I can only seem to get along with nerdy white guys who are mentally ill but high functioning. I myself am a loner black woman. I don't want things to be this way but I pretty much have no one in my life, not even family. I don't want to be this miserable, the last person I connected with went off the deep end
>>34234882birds of a feather flock together. are you bothered by the fact that they are white? or just nuts?
>>34234895The white part makes me feel like a failure because it's so hard for me to connect with what's supposed to be my in-group. Being an outsider doesn't feel good. In terms of them being nuts, that deeply disturbs me too. I'm a little whacky myself but not anything actually insane.
>>34234882Have you taken a DNA test? American blacks aren't usually 100%, if you know what I mean
>>34235016I am 0% white and 100% black.
>100% black>doesn't get along with blacks>only gets along with intelligent whitesEh, i'd colonize.Don't fret, OP. You're blessed. Accept it and enjoy it.
>>34234901>Being an outsiderhave you considered the men you are attracted to are also outsiders?
>>34235047Why are they all way too crazy/unstable thoughI just want someone not batshit to get along with long term. This is like the bizarro world scenario where it's a woman not trying to deal with the male equivalent of a bpdemon
>>34235083Only an insane white man would associate with ni- I mean- blacks. Sorry but you self-select
>>34235115That's unfortunate
>I can only seem to get along with nerdy white guys who are mentally ill but high functioning.I mean you're asking advice HERE, from the crowd of people that are effectively the crowd of people you hang with....good luck my nigga
>>34235127Same anon here. I was just fucking around. I'm going to be real with you here - I am incredibly racist. But that doesn't mean I have hate in my heart. I would totally befriend a black woman if she wasn't fucking annoying. Good luck, anon.
>>34235143That made me laugh, thanks. I'm doomed
>>34235153do you feel like you NEED to "diversify" your friend group?all my best friends are quirky white males, but then I also have my "normal" black friends...is it more so the fact your the female of the group thats concerning or that these are your only types of friends?
>>34235206I just really don't have any friends in general. I don't have a friend group or anything like that or people I regularly keep in touch with.
>>34235213How are these men insane/crazy? You compare them to bpdemons. So they're emotional, demanding, and they gaslight you?
>>34235213idk, if you're still in school join a activity clubif you're out of school, join a book club
>>34235224>How are these men insane/crazy?Some are quite literally mentally ill to the point where they seem lucid and fine and then lose their minds. Others are just malignant people and I am an undersocialized retard that doesn't realize way later than I would've liked>>34235240A book club is an excellent idea, thank you.
>>34235252Idk what you mean by they lose their minds? Do you have any examples?
>>34235357Mental illness episode
>>34234882Not a race problem but a feminism and modern problem, welcome to the problem you created, refuse to own, and will never fix. I don't know how old you are but if you are past 25 you have a 50-50 of ever being married or having a kid and if you are in your 30s your chances drop below 25%
>>34235380Feminist DESTROYED EPIC STYLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>34235388He might be using buzzwords, but he's not wrong. Why do you even bring the fact that they're white up? Also, don't you also have mental illness episodes and are just refusing to acknowledge them? Are those actually that problematic or are you just inflating things for it to be a nice story to tell online? I'm not trying to attack you here, I just see some similarities with myself.
>>34235402>>34235380Same person
>>34235411What makes you think that?
>>34235418Dubs back to back
>>34235418No but actually, why agree with something that makes no sense unless you posted it.
>>34235430I don't know, it just sounded cool in my head. Sorry. But, anyway, please answer my question.
>>34235437I will not answer the questions of a bully.
>>34235450How am I being a bully? I'm literally trying to help you.
>>34235457>You're going to die alone because you made the world bad and also if you're old even more so>You're similar to me though now tell me why you're a fuckup in detail teeheeIt's like I'm back on the schoolyard, why are you doing this?
>>34235476Ok, I see now I shouldn't have agreed with that other anon, it sounded kinda rude. I don't think you're going to die alone because of that, but maybe trying to ditch your friends out in search of a hypothetical normal friend group might make you have a bad life in the future. I really mean well, please consider what I said here (except for the first few words)>>34235402
nerdy black women are cute <3
>>34235476ignore him. he's trying to make you feel bad.
