a girl in highschool, she was the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, but I was young and being honest she was the first time I've liked someone in such a strong manner, I still don't understand why fully, but I did, so I got scared, i never told her that, i barely even talked to her at all. fast forward to now it's been almost two years since i saw her but I still think about her almost every day, imagining what could have been, I've tried to stop and it works for a week or two but her always manages to come back in my thoughts.Some are fantasies, in ones she liked me back, I like those ones, but in others she doesn't and instead of doing nothing about it like I should I take her, I've even planned how to do it, how to get a van, ropes, where to keep her, i always stop myself, but each time I'm closer not to. I'm scared, because at this rate I will do it, and i don't want to see her scared or hurt, but sometimes I forget that and I know that there's gonna be a day i forget that for long enough and it will hurt her and myself.I don't know what to do or how to stop. I need some help
Bro, what you’re describing may not be ONLY love. It’s obsession mixed with fear. The fact that you’re planning scenarios where you kidnap someone is a hard line...>fast forward to now it's been almost two years since i saw her but I still think about her almost every day, imagining what could have been, I've tried to stop and it works for a week or two but her always manages to come back in my thoughts.You don’t actually know her. You know a memory/idea of her that grew unchecked because nothing real ever touched it. Acting on it would not give you closeness or relief. It would traumatize her, erase any version of yourself you could still live with, and permanently lock you into the worst possible outcome.>I'm scared, because at this rate I will do it, and i don't want to see her scared or hurt, but sometimes I forget that and I know that there's gonna be a day i forget that for long enough and it will hurt her and myself.The part of you that’s scared is the healthy part. Listen to it. Some thoughts are too heavy to carry alone. This is exactly the kind of thing professionals exist for, and yes, you have to be honest with them, even if it’s humiliating. Especially because it’s humiliating.If you ever interact with her again, it has to be grounded in reality. Normal conversation. No expectations. No entitlement. Fully prepared to accept disinterest and walk away without resentment. If you can’t do that, then distance is the only safe option for everyone involved.
>>34212722>yfw you spend thousands of dollars to get a van, ropes, prepare a room to keep her>yfw you're about to kidnap her>yfw shes fat and covered in tattoos now>yfw you do it anyway>yfw she turns out to be gluten lactose intolerant, has celiacs so she shits herself every few hours, and doesnt like what you cook for her anyway>yfw shes really bitchy and somehow turns the room you keep her into a mess EVEN when shes tied up somehow>yfw you have to deal with her on her period including getting rid of her tampons or pads>mfw
don't be retarded and ruin your future for someone who'll either hate you with every bone in her body or fall in love (because sometimes kidnapped-schizos be like that doe o algo)
>>34212722you need Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, because the devil is tempting you to commit sin. kidnapping is sin. sin is breaking God's law. the wages of sin is death. here's God's law on kidnapping:>Exodus 21:16 - He who kidnaps a man and sells him, or if he is found in his hand, shall surely be put to death.you know kidnapping is wrong because God's law is written on your heart (Romans 2:12-16), but the devil makes kidnapping sound like a good idea because he's a tempter. the attractive woman is bait to get you to commit the sin of kidnapping. when you commit sin, it is justification for you to go to hell. the devil is literally trying to get you to sin so you'll be condemned to hell. God is judge, man is defendant, devil is prosecutor, Jesus Christ is advocate.you can't fight the devil. you can try and you will lose. it's like that for all humans. that's why we need a savior. that savior is Jesus Christ. if you really want this kidnapping temptation to stop, you have to submit yourself to Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ would never kidnap someone. his entire life was about healing and teaching and saving souls. when you're in Christ Jesus, you want to behave like him. when you're in your flesh and without Jesus, you open the door of your mind to the devil who will manipulate you into doing evil and making it sound justified.go and join the catholic church. there you'll learn about Jesus and how to resist the devil, and likely find a woman who will voluntarily love you. also your soul will be saved and you won't go to hell. you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by joining the catholic church and accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.
>>34212722A fantasy can be healthy from time to time - but you don't live in fantasy land. If you even try to enact this - you'll have a horrible life (if you're not 'accidently' shot). You'll be treated badly in prison (if you make it to prison) you'll be treated badly when you get out (if you actually make it out of prison alive), and you'll pretty much never get another job again the minute anyone runs a background check on you - which is standard practice in many countries these days.So, for a day of living out your fantasy - you'll have a miserable terrible life. Why don't you just stick to writing stories and publishing them under a pseudonym?
Fritzlmaxxing?
>>34212722>I need some helpYes, you do. Talk to a psychiatrist.
>>34212722Great plan. What could possibly go wrong?
>>34212722Get psychiatric help.
>>34213309What makes you think this retard won't kill her after the first couple nuts? He would feel so guilty he'd kill her because he hates himself, plus he realizes that people will be looking for her. In short, if this is not a larp, seek rope
