>>34220643
Take him to the college library or a park where you can have the conversation together uninterrupted

>>34220643
If you're both spergs you should both understand that you both have extreme social anxiety, you both mask and hide your emotions and appear as robots emotionally speaking, and that you both want to skip all the bullshit and get straight to the gf/bf stage without all the pageantry.

You should just bluntly tell him: "I like you, you and I should be boyfriend and girlfriend. Would you like to start dating?"
He will say
"Yes that is good let's date each other then."

The end. Autist/sperg romance arcs are straight to the point. And if you are both spergs you both have the ability to soothe each other's social woes, like as previously mentioned, cutting to the chase and keeping it simple.

>>34220643
Stop running away whenever you see him. Invite him for lunch. Ask him out.

>>34220643
You should have deeper conversations with him over text until you become more comfortable with each other.

>>34220643
That anxiety is nature telling you not to procreate. You're dysgenic and should stay single, so should he.

>>34220780
Almost it anon - a small fix: "Hey, uhm... You're cute. Would you like to go on a date with me this saturday? We can grab/watch/go-to x place at y hour"

Cushions, cushions.

>>34220643
Diagnosed ASD guy here: just stop running away and ask him out. It's not rocket science. Say "Would you like to go on a date with me?" and see what he says.

>>34220643
Find an excuse to chat (How did you do in the test? or I'm having trouble with this book. Help me understand it or the like) It's easier to talk when there's a subject, and that can lead to more general chat

>>34220888
you may actually be right i should just focus on my studies since this doesn't seem to be going anywhere bc he won't talk .. thanks anon

>>34221125
Pathetic. That's all it took to divert you?

>>34221127
well i have low self-esteem and i didn't think it'd work out anyway

>>34221128
If you say so

>>34221128
....she said, thus guaranteeing failure

>>34220888
Based. Given OPs reaction to basic social tasks I am once again reminded, and I say this AS A JEW, of the validity of the national socialist parties eugenics programs. Kys its probably the only good you can contribute to this world

>>34221492
what?

>>34222053
>AS A SEETHING KIKE
ftfy

If you want to know what I would find helpful, find some way to corner him into some kind of structured activity or task.
Present a jar of buttons and ask him to help you sort them. I don't know.

>>34222196
You've doomed yourself

>>34223569
No my genetics already did

>>34222196
If you try, there's a chance you'll fail.
If you don't try, you guarantee failure

If you can't talk in person can you write a letter and hand it to him or talk online or something?
It gives you time to organise your thoughts and him time to respond. Great for people who find conversations a potential minefield

>>34223977
Didn't you hear her? Her genetics doomed her, she can't do it anymore.

>>34220643
If hes a sperg just be direct and tell him what to do and theres like a 90% chance he'll listen just out of actually getting attention. if my gf isn't direct about what she wants it won't click with me at all.

>>34224059
This board seems full of people will mental health issues who ask for help and then poo-poo every single suggestion lol

>>34224565
I'm just not brave enough I'm sorry I need the guy to make the first move, also if he isn't making it then he's probably not that interested

>>34224874
so give him an in to make a move. Lock him into a conversation about something he likes, and keep him there for five hours.

>>34224944
We can go like 15 minutes trapped together in the subway and not exchange a word except to say goodbye

>>34224874
>female dating tactic

>>34224874
>if he isn't making it then he's probably not that interested
Or, just not brave enough. Sound familiar?

>>34225140
Write a notice that says "do you like me?". Like a middle schooler would. He won't have the skills or awareness to approach you because his autist ass hasn't had the experience to know how to do it.
It's a real catch 22 with tism for those social skills that don't get a lot of feedback.
I had to practice study and fail a spuratic amount of times in my 20s before I found a damaged woman to put and raise my austic babies with.

>>34226091
exactly
>>34226167
no because he has slightly better social skills than me despite being male it makes me want to kms because the stereotype for spergs is the opposite
>>34226260
god that's too frightening

>>34225140
ask about video games. And if he's not a video game autist, ask about trains or cars.

>>34222951
My immediate thought was that people with sspergers would much rather debate zippers or velco as a fastening choice. Buttons are more time consuming and less efficient.

Oh shit I probably have aspergers.

>>34226812
will do thanks anon that way he'll have to do all the talking

no you stupid bitch. you HAVE to make the first move on him. you miss 100% of the shots you dont take. dont listen to the jews itt. they try to project their own mental deficiencies onto you.

do it do it do it
you will regret it, if you did not do it for the rest of your life
you will ponder and contemplate why you did not do it and what couldve been and ect ect
>t. literal same sperg who ran away from the literal angel sent from God who confessed their love from me
please listen to me
the worst that can happen is you get rejectedd and ayour fee fees get hurti
but that will heal after a month or two.
but the resentment is like a thorn in your side, to be never removed
DO IT
maybe send him the pic you posted in OP but with a (you) and (me) added. maybe hell take the hint

>>34227538
ok now youve convinced me i have to try. i know i will regret not doing it forever. thank you anon

I will make a new post (or update on this thread) on what happens when I actually see him. Right now we only reply to each other's texts

>>34230493
Wow so you could have just texted him this entire time? Why didn't you do so? If real life interactions are so awkward between you two

>>34232316
We don't directly privately message each other, it's a bit of a weird situation that I'd rather be vague about

You have two options:
>Make a move
Either he accepts and everything is fine. Or he doesn't and you'll regret having asked for a while, but will eventually move on knowing where you're at with him
>Don't make a move
Regret for the foreseeable future that you let a good chance go to waste. If you find someone else eventually, you'll still think back occasionally and feel some regret.