>>34235504>>34235511Thank you, good fortune is coming your way anon
>>34235522awww, you're sweet.
>>34235371>gets even more vague than beforeOkay I guess you are either trolling or just don't want help. Goodnight and good luck
>>34235529<333
>>34235476>reality is rudeThe reality is that you're going to die alone with 30 cats if you don't face this now. I can see why your single.
>>34234901I always thought black guys were the nerdiest about anime and shit. Why don't you try going to cons? Go alone, if you take a friend you will be entertaining your friend and not meeting people, or take a friend you trust and tell her you intend on meeting people and want her help.
>>34235752>I always thought black guys were the nerdiest about anime and shitThey're shounentards, it's different.
>>34234882If you get on well with a particular group of people, can't you just say "Hey, it's really cool and fun that there's a group of people I get on with so well!" and carry on hanging out with them and having fun? Why do you feel the need to ruin it for yourself?
>>34235752I'm not into anime
>>34234882fuck this thread is over here too. I could have introduced you to a ton of black people online. I grew up in an 80% black town so ALL my friends are black. But you decided to roleplay as an 85yo grandmother instead lololol.
>>34235980Wakanda post is this
>>34235980>God forbid someone has fun in their own threadDitched it because of the weird tranny shit
>>34234882So what you want white chad or a nerd with less mental illness? I just have depression nothing insane but I guess schizophrenia may be sexier.
>>34237376Nerd with less mental illness. Schizophrenia is scary
>>34237388I don't have it. I suspect you can't find the right person because you ask around like this thread then get too shy to contact. You might be in some area where everyone is crazy too for all I know like California.
>>34235430Maybe it does make sense but you don't see it wow can you imagine!
>>34237482>>34237485You're definitely the same person
>>34237490No I'm not but maybe you are the schizophrenic I mentioned. These are my posts>>34237376>>34237482
>>34237515This isn't /soc/
>>34237538You mean OP isn't a tranny?
>>34237546I knew 4chan had a pathological obsession with trannies, but bringing them up in threads that have nothing to do with them is next level.
>>34237553Have you seen /soc/ it's more than half trannies/femboys and chasers
>>34237556I meant more with that guy trying to contactfag, not actual faggotry
>>34237559Now think about that, maybe the point was that OP is going to a site where everyone is anon and doesn't contact each other is the problem. Now that I think of it i'm gonna fuck off from here too. Every board is slow as fuck lately it's obviously dying.
>>34237600If you are that guy, I specifically don't want to talk to you because you aren't very nice. I am open to talking to people but you are unpleasant
whew child...I knew hilarity would ensue
>>34237670I'm glad you're entertained
>>34237675I'll be glad when you find the human connection you desire... probably won't find it here though homegirl
>>34234901Nobody hates niggers more than black women, you'd be less like your in-group trying to resist BWC
>>34239843U rite. I hate to admit it but the answer to a lot of my problems are outside...
>>34234882what is it about mentally ill black nerdy guys that makes it so that you cant or dont want to connect with them?
>>34240526>what is it about mentally ill black nerdy guys that makes it so that you cant or dont want to connect with them?I don't come across them much. I live in a very white area, so my interactions are limited in general, but they prefer nonblack girls even just to talk to platonically 9 times out of 10 so I'm not going to push it. In general, I just interact with people I know who like me, which is pretty rare. I'm not going to go out of my way to win someone over.
>>34240555if they arent around maybe instead of trying to figure out how to make nerdy black friends you should try to get over your nigger guilt,do you think that by not surounding yourself with black people you are betraying your péople in some weird way?or could it be that because you arent around other black people you worry that you might subconciously dont like black people and by extention yourself?or alternatively do you just want a black perspective on the things you are interested in?for the last one you can probably find a forum for meeting likeminded people for the other 2 you might want to think about what event in your life lead you to think that way
