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Does anyone have real experience in turning your life around?
I'm about to be in my mid thirties and I don't have it in me to give up. I wasted most of life on people places and things that had zero return investments and I know my life can and should be more.
I could have better professional success.
I could have better friends.
I could have wife and kids.
I could have a bunch of money saved and a good job.

I don't have any of these things and I and Im done thinking I can't when I know there's got to be a way out.
There are people in my life that have actively tried to stifle my success for years but I'm done believing in the meme that they have any real power.
Something deep in my soul knows theyre full of shit and knows I have been full of shit to myself for allowing this to happen.
If I don't make a change now, I could be stuck thinking this way forever. I refuse to let that better life pass me by.

Do any anons have experience in totally turning a bad life around?
I wake up depressed every day knowing I could be more, It's time that I make it happen.

This might or might not be relevant but I've been told since little that I have ADHD but I have never taken medication for it, been overwhelmingly suspicious that this could be a reason I'm making things harder for myself. This thread isn't just about ADHD tho.

Please no trolling or namefagging, I need real advice.
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>>34229800
Some typos in here but the point stands
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>>34229800
>Please no trolling or namefagging, I need real advice

stop being a bitch and worrying about were you are at in life, and instead focus solely on where you want to be
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>>34229800
>Please no trolling or namefagging, I need real advice

this is 4chan fagggot, stop being a faggot
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>>34229800
serious advice you wont get better unless you have drastic change you probably are mentally retarded or something cause if by mid 30s no achievements that means u can be depressed or something and incapable of doing shit

my advice seek a therapist and start on ssris if you can find them try them for 2 month see how it goes
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>>34229817
Fuck you, solid advice though.
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>>34229820
Clean your room.
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>>34229936
I have achievements but they're not good enough for me. I want more.
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>>34230078
>This might or might not be relevant but I've been told since little that I have ADHD but I have never taken medication for it
Maybe try medication?
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>>34230130
Legitimately believe this will fix me. Always avoided it and wrote it off as crazy pills. I don't even need antidepressants, I just need to build tge drive to turn this all around.



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