Option 1 gives you a 50% chance of succes, and a 50% chance of failure leading to intense but temporary pain.
Option 2 gives you a 100% chance of less intense but extremely prolonged pain.

>>34232671
Excuses, excuses, all I'm hearing are excuses from you.

>>34232686
i really really want this to happen itd be so cute did u know he lightly laughs (exhales out of his nose) when i do something funny like get on my tip-toes to see something

>>34233897
Hilarious

>>34220643
Tell him your feelings

>>34236220
Is this sarcasm
>>34236227
No

>>34236362
Yes

>>34236365
what if he just thinks im a stupid ugly sperg and too confident ...

>>34236427
If he thinks that then he didn't want you anyway.
But the only way to get with him is to ask.
You do not want to miss this chance so find out if he likes you back or not.

>>34236611
If he was that interested he would do it himself instead of relying on friends and like physically orbiting around me

>>34239473
I mean he is a sperg so he wouldnt. Maybe you have to act because I told you to.

>>34239852
But I am also a sperg I can't do it either

So, no progress?

>>34244331
No I haven't seen him irl yet and I probably won't post updates since they'll be pathetic but if we ever start dating or whatever I'll make a new post

>>34244576
I would like to read them!

>>34247172
Well I am also afraid of being too specific and him finding out or even worse getting doxxed like the love letter guy kek. But I'll try

>>34248165
Cheering for you, girl!

Bump
You WILL deliver us an update, OP.

>>34253835
Expecting a female to deliver on her "promise"

fuck him right in the bussy op

>>34254157
Surprise butt sex!

This is the second-oldest thread on the board.

I don't think an update will come soon enough to justify keeping this thread alive

>>34256404
Nope! OP is a coward, she won't do shit, even though she has literally his number and sees him regularly.

>>34220896
The whole point is that autists don't need or want cushions.

>>34256404
There is hope!

The oldest thread on the board.

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the only update is that we exchanged a few text messages over something trivial again it's still good though

>>34263188
Why are you like this

>>34263188
find another boy and be touchy with to make him jealous and watch him wither inside. you'll know

>>34263242
like what
>>34263509
a similar thing has happened unintentionally and i feel really bad over it so no

>>34263601
buy him a coffee

>>34263612
the entire point of my condition is that i don't know how to make it not awkward

>>34263635
that's the entire point of attraction, your self-conscious enough to not fuck it up because you yearn intimacy but run at a risk of rejection. So instead you keep the status quo to be in his good graces. You have to risk it, otherwise it wouldn't be worthwhile and that's where intimacy develops because one of you risked it all. The payoff isn't good the ratio of success are stacked against you but that's what attraction entails. Now the question is, are you ready to get what YOU really want? Or you're just going to settle something that is handed to you because it's the path of least resistance? It's entirely up to you but as young as you are, this will be a memory to hold, and you'd be laughing at this moment in time when you're in your fourties

Do you have any hobbies? Any at all?

creative writing is my hobby

>>34264273
tf does that mean?
You like writing novels, poems, fanfics?
Or is it a sarcastic way of saying that you type too much on social media/chatroom?

>>34264273
This is not me
>>34264334
That's not me

>>34264713
Well, do (You) have any hobbies then?

>>34264719
No to be honest

>>34263635
>entire point of my condition is that i don't know how to make it not awkward
that's what makes it a moot point, spergo

he's not Chad. he's not gonna feel like he's in any position to judge you socially. even if he really really doesn't like you he's just gonna try to get away from the situation, he's not gonna be cruel or embarrass you, he will be too self conscious.

>>34263601
>like what
Like, stalling and such. It seems to me that you're not really that interested in him at all

Guys to be honest he actually has conversations with a female friend of mine who probably likes him. Given that he actually bothers to speak when he's around her he probably just despises me and is in love with her. To get over this disappointment I will probably try to get a chad normie bf really hard, fail because I'm retarded, and end up having an anorexia relapse or something to cope with the situation. Thank you for your interest and hope in this thread.

I've cut myself over this a lot already even just now I don't know how I'll ever get over it

Ok im about to get my period this is why I was overreacting. I will not give up. We have already had a real conversation the rest will flow easily from now on as I am already determined enough

>>34266500
You go, girl

Spergalicious!

>>34266316
>I've cut myself
grow up and stop doing that

>>34268441
This is her last resort.

>>34268634
No, but this thread is

>>34268685
Do you even care if she dies bleeding?

>>34270335
I don't know her personally, so probably not, no

>>34270691
She is contemplating suicide.

>>34272683
She's just kidding

>post on advice asking for "advice"
>ignore everyone saying do something
>only listen to people saying youre a loser
for all that you couldve went on another board

>>34272846
Go, went, gone.

Anons I don't want to share too much information but something that made me really happy happened, I keep replaying it in my head and can't fall asleep at all
>>34272683
What? I never said that

>>34273368
You never realised you were spread too thin.